As of late I have been pontificating some changes in my life in regards to domination,which is a plus for some of you. The decision has been reached that I would like to incorporate more real time play. My best boy is hard at work,and unable to quench my insatiable desire for inflicting pain upon submissive flesh,so this is your chance to feel the burn for MY pleasure :)
I know that this news has some of you poking in your pants already,but before you dash one off,I want you to pay attention to the ground rules for real time with me.
1)Absolutely no penetration of any kind ie no pegging,or fisting that cock sucking abyss of yours.
2)You will NOT see me nude,nor will any part of you be touching my divine feminine aspects. The closest you will get is my foot shoved down your throat.
3)You will supply the location(plan on coming to my city,for I will not travel to you),and of course playtime is NOT free.
4)You will be bathed before coming into my presence(personal hygiene is a MUST). You may yearn to be a filthy pig,but you best not smell like one.
5)No scat play(a hard limit for me)
6)You must be over 21,and actually I prefer males in their 40's.
7)No attempts to top from the bottom. Of course you can politely inform me as to your fetishes,but I will be the one who decides.
8)A deposit must be paid upfront(this effectively weeds out 95% of wankers)
Some activities which I enjoy are paddling,flogging,humiliating you with my spit or golden nectar.hair pulling,face slapping,and the list goes on...
Now is the time to beg for acceptance :) Send your most polite inquiry to mzsydney34@yahoo.com ,and no I will not describe a session for you,or respond if you ask me to tell you how I will dominate you(that type of ploy is played out).
Showing posts with label masochist. Show all posts
Showing posts with label masochist. Show all posts
Saturday, May 30, 2015
Monday, April 20, 2015
Submission of the heart,mind,or flesh
Recently I was asked why I did not post more blogs focused on submissives,which took me back for a moment,as I clearly note that I have done so,regardless if it is a how not to serve,it remains educational. Humoring people is not a strong suit of mine,but a point may be made that I am not offering a how to manual...how dry that would be,and from the input I receive combined with my hands on experience,it would be a copy of non-fiction gathering dust on the shelf of some eccentric shop anyway. Be that as it may,let it not be said that I possess not a drop of kindness.
Submission: What is it that triggers such a response? In the wild animal kingdom it is generally brought about as a survival mechanism,for example,when two leopards are engaged in a scuffle and one gains the upper hand by sinking it's teeth into the neck of another,the one caught within the fierce bite of the other will simply cease struggling and lay still,thereby submitting in the hopes of being shown mercy.
Of course that it is not what occurs in the bdsm realm,but then maybe it does :)
Seriously though. Submission is triggered by arousal,whether it be mental,emotional,or physical.
The majority of what I personally come into contact with,are those that dub themselves "bedroom submissives",or commonly called sex slaves. Their interest in submission is based on physical arousal obviously. They submit so long as some type of sexual interaction occurs(I consider them the do me selfish sots),but that is not to say that there are not Dommes in the world who appreciate them,just not myself included. Now this may be my sole opinion,but if you are going to be a sexual slave,well you better have it going on,if you know what I mean,for it is pathetic when one sees a 60-70 year old male begging to be used in such a manner(ok I vomited in my mouth a bit). The conclusion being that once the bedroom door opens,their "submission" evaporates like cum on sheets. **To attract this type one merely needs to play upon the weakened awakened flesh with erotic displays or sexy slogans.**
Another type which falls into the physical arousal category are masochists. The interesting aspect to their submission is that it can be triggered by any of the three reasons. They may enjoy the pain of corporal punishment,or the freeing of emotional guilt for how they have treated others,even as a method of cleansing the mind,for with pain,clarity of mind can be found. For whatever their motivation,they are a pleasure to have beneath the whip so to speak,especially for a physically manifesting sadist streak.**Drawing a masochist of the physical sort to you is accomplished by being proficient with the tools of the trade,ie whips,floggers,paddles,cbt techniques.**
Mentally aroused submission:They are the ones who bypass photos of a woman,and seek out her words instead. Now this melts my butter. Commonly referred to as the "mind fuck". The effects lasting longer than any fleeting erection,and it does not require a wash up afterwards lol. This is the playground of sapiosexuals. Those that crawl into your mind,and enslave your soul. This form of submission if you had not noticed is my favored one. These are the ones not begging a Domme to pluck off looking at her pics,instead their arousal is based upon the words she utters,the way she turns a phrase. Words have become their sex,and how delicious is that! This is the type I desire to attract more of,for I am most stimulated when I am engaging a mind of intellect.**Luring these submissives into your web requires an expanded intellect,for they are not the sort to cave when they are treated to a flipped bird,loser sign,or a fuck you pay me approach**
Onto the emotionally aroused submissives,whom are perhaps the most complicated for me to connect with. They desire love,and acceptance,and often convey that wish with neediness(a pet peeve of mine). I see these types as those seeking a Mommy,or a femdom wife. Their connection must involve sentiment for them to relinquish control. If you are not feeding their emotional bond,then they will not continue to submit.**Hence the largest attractor is the ability to adhere a male to you with an emotional bond,by securing their affections**
In the end,submission is submission,just a matter of locating the type you crave. Oops I think I just posted another blog geared towards Dommes.
Submission: What is it that triggers such a response? In the wild animal kingdom it is generally brought about as a survival mechanism,for example,when two leopards are engaged in a scuffle and one gains the upper hand by sinking it's teeth into the neck of another,the one caught within the fierce bite of the other will simply cease struggling and lay still,thereby submitting in the hopes of being shown mercy.
Of course that it is not what occurs in the bdsm realm,but then maybe it does :)
Seriously though. Submission is triggered by arousal,whether it be mental,emotional,or physical.
The majority of what I personally come into contact with,are those that dub themselves "bedroom submissives",or commonly called sex slaves. Their interest in submission is based on physical arousal obviously. They submit so long as some type of sexual interaction occurs(I consider them the do me selfish sots),but that is not to say that there are not Dommes in the world who appreciate them,just not myself included. Now this may be my sole opinion,but if you are going to be a sexual slave,well you better have it going on,if you know what I mean,for it is pathetic when one sees a 60-70 year old male begging to be used in such a manner(ok I vomited in my mouth a bit). The conclusion being that once the bedroom door opens,their "submission" evaporates like cum on sheets. **To attract this type one merely needs to play upon the weakened awakened flesh with erotic displays or sexy slogans.**
Another type which falls into the physical arousal category are masochists. The interesting aspect to their submission is that it can be triggered by any of the three reasons. They may enjoy the pain of corporal punishment,or the freeing of emotional guilt for how they have treated others,even as a method of cleansing the mind,for with pain,clarity of mind can be found. For whatever their motivation,they are a pleasure to have beneath the whip so to speak,especially for a physically manifesting sadist streak.**Drawing a masochist of the physical sort to you is accomplished by being proficient with the tools of the trade,ie whips,floggers,paddles,cbt techniques.**
Mentally aroused submission:They are the ones who bypass photos of a woman,and seek out her words instead. Now this melts my butter. Commonly referred to as the "mind fuck". The effects lasting longer than any fleeting erection,and it does not require a wash up afterwards lol. This is the playground of sapiosexuals. Those that crawl into your mind,and enslave your soul. This form of submission if you had not noticed is my favored one. These are the ones not begging a Domme to pluck off looking at her pics,instead their arousal is based upon the words she utters,the way she turns a phrase. Words have become their sex,and how delicious is that! This is the type I desire to attract more of,for I am most stimulated when I am engaging a mind of intellect.**Luring these submissives into your web requires an expanded intellect,for they are not the sort to cave when they are treated to a flipped bird,loser sign,or a fuck you pay me approach**
Onto the emotionally aroused submissives,whom are perhaps the most complicated for me to connect with. They desire love,and acceptance,and often convey that wish with neediness(a pet peeve of mine). I see these types as those seeking a Mommy,or a femdom wife. Their connection must involve sentiment for them to relinquish control. If you are not feeding their emotional bond,then they will not continue to submit.**Hence the largest attractor is the ability to adhere a male to you with an emotional bond,by securing their affections**
In the end,submission is submission,just a matter of locating the type you crave. Oops I think I just posted another blog geared towards Dommes.
Thursday, August 14, 2014
Tips and advice cont
Another lovely day all to myself! I do some of my best blogs when I am free from constant distractions lol. My poor brain does quite well multitasking,but when it comes to posting my thoughts and such,I would prefer that I not be juggling 3 or 4 other activities at the same time. Forward march onto my words of experienced lifestyle femdom and findom wisdom for the males whom occupy or desire a place within our world.
Ok yesterday I went over some basics,so I shall pick up from there. I do hope that you followed my advice about educating yourself a bit. If so then you should know the difference between the designations of slave,submissive,switch,fetishist,bottom. To some these terms are interchangeable,not for me,but perhaps they are in your mind. In my estimation a slave is one whom desires to become personal property. They have relinquished their rights to an owner. They obey,are task oriented,and live their life in a fully owner controlled manner. A submissive on the other hand is on a journey of exploration. They desire to please and serve,but they are not able or willing to dedicate their entire existence to doing so. Being a switch is a bit trickier. Some submit only in certain situations or to a specific sex. They may be submissive in their everyday life,yet in the bedroom they command,or vice versa. A fetishist is not a person that serves. They are generally geared toward feeding their personal fetish. These are the types that you see more as clients than servants. Bottoms to me equate with receptive play partners. They are not necessarily submissive,in fact they may be a switch,a masochist,or low and behold a dominant whom enjoys bottoming in certain defined activities. It is very important to know where you fall on this scale in order to begin your search. If you know not yourself,then how are you to find anyone compatible?
Once you have figured out what you are(there is even an online quiz which will aid you,google will bring it up for you). Now it is time to decide which activities you would most like to engage in. I have no doubt that there are plenty of fantasies playing out in your mind. Ones which stimulate your desires. Do you dream of being held tied down at the mercy of a dominant freed from the constant constraints of life? Does the thought of being stripped of ego and clothing just do it for you? Do you envision a more feminine you? Do you pray to reverse roles,and become a naughty little cock slut? There are too many kinks for me to name in a simple post,but I am sure that you understand the point I am trying to make. Now a key bit to keep in mind is that some fantasies are meant to remain that way elsewise you fall out of the entire realm of safe,sane and consensual. Whilst you may masturbate to the daydream of having a dominant castrate you,that is so not going to happen even in an unconventional relationship. It takes time and experimentation to figure out what you like. I mean I used to believe that I would enjoy bottoming in a bondage scene,but once tried,I found out that it was not for me. In fact an activity I at first found extremely distasteful soon became one of my favorites. Try being open minded to activities with the exception of those that are illegal.
That is all for the day boys,Goddess is going poolside :) TBC....
Ok yesterday I went over some basics,so I shall pick up from there. I do hope that you followed my advice about educating yourself a bit. If so then you should know the difference between the designations of slave,submissive,switch,fetishist,bottom. To some these terms are interchangeable,not for me,but perhaps they are in your mind. In my estimation a slave is one whom desires to become personal property. They have relinquished their rights to an owner. They obey,are task oriented,and live their life in a fully owner controlled manner. A submissive on the other hand is on a journey of exploration. They desire to please and serve,but they are not able or willing to dedicate their entire existence to doing so. Being a switch is a bit trickier. Some submit only in certain situations or to a specific sex. They may be submissive in their everyday life,yet in the bedroom they command,or vice versa. A fetishist is not a person that serves. They are generally geared toward feeding their personal fetish. These are the types that you see more as clients than servants. Bottoms to me equate with receptive play partners. They are not necessarily submissive,in fact they may be a switch,a masochist,or low and behold a dominant whom enjoys bottoming in certain defined activities. It is very important to know where you fall on this scale in order to begin your search. If you know not yourself,then how are you to find anyone compatible?
Once you have figured out what you are(there is even an online quiz which will aid you,google will bring it up for you). Now it is time to decide which activities you would most like to engage in. I have no doubt that there are plenty of fantasies playing out in your mind. Ones which stimulate your desires. Do you dream of being held tied down at the mercy of a dominant freed from the constant constraints of life? Does the thought of being stripped of ego and clothing just do it for you? Do you envision a more feminine you? Do you pray to reverse roles,and become a naughty little cock slut? There are too many kinks for me to name in a simple post,but I am sure that you understand the point I am trying to make. Now a key bit to keep in mind is that some fantasies are meant to remain that way elsewise you fall out of the entire realm of safe,sane and consensual. Whilst you may masturbate to the daydream of having a dominant castrate you,that is so not going to happen even in an unconventional relationship. It takes time and experimentation to figure out what you like. I mean I used to believe that I would enjoy bottoming in a bondage scene,but once tried,I found out that it was not for me. In fact an activity I at first found extremely distasteful soon became one of my favorites. Try being open minded to activities with the exception of those that are illegal.
That is all for the day boys,Goddess is going poolside :) TBC....
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