FinDom is not free

I see all of your complaints. They scream through the screen loud and clear. Why is it that you cannot find a single solitary attractive to you,and attracted to you Domme who does not require you to tribute? Why can't all these women just get you off for fun? Explanation=It is not fun for us to get you off...ergo you are going to pay for your playtime. OH MY GOSH,did I just say that?? You bet I did,why...cause it is the straight up truth.

Who told you that whopping lie about women being turned on watching absolute strangers jack off? They lied to you..or could it be that you rotted your last few brain cells watching porn? If vanilla women do not want to see or have anything to do with your dick,what makes you think that Dommes do? You are deceiving yourself bb. Dommes do not wake up every morning praying that some random male will pop into their inbox dick in hand,and let them watch him pull his puke stick. Get for freaking real. No one wants your dick,no one wants to see your dick,and you are the only living being that wants to touch that shit.

You are mindfucking yourself if you are subscribing to all of the patriarchal propaganda telling you that you are entitled to the time,attention,and sex of a woman. You best flush that turd of total fiction down the toilet. The only way you are going to get any attention from a Domme is if you pay for it. Oops I said it again. Here is another burr under your ass...even if you pay,she still may not give you the time of day,especially if she is experienced enough to catch a whiff of your bullshit stench. Isn't it sad that even if you give her all of the money in your pocket that she may still reject you like discarded rubbish?

Dommes learn to read males quickly in order to cut down on having our time wasted needlessly,so don't expect to be able to slide under our finely honed radar. Definitely do not expect to be able to guilt a Domme into providing you with your desires without tributing a red cent...we are immune to the "if you really loved domination,you would do it for free"..that bullshit ploy is worn the fuck out. You may get lucky making time with a newbie Femme,but I wouldn't count on it. The newer Dommes are being educated even as we speak, upon the tactics of timewasters..so hurry hurry if you want to pull the wool over their eyes.

Now don't get all butthurt,there is a place for everyone in FinDom,but for you males,it is going to cost you. No way around,under,or over it. You pay to play,and you pay to serve. You pay $$$,not with dick pics,cum shots, or compliments. Women do not need your words to bolster their egos,what they want is your benjamins padding their bank account. If you are not contributing,than you are less than worthless...ahhh poor boy. Can you be any lower on the food chain?

I know that I am coming across like nails on a chalkboard,but some of you seriously need to hear me. I am not unlike other Dommes in that I prefer longterm slaves,ones who I can build a bond with,and develop a lasting D's relationship with,but even my owned servants pay. They tribute to see me smile,they tribute to ease my financial load,they tribute because they appreciate the time I spend with them,they tribute because they adore me,and want to see to my material comforts. Tributing enables them to play an important role in my life. They contribute to my every day needs,which means that they are vital in my life.

They do not pop into my inbox expecting something for nothing..they actually expect nothing from me. Wow what a concept. They exist to ensure my happiness. They desire my approval,and my acceptance of them in my life. They do not attempt to use me for their own gratification. They are intelligent enough to recognize that their pleasure hinges upon mine. Can you believe that? That is a shocking revelation isn't it? Hard to swallow that anyone could be that altruistic. No shit..just truth.

So,you decide..are you going to be a shitstain on the toilet paper of life...or are you going to evolve and accept that one way or another you are going to pay? Up to you. Hope you make the right choice,but if not...there is plenty of free porn on the net..wack away bb.

I don't work for your money

This blog is a piece dedicated to detailing why I do not dip my toes into the totally taboo fetish of blackmail.

I cannot even recall how many times I have been approached for this type of play,even though I have outlined in every one of my profiles that I simply do not engage in it. :(

Let's hit it

1)Almost every single person(let's say more than 99%)who asks for it,is not sincere. They get off on the fantasy,not the reality.
2)It is some seriously(like federally)illegal shit. Do you want the feds busting your door in?
3)The information submitted is in almost entire certainty false..yup folks will give you fake ass info,such as a supposed GF's email addy,that is so totally their own..or a parent's or employer's phone number that connects you with someone who has no idea who the hell you are talking about.
4)The photos supplied are generally ones that A)they want the public to see for humiliation purposes or B)10 other Dommes already have these pics
5)They do not intend to ever pay...why??? Cause they want to be exposed. There entire intent is to goad you into getting angry and publishing their photos when they refuse to pay..and bingo they win without ever paying.
6)Blackmail contracts are illegal,and not even close to being legally binding..sure you can word it however you want,but if taken to court,they can have you convicted..do ya look good in orange? I don't.

I am a safe and sane type of Goddess,and this type of play does not fall into that category for me personally. Hats off to all of you that make it work to your benefit,but leave me the hell out of it.

I am honestly entirely too selfish and self serving to play this game. I want males to tribute me because they just adore me that much..because they want to sacrifice for my happiness,and forcing males to give me money does not tickle my sweet spot if ya know what I mean.

I do not work for a male's money..that is on them. It is my place to accept their compliments in the form of cash and gift cards if they are worthy of the honor of gifting me.

I do not want to take. I want to receive.

I do not coax or coerce. I want males to want so badly from the bottom of their soul to please me,knowing that the only way to truly bring me bliss is with tribute.

This is who I am,and for once and for all...blackmail is a hard limit of mine. Thank you for respecting my limits,just as I do with all who serve me.

Money gives meaning to foot worship

This summary is not available. Please click here to view the post.

Watching and waiting

Watching and waiting in the shadows will not get you a single inch closer to serving my divine self. Yes I am intimidating,yes I am strict in my requirements,yes I am exacting in my desires,but failing to impress me with your very existence is a failure. Are you a failure? Are you an actual loser(and no I do not mean that in a "here is some free humiliation"type of way).

Are you one of those males who lacks the balls to creep into my inbox with a mannered introduction? Here is the solution just for you! Send an amazon gift card of no less than $50,and I promise that I will definitely glance in your direction. Let your money do the talking for you. It speaks so much more powerfully than you ever could.

It is a sensual enticement,it is a turn on,it is worthy of attention,it is everything that you are not.

See how kind I am? I have provided you with the perfect answer. Thank me...thank me from the bottom of your wallet :)

So,come out come out wherever you are,and introduce your cash to my account. It is a match made in heaven lol

Submissives begging

Pretty pretty please with a cherry on top. Cute,but ineffective begging,unless you are begging like this pup is :)

I love when submissives debase themselves with begging. Cruel,perhaps,but definitely effective for teaching a submissive their proper place at my feet,and in my world. In my dominion,a submissive is less. Less as in beneath,below,and inferior to me. Therefore they are reduced to begging. Begging for 1)My attention 2)My time 3)to please me 4)to be of use 5)to orgasm 6)to serve me. I just fucking love it! I adore dragging out permission. I luxuriate in making them suffer in wait for my decision.

Now of course in some instances begging will be in vain,or even piss me off. When is it not going to tickle my fancy 1)when there is no financial sacrifice involved 2)when I have reached the point where I am done with you 3)when your only purpose for begging is to gain something selfish from me 3)when I have already said no...when I say no,I mean it.

It does not matter if you identify as male or female as a prospective servant of mine. You will still be required to beg at some point...just because I like it,and if I enjoy it,than you should be all for it. Get creative with it if you want to impress me. Beg in a poetic manner. Don't just set there typing out please please please...well unless you are begging me to hurt you ;) Yes yes yes I will definitely enjoy your pain and suffering for me.

Being a sadist is delicious,so remember boys,and girls BEG BEG BEG!

Tongue my soles

Who wants to slide their warm wet tongue across my soft wrinkled soles? Who is deserving of such an honor?

Last place finish

Coming at me like a race car with the green light is not going to get you across the finish line fast or even first.

On the daily I have males popping into my inbox with the fetish switch flipped on full power. This is a losing proposition for you. No woman let alone a Domme wants to be treated like a vending machine that is ready to spit out your selection when you slip a quarter in.

I realize that it is really easy to get all caught up in the fantasies playing out in your head(yup all of that porn you watched has poisoned your brain),but you gotta yell CUT when you are creeping into my inbox(no not literally yelling cut out loud either lol). What I am saying is that just like you,I am a human being. Yes I am a dominant human being,which means that to get anywhere with me,you are going to have to put down the pukestick,and treat me like a human being. I am not one dimensional. I am not a blow up betty sex doll. I am a living being who takes insult when I feel like someone is trying to use me for their own means of gratification without my consent. Is that comprehensible to you?

I know that males adore being sexually objectified,but I am NOT male,so this is definitely not a winning strategy with me. Come at me in a decent manner,with manners. Interact with me with respect. That same respect that you would accord to any other unknown woman you happened upon. Maybe you do not know how to do so,and that is very possibly the reason that you are struggling to receive any type of positive reaction from females. You will not succeed by treating women like inanimate objects created to satisfy your sexual desires. This is wholly unrealistic. Society may have taught you that it is ok to use women's bodies like tissues,or to speak to them as if they are second class citizens..and just maybe your parents did not school you to treat women with respect,but I am here to highlight the error of your ways.

If you want to get anywhere with a woman,let alone a Domme you are going to have to accept that your brain needs rewiring. Of course it will not be easy,but if you truly want to submit to me,than you are going to have to put in the time and effort,til such time as you are able and willing to come before me a changed male. A male who recognizes that his wants do NOT supersede mine,and that allowing your dick to do your talking will find you talking to yourself alone. Capiche?