Butthurt is boring

What is butthurt exactly? Butthurt is the behavior one displays after not getting their way,kinda like the temper tantrums children throw...immature right,illogical sure,entertaining NOPE. I wish I could say that people grow out of responding in such a manner,but that would be a lie :( Each and every day I interact with atleast one person who acts out of butthurt towards me. It definitely makes no difference in my day though,so never expect to elicit a reaction from me by doing so. I for one do not believe in rewarding childish antics with attention.

For example(yes this happens over and over) let's say that a male contacts me on a website where my profile blatantly denotes that TRIBUTE is required for my attention,yet said male types up and posts  a message to me all the while knowing that he is not going to tribute. 1)how does this even make sense? 2)what is the purpose behind it?

Apparently it is presumptuous of me to assume that my profile is read by all those that reach out to me  :(  The first thing I do though when I receive a message is to take a quick minute to peruse the sender's profile to ascertain whether our interests align(ya that is what people with intelligence do),so when I see that the poster lists findom as a hard limit,my brain goes huh! Which takes me back to my inbox to type up the question "Did you read my profile?" I imagine you can already guess what the answer is can't you lol

Most times the limit of their effort was to perv the pics,yup that is some laziness. What does that tell me though? It screams out to me that this person does not give a fig for serving me,that they are here with a self-serving agenda which revolves around their pleasure,and desires,so how is that going to fit in with what I seek? It isn't,so would it make sense for me to even bother interacting further? Would you not agree that to do so is like me wasting my own time?

So when I withhold a response one of two things happen 1)I get a message telling me that I am a scamming bitch or 2)They try to tell me that they will indeed tribute once they get to know me.

Let's address 1 first. In my estimation a scammer is a being of trickery,they are deceptive in their practices,now you tell me how my approach could possibly fit into that definition,seeing as I clearly state that TRIBUTE is required..how is it remotely possible to be considered shady when I am in your face with my expectations? Perhaps the motivation behind calling me such is an attempt to anger me into flaying the poster verbally(that NEVER works with me,for I control my emotions,not you)thereby feeding their humiliation fetish..or it could be that they are living in Mommy's basement with no job,or prospects of one,which equals BROKE..or even possibly they could be one of those males reared to believe that women owe them their time and attention for free(how is that entitlement issue working out for you?)

Moving on to number 2. This one can be a bit trickier,as there are indeed sincere males out there who will indeed tribute once they know you better,but here is the thing,I have put out a ton of information on myself. I blog regularly,I have a website,a twitter,an IG,and a tumblr,as well as being a member on a few fet sites,so the getting to know me requires minimal effort,other than the time it takes to read it. Now if one cannot be bothered to take the initiative to learn about me,then why would I bother with them..oh but of course for some that is just too much of an ordeal,I mean seriously how can I expect them to do their own research!!! Let me not forget that special snowflake who thinks themselves entitled to my time simply because they were cursed with a Y chromosome,ya that is not going to get you anywhere with me. Here is what it boils down to,if you cannot afford,or will not provide even a small token for the opportunity of gaining my attention,then that is the end of the story. I do not care if you have been burned in the past(not my bad,not owning it)

So in conclusion if your defense mechanism to rejection is acting like a butthurt bastard,you are only wasting your own time,for I will not acknowledge your behavior,nor dignify it with a response. Grow up gents and act like an adult,after all the fet scene is not for the mentally or chronologically immature.