Ready,willing,able

That is my question to you. Are you ready,willing,and able to serve?

Many of you of course are going to sound off in the affirmative without hesitation,but I doubt the validity of that statement. Experience has taught me that few even realize what it actually means to submit truly. They have watched a few movies,or clips(written and produced by fellow males),and suddenly they are experts upon the subject of submission,and that is laughable. Submission is more than an action,it is a lifestyle mindset. It is not a romp in the bedroom that gets you off. It is not about the objectification of women's bodies for the carnal pleasure of men. Do you honestly believe that submission is based upon the submissive merely engaging in sexual activities for their own gratification? Do you think that it is the duty of a dominant to make all of your perversions and fantasies a reality? If you are nodding your head verbalizing yes,yes,yes...than you need to dunk your dick in a bucket of ice,and wake up to what submission really means.

Being ready means that you have worked though any issues of entitlement,and self proclaimed me me me ego mentalities. That you are at a stable stage mentally and emotionally. That you are prepared to fully engage in submission,rather than hits and runs at it. That you have researched what it means to give your submission into the hands of another. That you are making this decision with mental faculties rather than physical endorsements. It is a matter of your mind saying "I want,I need this in my life",not your dick straining at the bit chasing tail.

Willing to serve..hmm this becomes problematic for those that come with that entire "I must be forced" attitude and approach. The willing need NOT be forced into doing what it is that they truly want. They require no coercion,no screaming out "get on your knees bitch". They are supplicants who recognize their place in a woman's world,and run to embrace it. The notion that one must be cowed into obedience is pathetic. Expecting a dominant to hahaha force you into their will(undeniably undisguised as your own wants) is your own selfish desires,and there is NO room for the obsession of serving yourself in service.

The ability to serve hinges upon the circumstances in your life. If one is married,then obviously there will be snags,but not ones that cannot be overcome if the dominant so desires. If you are unable to be available to a dominant any other time then when your cock is cork full seeking release,then that is a definite issue. One must be able to devote a portion of their time to their dominant. Yes we all have lives,but if you cannot even take the time to make your dominant aware each day that they are in your thoughts,then no you are not able to serve. I know that it is difficult to wait until your life has settled,and you are able to bring your best service to the table,but the experience will be all the more rewarding to both dominant and submissive if you are patient.

Cheers to those that really are ready,willing,and able! May you find your dreams,desires,and destiny encapsulated within the dominant form soon :)