Welcome poppets,
Today I speak to you about being a financial submissive. This is entirely different than being a service submissive, a sexual submissive, a fetishist, a client, a customer etc...
A financial submissive is the ONLY type of submissive I am interested in welcoming into my stable. No doubt this seems unfair, but life is not fair, and never delude yourself into thinking that it is meant to be. Life is intended to be lived, and enjoyed, but it was not created as an equal playing ground. Some people simply are better than others. Some people are more intelligent than others. Some people were born with financial advantages, and some have fought their way to the top of tier through sheer determination.
I appreciate people who are laden with a determined spirit. Ones who are driven to succeed. People who will push past discomfort, and strive forward towards the culmination of their goals. Is this you? Are you one of the select few who will impress me? Are you a financial submissive?
Financial submissives differ from the everyday run of the mill submissives cluttering the findom scene, in that they are not buyers with demands and expectations. Customers repulse me. They are insincere, and seek only their own gratification. What in the hell is attractive about a man who cares only for his own pleasure? A man who lacks consideration for woman and their wants and needs. Why would any woman value such a man? A man who offers a woman nothing, is worth nothing, and I have no use for a useless man.
Financial submissives give. They give without ulterior motivation. They give without coercion. They give simply to bring happiness. They give because they recognize that their contribution can make a difference in a woman's life. They give out of appreciation for a woman's time and energy. They give because it is ingrained within them to do so.
You may consider these men to be saps, due to the fact that they are not receiving "due compensation" in return for their contributions, but you would be dead wrong, and the only reason that you even think like that is because you are selfish yourself. You cannot imagine any man giving without getting. You are so wrapped up in you you you, that you fail to realize that these men receive a gift far greater than any fleshly pleasure can provide.
They are the men who make a difference. Those that stand out, and not forgotten easily. Nor are the discarded quicker than it takes the jizz to dry on your nuts. They are valued. They are appreciated. They are lauded as the very best of boys. They are the reason why I bother to continue making my presence known in the scene. These are the men I seek, and I am not a woman to settle for second rate submissives.
Mind you that you can be a financial submissive yet not a millionaire, but you cannot be a financial submissive without tributing a consistent weekly tithe. Consistency and generosity of said tributes are the key to becoming a desired financial submissive.
Being a financial submissive will make you a better man. It will teach you to appreciate a woman. It will lead you to worship a woman in the purest sense. It will complete you.
There is nothing stopping you from being this type of man, except you. You are stopping you. It is you that has attached yourself to the ideology that you deserve to gain from the existence of women. It is you who has treated women as if their creation was intended as a sexual treat for you. It is you that has poisoned your mind with selfishness, and it is up to you to change yourself. You are less than a worthless worm belly crawling his way across the Earth taking and taking and taking from women, til at last you will realize that women have zero respect for you, in fact all they have for you is loathing. Does that make you feel good?
You do not want to be reviled do you? I cannot imagine that being a good feeling in any sense. Redeem yourself lest it be too late for you. Start today even if it is small. Start today by giving of yourself selflessly to a woman. Start your day by making a woman smile as she sees your gift awaiting her in her inbox. Thank a woman for existing, and bringing beauty into your life. Give and gift gents, for that is what financial submissives do, and that is what you are purposed to do.
I expect to see the gift of your generous giving within my inbox after having read and absorbing my commands.
mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Hello and welcome my pervy pets
Goddess is preparing to leave for vacation in a couple of weeks, and as my loyal lackeys, you serve a purpose. What is that purpose, well my gents, that purpose is to provide for my happiness, and what would make me happy, is for you to send gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com to fund my vaca wear! I want a new outfit for every day I am gone.
I know that some of you do not have thick enough wallets to finance the entirety of my desires, but I still expect you to do your part by contributing as best you can. After all it is MY happiness we are talking about here, so be a good boy for Goddess, and send a gift card today :)
I intend to laze my days away in relaxed splendor, whilst you my dear pets slave away to fund my fun. Giving to Goddess is the greatest gift you could ever receive!! Goddess provides you with the opportunity to be a part of her life, and no slave could dream of more than that glorious experience, so make sure that you thank me accordingly.
You are so very blessed to be offered the hot ass opportunity of clothing my divine feminine flesh. Yummy...from top to bottom. The only time a part of you will be this close to Goddess.
My inbox is empty and waiting to be filled with a load of gift cards ;) Be the first.
Good evening my masochistic minions, and devoted deviants
Your suffering is on the agenda this night lol
If you have to ask yourself if you have already suffered enough for me, than indeed you are due!
I have been working very hard lately to smash all of my goals, and deserve to be spoiled greatly by you gents.
Suffering, sacrifice, and spoils...I do adore those words, don't you? Suffering, sacrifice, and spoils whispering through your thoughts. Over and over til it is all that you can think of. There is such beauty, and dignity in those actions, when performed for Goddess. There can be no higher honor than suffering and sacrificing for the happiness of Goddess. You are honored in even being chosen for this purpose. You should be on your knees thanking Goddess for this opportunity to please her.
Goddess is offering you the golden chance of a lifetime. Are you brave enough to take up the gauntlet? Are you man enough to embrace the challenge?
Not all who come before me are even considered for a moment of my attention. My attention is a precious gift. Are you worthy of that gift? Are you prepared to bow down and be recognized? Let's find out shall we lol
You must know that in order to set sail upon this journey with me, you will be required to sacrifice from the onset. There can be no tepid actions. You are expected to proceed ahead full throttle.
Take that first step onto the plank, and send your tribute today. Your tribute is your troth, which you pledge willingly, and without coercion. Never should a Goddess be forced to demand that which you should be offering before she even thinks to ask. You must be smarter, you must learn to anticipate, and you must definitely be willing to give your all for her happiness and comfort. You wouldn't want your Goddess to be displeased now would you? Of course not, for you are determined to be her very best bitch in the kennel :)
Goddess makes no promise that the experience will be easily bought, but it is guaranteed to alter your life forever.
You my sweet were meant and are intended to become a vessel for Goddess. A vessel which serves an ultimate higher purpose in this lifetime. To be owned by Goddess, is to be among the most honored of men. You will join the ranks of her blessed few.
Come now, come and be received by Goddess.
Hello to you my faithful followers, and welcome to those of you who have stumbled into my world!
I have been taking some time lately to reevaluate what I want and where I am going along my femdom/findom lifestyle journey. It benefits us as human beings to periodically take a step back, and make sure that the path we are on is the one we want and need to be on. I advise anyone who has spent time playing in the bdsm pool to do so.
Conclusions at this point remain fairly close to those I reached a year ago. I continue to distance myself from any type of play where the possibility of male orgasm exists. I recognize that the majority of males enter the fray with that type of happy ending in mind, which is fine and dandy for them, but it will not suit me in service.
The scene overflows with women who offer orgasmic experiences, so I would council any of you seeking that specific style of domination to search those women out, and I wish you the very best of luck :)
As each year passes, it becomes even more clear to me which type of male I find of value in service. A servant who has more in common with what one would title a eunuch. Of course, I understand that those who come to me are highly unlikely to be of the neutered variety, but that is what a chastity cage is for. Locked away long enough from the light of day, your mindset will evolve to the point of what pleases me.
It comes across as odd to many that I am not into the sexual aspects of bdsm, but than, not all of us are cut from the same cloth. The physical aspects have never really appealed to very much, but the same can not be said of the emotional and psychological ones.
I desire males to serve me not because I arouse their cock, rather I will only accept service based upon a deep seated need to see to my wants. Males who have overcome the most base instinct of being led by their nuts, for it is the mind I crave control over.
I want serving my will to become second nature. To the point where when you wake, your thoughts automatically gravitate towards how you can enhance my life today. And each night as you lay your weary head down after having toiled the day away laboring for the wages which will enrich my finances, your last words will be prayers lifting me up in worship.
Males such as you will become an integral part of my life. Your sacrifices will benefit my existence. Your worship will add a new dimension to my level of happiness, and your unwavering loyal devotion shall create an unbreakable bond of Mistress/slave. This type of commitment is far more meaningful than a sticky hand moment. In time it may even forge a lifelong connection, and that very connection is a priceless gift.
A last point which has not differed, is that in order to gain a golden ticket of entrance into my land of possibilities, is tribute. No man shall pass the gate without sending tribute. From day 1 I have adhered to this decree, and it has not failed me once, for any male who sincerely desires to serve under my command tributes without prompting and sans complaint. Life is far too precious for me to spend any moment of it arguing with a man who does not value me or my presence.
Those that are just now finding their way along, will no doubt be of a mind to quibble about tribute, for they yet possess the selfishness which rules the world of man at the moment. They want only to gratify their cocks commands freely. They do not grasp yet that you cannot attain anything of by value by refusing to relinquish a sacrifice. Those of you with this you you you mindset are to be sectioned off and given time to grow into a thinking man, rather than a reactionary one. Perhaps in time, you will change, and we shall speak once more, but til then, I bid you adieu.
If you have come this far now, come forward a bit more. Make yourself known to me by sending a financial sacrifice to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Dear Readers,
Welcome to my fertile field of Financial Domination, where I guide you into the realm of serving Sydney Claire.
Have you ever heard of the 4 S's? These are the revered keys of requirement in serving ME.
Surrender
~Your very first step is to acknowledge that ego has no place in submission. Ego is the antithesis of altruism, which is the apex goal of your training with me.
~How does one begin to alter the self centered thought processes which society dictates as supreme? Through daily repetitive actions and deeds of course, of the likes which you shall not be enlightened of til such time as you pledge yourself in service to me. The point being that it is possible with training.
Submit
~Submitting your will sounds so very simplistic, yet it is one of the most difficult of actions of conscious thought. Human beings are generally inclined to be followers by nature. It tends to be a survival instinct ingrained from the cro magnon era, where conformity to group think kept you safe and alive. Group think thrives to this very day, and whilst it may lend the appearance of safety, it will keep you from being free. Free to soar, free to be who you are meant to be.
~Society states that you should act in your best interest, but only so much as it aligns with their rules of how a man should think and behave. Whether you are cognizant of the fact or not, you already submit your will to society each and every day of your life.
~How do you subvert this tendency? 1.Conviction to see your course through. 2.Courage to rage against the system which chains you to their design. 3.Commitment to your happiness.
~Submitting your will to me comes at a cost though. You are in essence exchanging one set of chains for another, for I will rule you, have no doubt. I will rule, and mold you into a being who no longer lives their life for self, rather you shall live for Sydney Claire. The difference between society and myself, is that I know you for who you truly are, and I accept you as the submissive man you are.
Sacrifice
~Sacrifice is a required element in service. You will sacrifice the life you once knew. You will sacrifice the mindset you once possessed. You will sacrifice your ego, and free will for my cause. You may even sacrifice your dignity if I declare it so.
~The pinnacle of sacrifice though, is your finances. Through such a sacrifice you are offering me the ultimate power over you.
~You may have deluded yourself into believing that your flesh holds more value to me than your money does, alas you were wrong.
~Money is absolute power. Lack of it leaves you powerless, and I desire to bathe in power. If money were not the seed of power, than why is it you suppose that a man would rather lose his left nut than be broke? Because money is that powerful. Sacrifice your power to me.
Serve
~Following the above outlined steps leads you here. You are now prepared to serve Sydney Claire.You will serve in any manner I dictate, and will do so happily without debate. Come now in all humility to my inbox, and offer me your surrender, your submission, and your sacrifice. mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Good evening to all who have found their way to my Goddess led sanctuary
Tonight we are going to take a moment to discuss fantasy vs reality. I have spoken in regards to this subject previously, but a refresher is of need.
You gents have so very many various fantasies crammed within your cranium. Some are lovely, some are ugly, some are sexy, and some are straight up illegal. My concern is that some of you are no longer able to differentiate between what is doable, and what is downright dangerous.
I understand that fantasies can be healthy and healing to some degree, but as well, some can damage you permanently psychologically and physically. The key is knowing which ones should be kept within your mind, and which should be free to touch your reality. Do you have the correct perspective?
Let's go over a few popular fantasies and decide which ones should be allowed to play out for real, as well as those that should not.
1. Sucking a strangers cock til their load slides down your throat.
This is a hot ass fantasy isn't it? Tons of submissive males have this one front and center in fantasyland.
Is it safe? It can be with a few non-sexy modifications.
~Swallowing a load of cum from a male whom you have no idea of his std status is dumb dumb dumb! Wrap that willy before you suck him silly. Seriously! I realize that it detracts from the sexiness, but so does an HIV diagnosis.
~Approaching an unknown male and asking to suck his cock just might end up with you getting your teeth knocked down your throat. Not so sexy huh? Welcome to the world of women. A place where you never know which man is harboring violent tendencies. This is why you should take the time to get to know a man before ever asking to suck his cock.
~You could hire an escort that allows for you to suck their cock, but you do run the risk of being caught up in a sting operation, so once again take the time to research first.
2. Wanting to be a live in slave who dwells in a cage locked in a Domme's basement. This is quite common as well. As common as it is unrealistic.
~Very few, and I actually mean a minuscule amount of dominant women are seeking this type of situation, so if you are banking your future on it, please reconsider keeping this one confined to your fantasies.
~Offering your flesh up in such a manner to an absolute stranger is beyond dangerous, it is insanely stupid. This is a situation which must be thought out cognitively, not casually.
~This woman could harbor a homicidal bend. Do you really want your next of kin to be notified that they found your remains buried in a basement? Once again I will caution you to take the time to really get to know someone before dipping your toes in like this.
3. Begging to be trussed up and fucked like a Thanksgiving turkey. Pegging sounds and even looks like a hot arse time doesn't it? Fuck yes it does, but do you even know the risks involved. Holy shit did I just toss a wrench into the works there?
~If done improperly, anal can cause harm to you physically. Lots and lots of lubricant is highly advised!
~Anal needs to be eased into. Going slow and easy allows your body to relax and enjoy the experience. Ramrodding your rectum will not be a pleasurable ride, even if you are a masochist. Besides, being forced to wear depends the rest of your life due to abusive anal is NOT sexy. Proceed with care and caution.
4. Last one of the night. Being forced to eat ass and pussy. I actually do not consider this a fetish, but I can see it being a viable fantasy.
~Let us not forget about std status once more. Thrush and cold sores are icky not pretty.
~Eating ass means ingesting ecoli(google that one)
~Oral dams oral dams oral dams, and that is all I am going to say on the subject.
I do hope that I have given some of you food for thought tonight. Fantasies are awesome, just be realistic about actually living them out ok!
Welcome to my world, pets and pervs
There is power in the sway. The fact that findom involves finances lends a false sense of power to the sender of tribute. You gents deceive yourself into believing that since you hold the cash, that you call the shots, and you could never be more wrong when it comes to me.
A woman who does not possess a need for your money is not bound by your whims to relinquish or withhold it. In fact, you will quickly find yourself sorted into the refuse bin for attempting to use your money as a bargaining chip with me.
I have zeros issues with blocking any male who gets it into his head that he is in control of our interactions. One such as I describe was blocked yesterday, and he had even paid tribute, mind you that it was an insultingly minuscule amount. Never do that either gents.
A woman who knows her worth will not allow for you to insult her with meager offerings. Women deserve your best efforts.
I for one, will not validate nor laud gents who attempt to exert minimal effort when courting me for consideration.
You may be asking yourself, how can she afford to turn away a dollar..well let us school you now. I do not need your money. Yes you hear this all of the time from the multitude of women online, but the majority of the time when it is relayed, it is false, so truth be known, you can manipulate a woman who is in honest need of your cash contributions, and most likely you have already done so. The buck stops here though. My lack of need negates your leverage towards obtaining your objective.
Which option does this leave open for you with me than? Only 1...pay and pray. Get down on your well worn knees and tender a true financial sacrifice to me, then pray for my benevolence. I offer no guarantee of acceptance though. Your attitude upon delivery will most likely sway or obliterate my desire to acknowledge your effort.
You gents have been entirely too spoiled with it comes to getting your way with women online, and unfortunately each time that a woman allows you to play her with faux service and sacrifice, you are being taught that stealing a woman's time and attention for pennies on the dollar is acceptable. The time for such is at an end, atleast with me it is. You of course are free to continue to stroll along dick in hand crawling into every open box to shit upon it's owner, which is the predictable outcome, but for a few, my words will have opened your eyes to the wretchedness you have wrought.
Are you ready now to become a new man. A man worthy of receiving a woman's notice? I have laid the stones for you to follow. Send your intentions in the form of an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com and bide your time wisely whilst awaiting notice of whether I have deemed your sacrifice of value to me.
