So you wanna be a FemDomme or FinDomme

Welcome all...


Any female who has ever come to me asking about getting involved in the findom scene has been told via myself that you must have a thick confident skin to get anywhere in the fetish scene,and it is 100% accurate. Why do I say this? Whelp here are some of the things you will get told by both males and females at some point in time.

• You are not pretty enough to be a FemDomme or FinDomme
• You are not sexy enough to be a FemDomme or FinDomme
• You are not thin enough or too thin to be a FemDomme or FinDomme
• You are too old or too young to be a FemDomme or FinDomme 
• You are not smart enough to be a FemDomme or FinDomme
• You are a whore,a golddigger,a user,a predator
• You are an insta,a fake,a fraud,a scammer 

This is just part of the gauntlet you will have to run in order to exist in the fetish scene. Onto the really fun aspect...NOT

• You will be sent unsolicited dick pics(that happens to vanilla chicks too)
• You will be sent spread asshole photos(never happened to me in the vanillasphere)
• You will be objectified and used as wank fodder by males looking to bust a nut(all the time)

Let's tackle a few myths of FemDomme and FinDomme shall we

• You have to be a cam girl(myth)
• You have to get naked to be successful(myth)
• You have to fuck your submissives(myth)
• You have to suck dick,jack guys off,and fuck them in the ass to get anywhere(myth)

Now here are some truths

• Do not base your worth upon the opinions of others! 
• Accept that you will have haters,and fly that middle finger proudly in their faces!
• Realize that insults are lobbied by the insecure,and never devalue yourself due to them!
• Never fear to employ the block hammer! Ban negativity!!
• Do not give up just because others do not believe in you!
• Knowledge is your best friend til you gain experience! Research every aspect of fetish,and play safe! 
• Recognize that not everyone is going to like you,and that is ok!
• Don't change who you are to please others!
• Know that a dominant woman will walk alone rather than bowing to the dictates of others!

**Most importantly,Be you,and believe in yourself!!**