Welcome to my slice of Female Supremacy
Today I am going to get into the discussion of a serious with societal side effects topic. What could be the star of my post today......my revulsion, abhorrence, utter hatred of the patriarchy and why I feel that way.
Yes I know that "people" like me are supposed to keep my posts comprised of sexy, naughty, tantalizing ,stimulating pictures and revelations, but this is my blog, and I will post what I please.
With all of that said, here we go.
I have touched upon the toxicity of the patriarchy before, and today we are going to dig deep into my thoughts as to why it is poisonous to women.
Why is it poisonous to women? Have you ever looked at today's advertising? How many of them portray women in a purely objectified sexual manner? They claim that sex sells, and I know for a fact it does, but who is it's targeted audience? Men. So, they drape a scantily clad woman over the hood of a vehicle, they show a video of a woman with large unbound breasts bouncing around in slow motion with every vibration of a rifle shooting. They film a commercial of a man showering with a new bodywash, and when he goes out, you see him surrounded by clamoring women who are barely dressed. You see where I am going with this yes?
Ok, now tell me what all of these visual representations have in common? Let me help you with this one. The women are always young and, thin with abundant breasts. Generally they will have long hair, whiter than white smiles, flawless skin, and figures. Why is that? Why are they all basically carbon copies of each other physically? Ah...that is the patriarchy in play. That good ole boy system set up the parameters of what is attractive, and they condition other males to follow their example by repetition of visual stimuli in the media.
It does not require a genius to figure this out. You tell me, how many VS models do you see on the runway who are larger than a size 4? How many centerfolds in swank mags do you see larger than a size 7? When you frequent a hooters establishment, do you ever see a woman bigger than a size 8? How about when you slide into a gentleman's club..what do those women look like physically? I already know, so leave off with fabrications.
You may be saying, "I see your point, but men like the body type and age set they like"..sure they do, but why? Who told them that in order for a woman to be viably attractive, she must be young, thin, with big breasts? Were these men born attracted to this type, or were they inundated since childhood to seek out the representation that has been driven into their developing psyches? Nature or nurture?
How does this negatively impact women? Well let's see. It causes depression, some even to the point of suicide, and social anxiety for women who do not fit this mold. It leads other women to obtain plastic surgery so that they can be shaped more into the ideal. It poisons women into believing that they are not of value if their reflection does not mirror these women. It causes eating disorders in young women, which in turn has long term detrimental health effects. Women will starve, suffer, and even go under the knife, but for what? Men, that is why. It is because they have bought into the entire philosophy of "a woman is worthless if men do not find her attractive"..and that my friends is the biggest line of bullshit I have ever heard!
The repercussions of allowing the patriarchy to define beauty are too high. They are costly, and sometimes deadly. They erode the very confidence that a woman needs in order to thrive. They force women onto a path of self-hatred. They lead women to believe that they are ugly, disgusting, and unworthy of being in public. Sounds like quite the life for a woman who doesn't fit the ideal huh? They publicly shame women of larger sizes. They take delight in calling these women out as whales on the pretext that they are just trying to help them get healthier (that is the worst joke I ever heard). Oh and Lord help you if you are an older woman..well hell no man wants you then, cause your body is used up. And yet through it all..they do not deign that men must align to a specific physical representation at all. Why is that? Could it be because the men defining beauty are overweight, balding, viagra popping shortchanged dick size male misogynists? That is my personal theory. Feel free to try to change my mind.
In conclusion, I do hope that a few minds were opened by the relay of my thoughts, or at the very least a couple of blinders were knocked out of sync.
Hello to one and all who have found their way to my slice of femdom.
I am not a fan of shades of grey when it comes to submissive males knowing exactly where I stand, and my limits, so in that vein I shall endeavor to clear up a misconception which was brought to my attention today.
I am NOT an unattached female. I am not single and ready to mingle with beta males, and even if I were unattached, I would not be drawn to date betas. I do not care how big your dick or even your wallet is, if you are coming into my service with the expectation that we are going to be dating, sleeping together, or anything remotely similar, you are in for a pitiful letdown. That will never be in the tarot cards for us.
Yes I want you to love me, but that love must come with a tether which forces you to understand that a servant is all you will ever be to me. It will never evolve into the "some kind of wonderful" type of romance or even a "9 1/2 weeks" torrid affair. Do not allow yourself to be deluded into believing that you are more than you are to me.
I have never hidden the fact that I am not available, nor that I am NOT attracted to beta males. This is not going to change, and no you cannot convince me otherwise. I am happy with my romantic life, and your only available role in regards to my love life, is that of a cuckold. Of course I adore when males are intelligent enough to recognize their place, and signify it by sending gift cards to provide for items that my significant other and I will both enjoy, but you possess zero chance of replacing him in my affections, so be a good boy, and get sending sweet little cucky gifts :)
Have I made myself clear? Yay..and yes I was serious about getting on the gift giving wagon.
Welcome to the Femdom empire of Goddess Sydney Claire
This is my realm, and my control reigns supreme here.
This is my wonderland, but alas you possess no entrance ticket. Why is that? Could it be because you have failed to be worthy of any distinction in my world? I do think that may be the very reason.
You are thereby consigned to the hell of only catching the minuscule glimpses I toss into the scene. You are barred from the honor of knowing me in any manner other than the superficial...how very sad for you. I would almost say that I pity you, but that would be a lie, for I think of you not at all.
The path to my domain is indeed narrow, and only the chosen few shall ever kneel at the feet of my divine self. The gate will forever be closed to those who fail to come humble, selfless, and generous. Woe is you little cockwomble.
I cannot even imagine what it must be like to be frozen out, to be banished in the dark abyss of my disregard. How does it feel? Do you wake every day wishing that you could change your circumstances, and my opinion of you? Do you sicken of being so far beneath my notice that you might as well not exist?
What are you willing to do? How far are you willing to go? What are you willing to sacrifice in order to gain your heart's desire in service to me? No, don't bother me with telling me..show me...show me how desperate you are to warm yourself in my presence. Shower me with your appreciation, shower me with your adoration. Leave off worthless words, and bring forth the actions which will alter your life forever.
If you continue to lurk and wait, you just may find yourself eternally damned without my guidance, my domination, or even a smidgen of my regard. Wake up little fool, for you are pissing your chance away upwind. Know truthfully that I shall not miss you at all, but you on the other hand will regret the lost opportunity til the day you finally wither in the flesh, and time absconds with your memories. Ask yourself once more...is this really how you want your life to be..is it enough for you?
You know what you must do...so do it! No more excuses, no more lies.
Welcome to those that brave the gauntlet of choppy findom seas to reach my Fempire :)
I enjoyed a lovely disconnected weekend! For the past couple of months, I have been getting away from my electronics on the weekends, so that I can reconnect with simply living my life unencumbered from the distractions of the internet. It is absolutely glorious! I opened up my mind, and drove up to KC to visit the Truman Library. It was awesome by the way.
I have gained so much clarity from the disconnect experience. I used to believe that I had to be online all of the time in order to be relevant in the findom world, but ya know what...relevance is a matter of perspective. I never aimed to be the darling of findom, or the brightest star, or even the most financially successful. My goal has always been to just be me, and that me is not glued to the net.
I do not want to sell a million clips, or reach a million followers, or listen to a million sycophants falsely proclaim their unwavering devotion. My aim is much more singular in nature. I seek out, and embrace only those that honestly desire to be of use to me...not for a moment, or the space of time it takes to jack off. I am referring to those rare jewels who really do want to enrich my life, and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out the difference between the 2 types of males who inhabit the findom scene. What are the 2 types you ask..simple 1)Those who want from you 2)Those who want for you. Can you guess which type I desire as much as I would desire to drink curdled milk? Bet ya know :)
One of the other tidbits I have seen through opened eyes, is the sheer shallowness of the male mindset online. I can take one look at a female online, and know how well she is going to be received. How is that possible? It comes from constantly watching how males interact with women, who they choose to speak to, follow, and tribute. I have no doubt that others can see it as plain as day as well. It is not a guarded secret my friend. It simply is what it has always been, and always will be, and to be honest, I weary of those inane games. I have no desire to try to play at being something I am not.
Many have doubted me when I stated clearly that I am not here to make cocks cum, or that I do not find it complimentary when males reduce me down to my sex. I am not present in this lifetime for males. It could not be more clear. I am not all about making males feel special, worthy, relevant, or even wanted. I do not need to, and I seriously could not care less.
While on the subject of why I am not in existence, I am definitely not a trained therapist, so please, if you have mental health issues, seek a professional, and no I do not mean a dominatrix. In order to be successful in your submission, you must be healthy in mind. You need to have your shit together in order to serve. That is the truth. Submission will not cure you of mental health issues. It will not make all of your ills vanish. It may mask your problems for a short time, but it is not a cure, so if your heart is set on serving, get yourself set first.
So, unless you are serious about being an asset to me, I will be as evasive as smoke in the wind my friend.
I look forward to hearing from those of you who are prepared to dedicate your existence towards my happiness..to the rest I say, you have ceased to exist in my Fempire.
Welcome one and all to the Femdom Empire of Goddess Sydney Claire
I am massively excited!! Why why why? Cause I am picking up my new ride tomorrow..subby funded of course :) I adore my life, and you adore me.
Are you ready to make that change in your life? Are you ready to be owned by a woman who knows exactly what she wants, and when she wants it, without a single qualm about demanding her due from the male species? Are you ready to serve a Goddess who will never allow you to forget your purpose in life? Do you know what that purpose is?
You sole purpose in life is to serve Sydney. To do any and all things I require. To sacrifice wealth, and sex life for me. To live for my happiness. To truly become selfless.
I realize that you get all caught up in your selfish self, but that is just making your life a misery. You will NEVER be at peace with yourself so long as you focus on you. Enrichment, and satisfaction comes from serving Sydney with all of your being.
You will not stop striving to better yourself for me. You will work long and hard, scrimp, suffer, and finally ejaculate that big load of cash into my hands. Doesn't that sound absofuckinlutely amazing?? What a grand life for you. You will receive the pleasure of knowing that you have pleased me, and as a male that should be a primary goal. You want to surpass your goals don't you? Of course you do, and I am here to guide you down the path to your final destination at the feet of Sydney Claire. Your Goddess, and your purpose.
Come little puppets, and you will at long last find your place.
Welcome welcome to those that have ventured this far into the realm of Femdom Goddess Sydney Claire
Do take a seat, and get comfortable so to speak, because this may take a hot moment.
I have been mia for some time over the last few months, and a few of you did reach out to ascertain whether I was well, and I do want to relay that I appreciate your concern on my behalf, but all is well with me. It is quite easy to tire of riding the merry go round over and over, and what I mean by that, is that my brain sickened of hearing the same excuses, and attempts at deceit on the daily. I needed a break from the cycle, so I logged off, and took it upon my self to travel around the states, and strengthen my bonds with family, and friends, which on it's own did much to alleviate the disappointment of continuing online drama sagas.
I will tell you right now that if you spend inordinate amounts of time online interacting with males, than you will soon tire as well. Online behavior is not reflective of real life actions, least I surely hope not, for if so, than males are doomed as a sex. I have encountered the very worst type of behaviors displayed by males online, and it unfortunately does skew one's views and opinions in relation to the entire gender.
Fortunately for me, clarity did come with distance, which means that I am back, but I will definitely be handling things much differently. My tolerance for lies, selfishness, and drama is at an all time low. Life truly is too short to accept into my company those that are undeserving of it.
Other changes include
What is it that I do not care about...your dick, your erections, your orgasms. None of the mentioned items are essential or even relevant towards my happiness, and satisfaction in life, and since my FemDomPire is all about me, well that means that anything or anyone who is not benefiting the FemDomPire is undesirable, and rejected.
The entirety of male focus online is their dick, and taking action to gratify that appendage. This is unacceptable in service to me.
I do not want to hear about what your dick wants. I do not want to see pictures of your dick. I do not want to help you make your dick ejaculate. I want nothing to do with your dick period.
The goal of a submissive is to please whoever holds their reins, and that should be the entire basis behind their statements and actions. There is no room in the relationship for submissive self. You are either serving, or you are seeking to be served, and the latter is not welcome in my empire.
I was a no nonsense woman prior to my vacation, and even more so now. I will allot zero time to those that do not have themselves sorted out in submission. There is no in between with me. You are either here to submit to my will, or you will not sit in my inbox. If you are hoping to find a woman who will play your games, than you are seeking in the wrong direction. I am not about to cater to you or your wants. A strong woman is not ruled by a man's cock. She follows her own path, and is stronger for the sake of that decision, and I am a strong woman.
So now, if you are serious in your submission, and prepared and willing to be ruled by a woman who an iron will, than you have come to the right place, so query up, and get on sending gifts to worship a Goddess among women.
