There has been alot of discussion and disagreements in the last couple of months after a piece was posted by Dr Sue in regards to the subject of findom being dead. In fact I entered a comment myself upon her post,and read those that came upon it before me.
General consensus was divided as to the validity of the statement,but one thing that cannot be argued is that findom has changed greatly since the initial onset onto the scene. In the beginning findom was based upon submissives tributing Dommes without any expectations. No strings gifts. Submissives gave because they wanted to enrich the lives of those they gifted. They took their pleasure in pleasing. They realized that to give financially is the greatest of power exchanges,and relished in their ability to sacrifice for another. Findom at it's core was a beautiful submission.
One simple truth is that money=power,which is especially accurate in this day and age. Money is needed to live. Let's face it,shoving objects up your ass or flashing a dick pic is not going to be accepted as a form of currency,now is it? Can you pay your electric bill with bartering? Of course not,and none of those actions enhances the life of a woman like cash.
When did the evolution begin? Perhaps when cam sites took off,or the net became deluged with clip sales sites..no idea,but change it has,and while most will say that change is for the better,I would ask,is it really? What was once an exercise in worship of women has now become a meat market where the buyers dollar gets them a selection from the menu. It used to be that submissives would work hard for the privilege of being in the presence of a Domme,but instead now what I see is a river of males suffering from grandiose entitlement delusions. Are they honestly based upon delusions though,hell no. You can find plenty of females selling shows,items,sessions,or even sex for rock bottom prices. Is this findom though? You tell me,does it sound like what I described up above?
Will findom ever return to what it once was,fuck no! Do I wish that it would,absolutely! I detest dealing with little shits who assume that their bag of pennies can buy them my attention. I would not,and will not sacrifice my dignity to become a puppet on a string for the price of a happy meal. Dommes are not bought with tribute.
Truth is that findom has become a service environment,where males pay for what they want,just like burger king. You want to watch a female finger her fuckhole,well step right up bois and pay your dollar,or maybe you want a female to watch you pull your pud,okies all you gotta do is slip a fiver in the slot. Yup all those activities are possible,BUT only if you are hitting up accommodating females. Is this findom though? Not by the definition it began as. These days findom has became an umbrella term that apparently covers any activity where money exchanges hands.
Lemme tell ya folks,that is not the findom I engage in. Most likely that is also the reason why my inbox doesn't overflow day in day out. I am old school,and I believe in submissives submitting in the manner I choose. This does not include me watching you jack off,or "talking" males through a jack off session. My time with gents is filled with my wants being met. I truly do not care if it sounds selfish to some of you. I believe in being served,and that one cannot serve 2 Mistress's at a time(it is either ME or your dick). I will not waste my time on any male who thinks with his pecker. My happiness is not derived from your penis,nor what you insert into your ass. Making me happy is a long term commitment,not an itch quickly scratched.
In conclusion,the gist of what I am conveying,is that tribute is a gift(don't ask what you get in return),and that I am always going to require that males serve me selflessly,regardless of how much the scene changes,my expectations and requirements will not.
No comments:
Post a Comment