down time

At last after a couple of weeks spending evenings performing volunteer activities,I am finally at a place where I can catch my breath!! Thank goodness because the heat and humidity have been wearing me out enormously since my projects were all outdoors based.

Breathing out now,and on to my next project :) Rarely is it that I simply allow myself to have a lazy day. I am just not wired that way,and idle hands do not suit me well(gosh that does not sound much like the life of a Goddess now does it ?) I am happiest though when my mind is fully occupied.

This does mean that I am not open to giving away tons of my valuable time as I am more prone to doing in the cooler seasons. It does not mean though that I am absent from the lives of those that serve me. It takes a very special type of submissive to remain under my heel. One who is able to function in life without my constant application of pressure. A submissive who is in possession of common sense,and knows how I wish them to live their lives,and does so.

Those that do receive my attention should appreciate it as the blessing it truly is. They should be doing their very best to please me,and ensure that they are enriching my life with tribute,so that my leisure time is really a time of comfort,without me having to beat them upside the head to do what they are supposed to naturally desire(please me,and better my life).

This coming week will see me spending a bit more ME time in the balance. I am going to soak up some rays,and maybe even take up an offer or two for drinks *gasp*.

As well I have been checking into some local bdsm groups...gotta fuel and feed my fetishes outside of findom. Spanking has really been my focus of late. I love the sights,and sounds of smacking a rosy red ass lol! Oh and before the thought pops into your head,no I am not looking for new real time play partners..you online fellows have to earn that honor through dedicated service online before you can even appy.

Onto an opportunity for you gents to impress and make a favorable impression. I am adding onto my deck,which means I am converting my amazon balance into gift cards for supplies...this is where you come in :) so here is your chance to put a smile on my face!! Send amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

More real time play

As of late I have been pontificating some changes in my life in regards to domination,which is a plus for some of you. The decision has been reached that I would like to incorporate more real time play. My best boy is hard at work,and unable to quench my insatiable desire for inflicting pain upon submissive flesh,so this is your chance to feel the burn for MY pleasure :)

I know that this news has some of you poking in your pants already,but before you dash one off,I want you to pay attention to the ground rules for real time with me.

1)Absolutely no penetration of any kind ie no pegging,or fisting that cock sucking abyss of yours.
2)You will NOT see me nude,nor will any part of you be touching my divine feminine aspects. The closest you will get is my foot shoved down your throat.
3)You will supply the location(plan on coming to my city,for I will not travel to you),and of course playtime is NOT free.
4)You will be bathed before coming into my presence(personal hygiene is a MUST). You may yearn to be a filthy pig,but you best not smell like one.
5)No scat play(a hard limit for me)
6)You must be over 21,and actually I prefer males in their 40's.
7)No attempts to top from the bottom. Of course you can politely inform me as to your fetishes,but I will be the one who decides.
8)A deposit must be paid upfront(this effectively weeds out 95% of wankers)

Some activities which I enjoy are paddling,flogging,humiliating you with my spit or golden nectar.hair pulling,face slapping,and the list goes on...

Now is the time to beg for acceptance :) Send your most polite inquiry to mzsydney34@yahoo.com ,and no I will not describe a session for you,or respond if you ask me to tell you how I will dominate you(that type of ploy is played out).

OTK my favorite real time play

One of the most frequent queries posed to me is "What activity do you like best"(fetish wise)? That is actually one of the easiest questions to answer for me.

I would say that OTK is by far my love. Nothing quite measures up to the thrill of hands on flesh infliction of pain. Not merely the tactile delight,but the entire range of sensory components.

Allow me to share with you my most recent intimate encounter with my real time boy brat in order to convey how delicious I find corporal punishment play.

Keep in mind that yes clothing can enhance a scene,but it is not a requirement,for I have never felt that my attire adds or detracts from my dominant self. I am simply in charge regardless if I am clad in casual or fetish wear. I digress...anyway,my brat shows up promptly at my door at 10pm(yes I like to play before I sleep to promote sensual dreams :). His eyes find me dressed in silky lounge top and pants,but as he has been owned by me for many years,he knows that he is allowed a mere quick glance at my luscious flesh before he must avert his gaze to my nude feet. That's right boys,I demand eye contact restrictions.

 In his hands is a small personal gift for me which he kneels down and places at my feet as is fitting to display his appreciation for me. I am ever gracious and allow him to kiss my minty green polished toes before he rises to assume the position I have trained him for. I snap my fingers twice which is the command for him to disrobe. He does so expediently and places his folded clothing beside my front door. I generally take my time inspecting his flesh which heightens his anticipation,and my amusement. A clap of my hands and he goes down to his hands and knees,now with a light slap on his rump he follows behind me in a quick crawl to my bedroom.

There are no instruments laying upon the coverlet which indicates my intentions to him. I comfortably seat myself upon the bed with my legs in a wide stance. I snap my fingers once and he positions his body over my lap knowing that he is not permitted to place his full weight upon me,nor is he allowed to open his eyes. I begin by lightly caressing his eager flesh,then deliver a hard swat as a preliminary work up. I smile at his wince and little quivers. I ask if he has been a good boy this week,and if he is in an extremely masochistic frame of mind,he will say no(yummy). This is the point where I begin to get moist,and I know that he can scent my pleasure in his response.

 I never start out hard straight from the get go. Pleasure builds with a steady applied pressure,therefore my slaps to his deserving ass gradually increase in intensity until his flesh is cherry red. I test the reaction of his skin with a pinch,and if all looks as it should I then turn my attention to the back of his thighs. Once they are pinked up,I return to his ass to deliver the coup de grace infliction of pain. By this time his body dances across my lap with every body jarring smack. It is almost orgasmic to hear him gasping,panting,and mewling. By this time my hand is fairly numb,and I initiate the cool down relief prep of rubbing his burning hot cheeks,with an occasional pinch or scratch murmuring that he is forgiven,and that I am proud of how well he took his punishment. This is now the time where he will slide off of my lap and face me while kneeling. I place a small kiss on his forehead in gratitude of his sacrifice for me. He crawls back to my door,stands and dresses once again assuming his demeanor as a gentleman. He hands me the gift he brought,and accepts my thanks humbly before departing until next when I call upon him.


Once he leaves I pick up my phone and invite over my lover.....yes yes yes I get excited physically from play time too :)