Monday, November 30, 2015
Saturday, November 28, 2015
Transparency for dummies
One of the chief complaints lodged by males is that they are not mind readers,which is understandable,yet even with it all spelled out in the open,you still fail. How can that be? I know that I am not alone when it comes to transparency regarding wants. I have no hesitancy about laying it on the line for all of you to see,yet each and every day more and more males go into the refuse bin when speaking with me.
What is so very difficult about comprehending my position? Seriously I would like a tangible explanation.
READ CAREFULLY & ABSORB FULLY
I want only males who possess no self serving agenda,for I am not all about getting males off(fact is that I would absolutely love to see all males cock locked),maybe then they would be free to cease thinking with the head which is self absorbed.
I want only males who place me as a priority in their life.
I want males who give generously and graciously of themselves,which includes,time,devotion,and finances, YES I FUCKING SAID FINANCIALLY. No fin=no dom=no dom=no fin etc..... Is that clear enough? I want the control aspect of domination,but no I will not accept the domination without the financial,is that crystal? Combine the domination and the financial,and I am a happy Domme!
I want males who have their shit together. I am not I repeat NOT,Prince Charming who has come to rescue you from whatever ate up scathole you have ran your life into. If your head is up your ass,whelp I do not intend to shovel it out for you.
I want males who come to me willingly. I am not a sister of Conan the Barbarian,here to strong arm you into serving me. If force is your thing,fine,but that is not my style,so don't ask. It is not a secret that many of you long to suck dick,so don't try to play it off that you really don't,but that you would do it in my honor,come the fuck on,just own up to being a cocksucker wannabe.This goes along with males willingly tributing me. I am not a bully that is going to beat you up for it figuratively,and yes that includes you giving me your cc info to use(sheesh that is a quick way to end up in an orange jumper)!!
I want males who know what the word loyalty means,and actually embody the definition.
I want males who are able to communicate,which is not confined to one word responses. Take note when I say regular communication,and no that is not just when your cocklette gets hard,that means putting in the effort each and every day.
I want males who are desperate to serve ME,and me alone. Directionless desperation is not flattering in any shape or form,so for those hungered to serve just anyone,you are not for me.
Couldn't get any clearer. Feel free to thank me :)
What is so very difficult about comprehending my position? Seriously I would like a tangible explanation.
READ CAREFULLY & ABSORB FULLY
I want only males who possess no self serving agenda,for I am not all about getting males off(fact is that I would absolutely love to see all males cock locked),maybe then they would be free to cease thinking with the head which is self absorbed.
I want only males who place me as a priority in their life.
I want males who give generously and graciously of themselves,which includes,time,devotion,and finances, YES I FUCKING SAID FINANCIALLY. No fin=no dom=no dom=no fin etc..... Is that clear enough? I want the control aspect of domination,but no I will not accept the domination without the financial,is that crystal? Combine the domination and the financial,and I am a happy Domme!
I want males who have their shit together. I am not I repeat NOT,Prince Charming who has come to rescue you from whatever ate up scathole you have ran your life into. If your head is up your ass,whelp I do not intend to shovel it out for you.
I want males who come to me willingly. I am not a sister of Conan the Barbarian,here to strong arm you into serving me. If force is your thing,fine,but that is not my style,so don't ask. It is not a secret that many of you long to suck dick,so don't try to play it off that you really don't,but that you would do it in my honor,come the fuck on,just own up to being a cocksucker wannabe.This goes along with males willingly tributing me. I am not a bully that is going to beat you up for it figuratively,and yes that includes you giving me your cc info to use(sheesh that is a quick way to end up in an orange jumper)!!
I want males who know what the word loyalty means,and actually embody the definition.
I want males who are able to communicate,which is not confined to one word responses. Take note when I say regular communication,and no that is not just when your cocklette gets hard,that means putting in the effort each and every day.
I want males who are desperate to serve ME,and me alone. Directionless desperation is not flattering in any shape or form,so for those hungered to serve just anyone,you are not for me.
Couldn't get any clearer. Feel free to thank me :)
Friday, November 27, 2015
This is why I regularly post the rules
One of my readers questioned as to why I would feel the need to repost my rules and requirements..well let's just say that since I posted yesterday in regards to my wishes,the following message is the first I received afterwards
"amazing profile ma'am! I am new to this so hoping my approach is not rude as i know i have a ton to learn still and also working on a detailed profile of my own. I truly hope to find a mature woman to mold me and serve her to be the best of my abilities as i have always felt like i was born to serve and hoping to stop denying this feeling and start a new life serving. I work construction and love reading, movies and activities outside. i do not smoke or drink. I feel that i would excel at domestic duties, humiliation and body worship but also know it is up to my owner to decide how i will be used. I am an only child from strict religious upbringing and do still currently live at home however i saving up to hopefully relocate at some point to serve 24/7. hope you will consider me and hope to hear back and get to know more about you ma'am." (Mind you that he is a 20 yr old male)
Now I am going to paste the parts of my profile which conflict with what you just read,and you tell me,do you think that he even bothered to do me the courtesy of reading my profile?
" My name is Mz Sydney,and I am to be addressed as such(not Miss,Ma'am or Mistress)."
"amazing profile ma'am! I am new to this so hoping my approach is not rude as i know i have a ton to learn still and also working on a detailed profile of my own. I truly hope to find a mature woman to mold me and serve her to be the best of my abilities as i have always felt like i was born to serve and hoping to stop denying this feeling and start a new life serving. I work construction and love reading, movies and activities outside. i do not smoke or drink. I feel that i would excel at domestic duties, humiliation and body worship but also know it is up to my owner to decide how i will be used. I am an only child from strict religious upbringing and do still currently live at home however i saving up to hopefully relocate at some point to serve 24/7. hope you will consider me and hope to hear back and get to know more about you ma'am." (Mind you that he is a 20 yr old male)
Now I am going to paste the parts of my profile which conflict with what you just read,and you tell me,do you think that he even bothered to do me the courtesy of reading my profile?
" My name is Mz Sydney,and I am to be addressed as such(not Miss,Ma'am or Mistress)."
"What I do NOT seek:
*males under 35
*sex or oral slaves
*maids
*husband,boyfriend,fwb's,hook-ups,dates
*promotional slaves ie males to promote me via social media outlets
*friends(I have plenty of those)
*personal toilet(just no)
*live in servants"
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Thursday, November 26, 2015
flogging that horse
Here we are dear readers once more covering ground that has already been trod upon over and over,yet the need arises to speak of past posts in order to educate those that have arrived since.
The first issue to touch upon is the lack of desire on my part to take on a full time live in servant. A ridiculously redundant amount of the contact I receive comes from ones who envision themselves in such a position,and whilst yes I know that I am wonderful and perfect...the scenario would not be.
1)It takes alot of time and energy to train a male 24/7,which I do not possess,not to mention that I highly value my private time.
2)Living in is not the fantasy the majority believe it to be,for there is no all day everyday play. I realize that it may come across that way,especially if you are watching alot of femdom porn,but reality is not scripted,and no one and I mean absolutely no one can maintain scenes 24/7. Human beings certainly are not wired that way.
I have read copious amounts of the fantasies running through the heads of many males,and they are just that,fantasies. It sounds good I know,but it is not going to happen.
I actually either laugh or shake my head when I see some of you saying how you expect a Domme to come kidnap you away from your shitty life(only happens in the movies). I am not saying that it is not perfectly ok to have fantasies,only that you recognize them for what they are.
The second issue:There is no way to serve me without tribute. In your perfect world it would be true,but alas it is my world that you are trying to insinuate yourself into,not vice versa,so the rules are constructed per me,and carried out via you,and that involves displaying your appreciation of my person and attention with tribute. Even my real time pet pays tribute(every week without fail)..why does he..I mean I know some of you are asking "what does he get out of that?" What he receives is the satisfaction of pleasing me. He adores me,he worships me,and knows that it is his purpose in this lifetime to ensure that my wants are provided for,all of which aid him in always submitting to his need of submission. My dominance gives meaning to his life,and if you still cannot comprehend that,than I cannot help you.
Third:You must serve an online probationary period before ever kneeling at my literal feet,and yes tribute is required during probation. All of the tribute in the world though will not earn you a spot if you have not taken the time to prove yourself to me,which involves effort and dedication to the goal of being in my presence. Many assume that I will respond positively to males who reach out to tell me that they are in my city,or will be soon,and ask to meet..not going to happen. No one is exempt from the mandatory probation rule. NO ONE. I take my safety seriously,and so should you.
Fourth:I do not offer services. I hate flogging this horse :( Do not ask me to sell you cam time,or photos.
Fifth:Sex is NEVER an option with me..now just to clear away misconceptions,I consider sex as being defined by oral,anal(yup that includes pegging),handjobs,footjobs,or vaginal. You will not see me nude,you will not see me unclothed at all,and if you come at me with unsolicited photos of your cock,or ass..I will block you. Do not ever even ask if I want to see such sights!! Only remit the photos that I request.
Last for the day,but certainly not least. Always address me as either Mz Sydney or Goddess. I am not your buddy down the street,or the female you are trying to creep on,so leave off with the "wats up" "hit me up" "hey" shit lines ok. I like old school manners :)
The first issue to touch upon is the lack of desire on my part to take on a full time live in servant. A ridiculously redundant amount of the contact I receive comes from ones who envision themselves in such a position,and whilst yes I know that I am wonderful and perfect...the scenario would not be.
1)It takes alot of time and energy to train a male 24/7,which I do not possess,not to mention that I highly value my private time.
2)Living in is not the fantasy the majority believe it to be,for there is no all day everyday play. I realize that it may come across that way,especially if you are watching alot of femdom porn,but reality is not scripted,and no one and I mean absolutely no one can maintain scenes 24/7. Human beings certainly are not wired that way.
I have read copious amounts of the fantasies running through the heads of many males,and they are just that,fantasies. It sounds good I know,but it is not going to happen.
I actually either laugh or shake my head when I see some of you saying how you expect a Domme to come kidnap you away from your shitty life(only happens in the movies). I am not saying that it is not perfectly ok to have fantasies,only that you recognize them for what they are.
The second issue:There is no way to serve me without tribute. In your perfect world it would be true,but alas it is my world that you are trying to insinuate yourself into,not vice versa,so the rules are constructed per me,and carried out via you,and that involves displaying your appreciation of my person and attention with tribute. Even my real time pet pays tribute(every week without fail)..why does he..I mean I know some of you are asking "what does he get out of that?" What he receives is the satisfaction of pleasing me. He adores me,he worships me,and knows that it is his purpose in this lifetime to ensure that my wants are provided for,all of which aid him in always submitting to his need of submission. My dominance gives meaning to his life,and if you still cannot comprehend that,than I cannot help you.
Third:You must serve an online probationary period before ever kneeling at my literal feet,and yes tribute is required during probation. All of the tribute in the world though will not earn you a spot if you have not taken the time to prove yourself to me,which involves effort and dedication to the goal of being in my presence. Many assume that I will respond positively to males who reach out to tell me that they are in my city,or will be soon,and ask to meet..not going to happen. No one is exempt from the mandatory probation rule. NO ONE. I take my safety seriously,and so should you.
Fourth:I do not offer services. I hate flogging this horse :( Do not ask me to sell you cam time,or photos.
Fifth:Sex is NEVER an option with me..now just to clear away misconceptions,I consider sex as being defined by oral,anal(yup that includes pegging),handjobs,footjobs,or vaginal. You will not see me nude,you will not see me unclothed at all,and if you come at me with unsolicited photos of your cock,or ass..I will block you. Do not ever even ask if I want to see such sights!! Only remit the photos that I request.
Last for the day,but certainly not least. Always address me as either Mz Sydney or Goddess. I am not your buddy down the street,or the female you are trying to creep on,so leave off with the "wats up" "hit me up" "hey" shit lines ok. I like old school manners :)
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