Turn a right turn,not a left

Sometimes gents just cannot see that they are taking a left turn away from my possible attention,when a few simple word changes would suffice to sway my decision whether to reject,eject,or accept the option of follow up interactions.

One of the most typical ways males initiate conversation with me online is like this "I want to serve you"...seems straightforward enough yes? Is it enough though,NO. Why is it that I am less than enthusiastic about responding to this first move? It lacks personal depth that is why.

I want to know why it is that you want to serve me.What is it about me personally over all of the hundred other Ladies online that has drawn you to me. What is it in me that makes your soul scream out from it's depths YES YES YES this is the ONE!!! Is it because our fetishes match,or because you lust over my photos(fyi-both responses are wrong).

A greater percentage of the time,I will actually take a moment just to ask why? Why me? If it is because our fetishes match,that is not enough(I am more than the sum of my fetishes)...and Lord help you if you say that it is because of my photos(I am more than one dimensional) and appearances in the end cease to be of importance if you cannot stand anything else about the person you have promised to dedicate your service to.

Now how to make a u-turn in the right direction. Instead of saying right off the bat "I want to serve you"..say something like "I find you of interest,and would like to take the time to get to know more about you". This will get my attention far faster than any tired copy and paste line ever tried on any Domme.

To go one step further,ask yourself why I would want you to serve me,and relay that information to me. What is it about you that will enrich my life? Are you obedient,are you attentive,are you a gentleman? What makes you different than any other male that has contacted me in the past,present or future?

I have given you the correct directions gents,now it is up to you whether to take a left or a right.

Not missing you at all

That was a great song yes? Anyways this is not a post about missing someone in the sense the song plays to though. The missing I am going to speak out about,is in reference to availability and diligent efforts towards communicating in a timely manner.

We all know that developing any type of relationship be it vanilla or kink takes some time,and that can be impeded if one party is not available when the other is. This tends to happen when two time zones collide in a rub of friction :p so to speak. I have lost sleep being around for gents,and no I am not complaining,just stating that I make time for those that are worthy,and expect no less from those seeking to become my own.

Now in the onset of interactions it is supremely important especially for you gents,to respond promptly to missives,and consistently apply this,else you are going to run into issues immediately. Allowing days to lapse in between correspondence is going to lead a Domme to assume that you are lazy(or just not that into her),and not worth her time. Now if the problem stems from differing hours,do be a good pet and explain this to your prospective Lady,for most are quite understanding,and will work some type of schedule out,but you cannot remain mum and expect her to read your mind(sorry,we do not all have those super powers yet).

If indeed it is that you are not really into her,and fear having her go ballistic on you about it,well you are going to have to strap on those big boy panties,and politely relay that you do not believe the two of you to be a good match(do not,I repeat do not just go silent,block her,or delete your account on a site to avoid her),and yes this can be done in a well mannered way. There is absolutely no need to insult her on top of it,capiche? Never burn your bridges to ash,for you do not know what the future holds,and it may turn out her bff is the one Lady you crave to serve above all others,see what I am saying?

We are all adults here,and comprehend that things come up in life that cannot be avoided,and may even take you out of the scene for awhile,but it only takes a moment to dash off a note telling a Lady that you will be out of reach for an undetermined amount of time,so please remember your manners gents,for it is likely that you yourself would not care to be left wondering what the hell happened to the Lady you were speaking to. After all,it is plainly pathetic to think that it just may be you playing this sappy song wishing that you weren't missing her because you lacked decency.