You too can live a FEMDOM life

If you are a faithful reader of my blog,than you are already aware that I am a realist vs a fantasist.  I fear that there are very few of my ilk within the fetish scene,or at the least,we would be a scarce minority. Some of my newest readers who are yet stumbling around searching for the reason that they have even entered into this realm may be wondering "what is the difference between the two"?

The answer I provide is based solely upon my personal opinion(which you are free to agree or disagree with). It stands to reason that a strong factor in many seeking out this lifestyle is fantasy,especially for you of the male orientation. It is known that males are led by their sexual appendages. They follow that which arouses them,whether it be visual or audio...so with all of the Femdom clips produced and marketed daily towards the enticement of male attention,is it difficult to believe that males are finding their way into the Femdom scene by the droves? Of course not.

Femdom is a lifestyle of wonder and empowerment. Empowerment is a powerful word. Truth be that not only are women empowered by the service of males,but the males themselves are empowered as well. As odd as that last statement sounds,in my mind it is accurate entirely. How would it not be empowering for a male to finally accept the purpose he was created for? No longer must he drift along not knowing why he is here,why he exists. He is gifted with meaning,and that meaning involves the relinquishment of all that he once believed to be true,and that in itself is a frightening prospect. Imagine if you were thrown into a society of which you were ignorant of the basic rules..daunting is it not? Yet those males of fortitude and the driven desire to immerse themselves within their destined role are possessed of strength. A strength which allows them to bend themselves to the will of another. They take upon themselves the dissolution of past behaviors ingrained by patriarchal society,and are set free from the constraints of public bindings of dictated male behavior. Their reward being that they are free. No longer a subject of conformity governed by the masses,instead they are subject to the rules of only ONE. Empowered!

Where the muddy waters flow is in the mind of the fantasist. He is a visitor in the foreign land of Femdom. Note I did not say a resident,for he is not meant to stay. Like a dreamer he escapes to this mythical realm to play out his darkest desires,but lacks the wherewithal to dwell where he cannot make the rules. He is burdened with the belief that he is entitled to call the shots as they pertain to his postulating protuberances. In many ways he reminds me of a child. A child who is set upon having things his way,and where he is the center of his own universe,which is true for the majority of human beings we share this earth with,so it is not surprising to see it so very often. He views Dommes as a means to a sticky handed end. His pleasure,and the pursuit of it sets the course of his actions. His agenda remains fixated upon himself,so he is definitely not a viable candidate for citizenry of Femdom. I say not that he has no place,merely that not one permanently. He will find what he seeks,have no doubt about that fact. Femdom offers many of those that for a price will indeed bring his arousal to culmination,so you see he fits into that sphere quite well,even if he is grossly unfit to serve for more than a jack off session.

The realist is one who engages in order to find a way to incorporate Femdom into their everyday life,and yes this is a possibility if one really wants it to be more than a waking dream. It is the rare few who are able to accomplish the transition,and this is why these males are worthy jewels within the crown of a Queen :) They make every struggle a Domme endures wading through the cesspool of misogynists worth the effort. To the select few I tip my imaginary crown :) for I know that it is not an easy feat to allow Femdom to reign over your life in a time and age where it is seen as an unforgivable weakness for a male to possess. The realist lives his life with the core belief that women are in charge,that they are the natural leaders,and that he is meant to follow not lead. He is respectful towards all women. He displays gentlemanly manners. He recognizes the reward of being allowed to live his life as it is meant to be lived..in service to women.

I have had many say to me that they cannot live a Femdom life because they have a "real" life to lead. This astounds me,and always leaves the impression that I am indeed dealing with a fantasist,for there is no excuse for not living such a life if you are male. Is there any cognitive reason why males cannot treat women with respect,why they would not be able to treat women not as objects of their own sexual gratification,or pawns for the achievement of their own ends? Those reasons appear rather selfish and self centered to me. Regardless whether you are a CEO or a fast food employee,you can serve women each and every day. You can speak to them with deference. You can train your sexually perverse mind to cease seeing them as jerk fantasies. You can donate to women's causes. You can promote the elevation of women in society and the workplace. The only thing that holds a male back is his own selfishness and sense of entitlement period!! This is something that the realist recognizes and overcomes,and that in itself earns you a "good boy"

So come not to me with excuses of cannot,but rather with an accounting of the steps you have taken to do so :) for I am ever the realist!

Findom/Femdom

MY world revolves around MY happiness,just as yours should. I am the center of MY own universe,and yours(that is if you are blessed to be serving me). I am a take no shit Goddess,which means all of the petty little games you played with others is not going to go down with ME.

I know exactly what I want,and it is your place to provide ME with those things. The cost of your suffering is negligent,for your suffering pleases ME most.

For too long now you have been like a leech living vicariously off the efforts of others who serve ME. You have wasted time admiring the gifts MY gents gave freely for MY pleasure. Pulling that chump stump imagining how wonderful it would be to serve a living Goddess such as myself. Goddess tires of you,and your selfish ways.

The road to redemption does not lay in your tighty whiteys. Your absolution can only be found in selfless giving to Goddess. That means that you will go without so that I can have. That you will find your pleasure in the joy of providing for MY wants. Sex means nothing,and orgasms even less,for the definition of nirvana is now defined as hearing ME say "Good boy".

Every hour you spend toiling at your job,now has meaning,because that job and paycheck enable you to provide for MY greed. Those 40 + hours a week are steps to your salvation. Only through sacrificing for ME shall you be made new. Made new into the perfect gent for Goddess.

No longer shall you ignore MY wishes or whims. When I make known MY desires,you shall be the first to tribute. You will give and give and give. You will not whine and cry. You will not ask for rewards. You will accept your purpose in life gracefully,and embrace it fully. No more cowardly skunking away to your hole. Step up,and kneel down at my Femdom feet with your offering already sent.

No messages will earn MY attention if they are devoid of a gift card,NOW get to it!

New vehicle

Goddess Sydney is in an excellent mood this morning! Yesterday I finally decided upon a new vehicle,good part yes,bad part,the dealership will have to order the one I want :( That is what I get for being so picky I guess lol. Goddess does not settle,and I am willing to wait a few days to get what I want. In true submissive fashion,MY brat has already handed over 2K towards the down payment :) The rest of you should take a cue from his act. You too can play a part in MY happiness.

Every day offers a new opportunity to earn your place beneath MY Femdom feet. All it takes is the will and desire to Sacrifice for Sydney. You just set your mind to the fruition of MY happiness. Anything less is a joke and an insult to submission. Submission to Sydney will never be based upon the wants of the submissive. I am entirely too bent upon MY will prevailing to ever bend for the desires of a male.

I know that you are sitting there reading MY words. Now is the time to make yourself known to ME. Impress ME,and possibly gain MY notice by sending your tribute to mzsydney34@yahoo.com via amazon gift card. No other forms of tribute accepted from untested males.

Femdom feet to worship

One finger wave to all of you proclaimed foot fetish males who are not paying tribute to my Femdom feet as you should be

If you worship my feet,than you should be spoiling them with gifts. If you adore your Goddess,than you should be quenching her thirst for gifts. You have no excuse to continue dwelling within your bubble of entitlement,and selfish satiation. There is but one purpose for your existence upon this earth,and that is making Goddess Sydney happy,so log into your amazon account,and send tribute to FemGoddess now! It feels good to give. There is pride to be found in pleasing. Happiness stems from her pleasure.

No more holding back gents,please yourself,by pleasing ME.

Beauty

Breathless and bound by my beauty

Bow before me,and offer tribute

Ignorance should never breed

Femdom is not for ill educated ignorance..atleast not the type I employ.

Stupidity should be a trying offense. Take what is posted below as a cue for what not to do,and do take note that I was actually quite kind,even if I do say so myself :)

	rocky3000 on 8/1/16 at 12:17 PM:
	Mz Sydney i am retired and make a very good slave i have been a slave before i come with income to pay my way i like corporal punishment most and your list of things seems perfect we may make a great Master/slave relationship i can send pics if you write slave rocky

	IIAAM on 8/1/16 at 12:45 PM:
	We spoke previously in March of this year,and the fact has not changed that I am NOT looking for a live in slave.

	rocky3000 on 8/1/16 at 1:01 PM:
	how about a 1/2 week or week lock down of fun?

	IIAAM on 8/1/16 at 1:28 PM:
	You persist in thinking in regards to what you desire,rather than what I seek. That is a self-serving behavior,which is not attractive.

	rocky3000 on 8/1/16 at 1:31 PM:
	most men are why the real ones like me we suffer without a Domme to be owned by honest its like living life so alone when your a real sub/slave thats why there is need for training you make me become through serious bdsm i want that ma'am no limits 24/7/365 TPE where every second i spend thinking it will be about my Mistress who hold the keys to my freedom my dream slave rocky

IIAAM on 8/1/16 at 1:34 PM: I have told you more than once now that I have no desire for what you seek. As it is quite clear that you refuse to comprehend what I am conveying,than I shall do you the service of blocking in order to save us both wasted time.

Devotion

Devotion=

noun

1.

profound dedication; consecration.

2.

earnest attachment to a cause, person, etc.

3. an assignment or appropriation to any purpose, cause, etc.: the devotion of one's wealth and time to scientific advancement

Devotion is not an elective in Femdom service,it is a required course of action.

Gents it is time to cease worshiping and devoting your time and talents to the elevation and promotion of that useless skin tag in your pants. The pleasure of the penis is far outweighed by the pride of ensuring a woman's happiness. How any of you can think that it is a mission in life to pump that puny prick is a mystery to me. You were created for so much more than a spooge spot.

To be the devoted servant of a Femdom is a lofty goal,and accomplished fully only by a select few. Why are the numbers so low,and why is it so difficult to achieve? The numbers are so low,because it is so difficult to achieve,but why? Devotion requires a release of self-serving agendas(mainly the ones which involve your cock) and that seems to be the factor which holds back 90% of so called submissives from serving as they should. You cannot serve 2 masters successfully or fully,so unless you are willing to take your hand off your dick,and stop letting it guide your actions,than you will remain in the 90%. Being in the 90% means that you are a card carrying member of the trash heap(great company you keep).

Devotion and dedication to devotion are behaviors I approve of highly in a servant. An example of such is my sissy gurl. My sissy is not in the best of health,and even underwent a trip to the local hospital this day,but even with her less than stellar health,she still made sure that she sent her weekly tribute in honor of Goddess. Mind you that I never have to remind her to tribute,she does so out of devotion,and while the majority of males would have forgotten because of their health,and employed that as an excuse,she did not,and that says alot about her character,and dedication to my happiness. I am proud of my sissy,and not just because she tributes,but because she thinks of me first. I am a priority in her life,and that is priceless!

my brat is another shining example of devotion. He tributes every single week,mows my yard,and pays for my Saturday evening meal. I do not ask,he just does. Why? Because he is devoted to making me happy. He made my happiness his goal in life. That too is priceless. 

These two creatures are what you shall be measured up against when applying to serve me. Will you be devoted,will you be dedicated,or will you be another skin sack taking up valuable space in an already overcrowded scene?

In conclusion ask yourself this,are you a walking talking pile of trash hung up on your dick

or a devoted worshiper of the FemGoddess Sydney