There is an unwritten rule to online Femdom/Findom stating that one must conceal what is real. A Domme is not allowed to be a living breathing being. One who has cares,concerns,and crazy days. She must instead produce content and create the illusion of always being perfect,decadent,and divine in all ways.
She must erect a persona that appeals to the nether regions of males world web wide. Her statements,and photos should always enhance erections,and her actions cater to penile desires. A 24/7 fetish dispensing man pleaser. Her thoughts centered upon how best she can serve their wants with her words and body. Nary a thought of displeasure that males are selfish creatures who seek to use her,and degrade her very being with their selfishness.
I shat upon this rule! To serve a woman is to release yourself from all delusions of male entitlement and penis grandeur. Women owe you NOTHING. It is you who is in arrears. It is you males who owe your servitude to women. It is you that should be looking to please rather than be pleased. Tis your duty to see to the comforts of a woman,to make yourself bow before her will.
Women have been subjugated and objectified for the pleasure of the penis far too long,and as a male it is your job to eradicate any and all thoughts within you to the contrary. Your task is to recognize your wants as of no consequence,but rather to strive to make reality the wants of women. No longer harboring misconceptions that women were fashioned for your penis,nor that their actions should bolster this untruth.
Embrace the truth that women are human beings. Beings who suffer real emotions,and lows in life,which make them perfectly imperfect,but that you as a submissive male are purposed to bring joy to her life in whatever way she decrees of desire. It is the greatest of honors for you to serve a woman,and this should be your goal in life.
You are not to make demands,merely to follow commands. Quite simple is it not.
Serve the woman rather than the fantasy.
Wednesday, April 6, 2016
Tuesday, April 5, 2016
This is why Dommes get pissy(read bottoms up)
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Monday, April 4, 2016
Evolution
Today is in response to a prevalent query which I receive
1)What must I do to serve you?
You would think that a question such as this would never be needed considering all of the blogs I have composed and commentary I have posted on various sites,yet it remains a repetitive question put to me,so here I sit wracking my brain in order to make my thoughts and expectations more clear than previously.
To serve me is the greatest of honors for a submissive male,for my standards are elevated,and my requirements far above average. I would never accept just any schmuck beneath my feet(it should go without saying that I consider all males inferior to myself),which means that to be privileged enough to call yourself mine,that you are going to have to be someone special. Special means more than a thick wallet(that doesn't hurt though),nor does it refer to having overly large penile endowments(don't care about your penis).
You must be extraordinary. You must have already embraced the fact that to serve me is not to serve your own fetishes. I am not here to listen to the list of depravities which revolve around what excites your penis. I am beyond that,and so must you be if you are ever to serve me. Serving me requires an evolution of the male psyche. Submissives of mine are free from the burdens of patriarchal entitlement issues,nor are they any longer mired down in the stench and selfishness of self. They have come to the realization of true purpose,and altruistic giving of themselves.
They thrive upon my happiness. Their universe revolves around ME. They possess self discipline,and require not my every moment holding their hand,as they know fully what it means to serve. They are intelligent enough to know that serving can never be about them,for than it would not actually be serving(unless you count serving yourself,I don't). Are you catching of glimpse by what I mean when I say special?
Males in the fetish scene today are primarily not submissive,instead are what they style as "bedroom submissives" or hit and quit boys(they get in,get a nut off and go). I hold no interest in any male who is not about what makes me happy,and catering to a male's wants,or sexualizing his interactions with me,does not make me smile. It is the most rare of males who can reach the pinnacle I seek them to kneel upon,so if that is not you,then do not waste time with needless questions. Take some time to work through your flaws,and then come to me,not before.
Of course my words are not pleasing to a great many males,but atleast I am honest about my intentions,and employ no subterfuge. I make no claims that I am here to sate your sexual fantasies,nor that I want to ensure your satisfaction(I am not a customer service oriented business,not even a business at all). To me,femdom will always be about pleasing the female,in the manner SHE chooses. In my eyes it is not a fetishized pornographical scheme wherein the penis rules. I am not here to get you off,or see to your wants. Got it??
Hopefully I have answered the query in a concise manner..oh and I shall leave you with a quote that I am quite fond of,just in case you still didn't get it.
“The only gift I have to give,is the ability to receive.If giving is a gift,and it surely is,then my gift to you is to allow you to give to me.”
1)What must I do to serve you?
You would think that a question such as this would never be needed considering all of the blogs I have composed and commentary I have posted on various sites,yet it remains a repetitive question put to me,so here I sit wracking my brain in order to make my thoughts and expectations more clear than previously.
To serve me is the greatest of honors for a submissive male,for my standards are elevated,and my requirements far above average. I would never accept just any schmuck beneath my feet(it should go without saying that I consider all males inferior to myself),which means that to be privileged enough to call yourself mine,that you are going to have to be someone special. Special means more than a thick wallet(that doesn't hurt though),nor does it refer to having overly large penile endowments(don't care about your penis).
You must be extraordinary. You must have already embraced the fact that to serve me is not to serve your own fetishes. I am not here to listen to the list of depravities which revolve around what excites your penis. I am beyond that,and so must you be if you are ever to serve me. Serving me requires an evolution of the male psyche. Submissives of mine are free from the burdens of patriarchal entitlement issues,nor are they any longer mired down in the stench and selfishness of self. They have come to the realization of true purpose,and altruistic giving of themselves.
They thrive upon my happiness. Their universe revolves around ME. They possess self discipline,and require not my every moment holding their hand,as they know fully what it means to serve. They are intelligent enough to know that serving can never be about them,for than it would not actually be serving(unless you count serving yourself,I don't). Are you catching of glimpse by what I mean when I say special?
Males in the fetish scene today are primarily not submissive,instead are what they style as "bedroom submissives" or hit and quit boys(they get in,get a nut off and go). I hold no interest in any male who is not about what makes me happy,and catering to a male's wants,or sexualizing his interactions with me,does not make me smile. It is the most rare of males who can reach the pinnacle I seek them to kneel upon,so if that is not you,then do not waste time with needless questions. Take some time to work through your flaws,and then come to me,not before.
Of course my words are not pleasing to a great many males,but atleast I am honest about my intentions,and employ no subterfuge. I make no claims that I am here to sate your sexual fantasies,nor that I want to ensure your satisfaction(I am not a customer service oriented business,not even a business at all). To me,femdom will always be about pleasing the female,in the manner SHE chooses. In my eyes it is not a fetishized pornographical scheme wherein the penis rules. I am not here to get you off,or see to your wants. Got it??
Hopefully I have answered the query in a concise manner..oh and I shall leave you with a quote that I am quite fond of,just in case you still didn't get it.
“The only gift I have to give,is the ability to receive.If giving is a gift,and it surely is,then my gift to you is to allow you to give to me.”
Sunday, April 3, 2016
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