How many of you gents have provided second rate service? I imagine quite a few. It is pretty much the standard for these days. I mean how hard is it to sit in front of a screen pledging to be all that your owner desires and requires,then in the next moment,log off of your pc and go about your everyday business never giving your owner a passing thought til it is time to log in once more? Pretty easy isn't it?
Those that lack internal discipline possess an ideal of service such as a passing fancy,an itch that you get scratched with the attention you crave at the moment,then disregard it til it rears it's needy head once more. What may not cross your mind is how very disrespectful your behavior is. I realize that life has a way of taking over minds and matters,but for a genuine subgent,his owner occupies his mind always,even if it is not the forefront thought when at work,or with family. He does not allow himself to forget her when the screen goes blank. He devotes time,effort and thoughts towards how he can become a better servant for her,in other words he works hard for the honor he receives. He does not rest on his laurels(past tributes,or atta boy acts). Always he seeks to improve the service he offers.
I daily read complaint after complaint on boards,sites,even twitter about the lack of decent subgents,and do you know why that is,second rate service. Second rate service as well encompasses those that do not serve at all. I am referring to the gargantuan force of fetishists inhabiting the findom scene. Those that do not want to serve,but will play at it during a cam session,or to obtain whatever it is they seek for their cock high,whether it be photos,clips,or attention. How does one differentiate between a fetishist playing servant,and a second rate service provider...basically you do not,for the end results are generally the same...neither wishes to tribute(give a gift),but atleast for the Ladies that offer services,they are most likely to get paid something(although that is not technically defined as findom).
Unfortunately the lovely Ladies who claim the title of FinDomme in my opinion are force fed the greatest amount of crap above any other Domme. Not so surprising actually. 1)They are prone to hatred and backlash from the lifestyle community who believes them to be whores,gold diggers,and sugar babies(all named are declared lower than a scat lover). 2)I have even seen them bashed by Pro-Dommes(as in those that work in dungeons) 3)They are subject to verbal abuse by males whom have no means to support themselves,much less gift a Domme(this is why they are single and prone to misogynistic outbursts,I mean would you not be angry with women,if you could not even afford a fast food date..yet sadly their anger should be directed internally rather than seeking an external target). 4)There is as well, catfights and backstabbing towards other Ladies within the findom community,and that is pathetic. What could be an opportunity to band together in support from the outsiders who detest all that findom stands for,is instead skewed into a dog eat dog competition...younger Ladies bash older Ladies,older Ladies bash younger Ladies...and do not get me started on the egos,and insecurities that eclipse the worst electoral mudslinging I have ever witnessed.
Points being 1)You must have the thick hide of a rhino to survive the onslaught of insults you receive. 2)You must have the patience of a Saint to make it through the days where all you hear are lies from males pertaining to serving and tributing. 3)You must be savvy in whom you place your trust even when it comes to other FinDommes,for today's bff may be tomorrow's worst enemy when you snag a prospective servant that she desired as her own,or a tribute amount that raised her hackles. 4)You must be intelligent enough to quickly recognize every single timewaster ploy,else you spend hour after hour,day after day, dredging through useless missive after missive,and receiving no intake for your output.
At the end of the day,and after all of the trivial trials,second rate service seems like a blasphemous slap in the face...and that is seriously one thing that could be done without,so gents please have yourself in order when you ask to serve.
*disclaimer* I am in no way stating or inferring that ALL FinDomme Females act in the above mentioned manner,nor that the entirety of Pro-Dommes or Lifestyle Dommes do either,so please take no offense,where none is intended.
No comments:
Post a Comment