Hello bitches and cunts....
Yes this really is how I view 99% of you males..awwww
You are arrogant,you are conceited,you are self-absorbed,and chalk full of entitlement issues..even those of you who tout that tired line "I am a loser" are seriously unworthy of a FemDomme's time and attention. One little passive aggressive ploy which makes me laugh is when I shoot down a male,and he replies in this manner
As if he truly believes that me saying No thank you to any male who does not meet or exceed my standards is a loss to me!! It is the furthest thing from a loss for me. Accepting a subpar male would be the actual loss,and I am not into losing.
Here is some more truth for you
1)Seriously..if I take time of out my jam packed schedule to respond to a missive you have sent,but you on the other hand wait days or weeks to acknowledge my words..guess what...stick a fork in your ass,cause we are done here.
2)If you are sitting around waiting for me to reach out to you initially..you might as well slip a noose around your neck right now,cause it is not gonna happen.
3)If you expect to expend minimal effort in order to receive maximum attention from me lmfao..you are living in la la land bb.
Do you grasp the gist of what I am getting at here? For those of you that are intellectually challenged(which is most of you) always always always it is YOUR loss if you are denied my dominance in your life. It is you that will suffer with angst,not I. I will lose exactly zero sleep fretting over what I could have done differently,and without doubt,no fucks will be given via me if you are not serving at my feet. Get over yourself,and accept that you are not a prize at the fair,that I am vying to win.
It is you that must be found worthy. It is you that must meet my expectations for a submissive. It is you that is being weighed and measured for service. Any other belief is just you farting upwind!
Welcome to those who enter here with the intent to serve Sydney...
For those of you who are not serving me, nor in possession of the intent to serve Sydney,
You can just ride in my wake, because I am not waiting around for you to catch up,and realize that you should be investing your time and finances into the appreciation of Sydney.
Honestly,if you are not driven to serve Sydney with all of your heart, soul, and wallet, than you are wasting your life. You simply serve no purpose at this time, and if you are not useful, than you are useless. Who in their right mind would desire to interact with a useless skinsac of flesh..not I, says this Goddess!
I stand upon the crest
whilst you tumble and toss within the undertow in the wake of my presence.
To know your place in the life of a FemDomme is a sign of intelligence..but to know your purpose, and serve it, is wisdom.
One of the first pearls of truth I convey to all serfs who approach, is that regardless of your station in society, you will always be beneath, and below Sydney. Of course you are meant to strive to better yourself in service to Sydney, but you will never reach the heights to which I dwell.
This is your time little oyster..come lay your treasures at my divine feet..and take your predestined place serving Sydney.
Hello pets and pervs...
Today I received a mini-novella from a male in the very first message he sent me. This is an inept approach. Why?
- Does anyone seriously want to expend that much effort reading an initial outreach contact...I don't,but neither am I advocating blippy messages such as "hi" "how r u" "sup". Most times in my experience,long drawn out messages tend to be copy and past messages,where the sender sends this same message to every single female they happen upon,and this is insulting. Why? Well cause it is a)indicative of laziness b)plainly relays that the recipient is not worthy of a message crafted entirely for them alone.
- If the sender was truly considerate of the recipient,a tribute would have been attached with the lengthy missive,for time is a woman's most precious commodity,so who in their right mind would expect one to devote that much attention without at the least a token of appreciation for said time?
- Messages that are relayed to me detailing a male's life experience,goals,fetishes etc...are a red flag if conveyed right from the onset. Why? Because it tells me that this male is focused purely upon himself..what he wants,what he likes. Why is a male knowing what he wants bad? In most cases it is not,BUT when it comes to Femdom for me..it is all about me,and when I see that the priority is not ME..ya know how I feel about that! The correct approach would have been trying to ascertain what it is that I expect,what I require from a submissive male. That is definitely the best way to get your foot so to speak in the door.
In addition,do NOT offer to send explicit photos to a woman you know not from jane doe. Why?
- It is RUDE!
- It conveys the assumption that women actually want to see any aspect of you explicitly. How many times must males be told that women are not the visual creatures that males are??
- Try to remember that the person on the other side of the screen is a STRANGER!! Would you walk up to a woman in the supermarket and ask her if she wants to see explicit photos of you? If you are stupid enough to say yes,than you are far too ignorant for continued existence.
- You do not even know if you are contacting a male or female,so unless you get your kicks exposing your explicitness to either sex,keep in mind that males parade on sites as females all of the time.
After having read my explanations,do you understand where this male went wrong? Do you see how you should proceed? Did you learn anything? I sincerely hope so.
Sometimes less is more,and sometimes more is too much!
Welcome once again..
I am not seeking the ordinary..in fact what I await is the extraordinary. What exactly is extraordinary though in this favored fetish of mine? Extraordinary is the white elephant not present in the room.
In a scene overwhelming comprised of same old same old..it becomes a droll experience. I tire of the worn out words spilling from the fingertips of males with nefarious intent. How many times do you believe that you would agreeably read the same words over and over day in day out without evolving into a jaded being? How many times would you sit idly by listening to a fellow whom you recognize from the get go as one whose motivation is selfishly bent? How long would your patience hold out?
There comes a time when a critical thinking being realizes that ordinary is never going to be enough. Sure ordinary is safe..it is most likely reliable..but it is above all BORING,and boring chaps are swept away like rubbish..farewell and forgotten.
I demand something out of the ordinary. Be different..be not the same as every other lackluster lad out there. Come to me in abject humility..hat in hand so to speak. Come to me as my creature. Come to me shining intensely with the burning desire to submit yourself to my will,and my will alone.
Leave off what you once called service,for it was never that. You spoke lies,and burned down your bridges for the chance of one sordid stroke of the penis. Can you see now that what you were was never going to bring you anything more than a moment in time? Those times need to close the chapter once and for all. Open the cover and begin your journey anew.
Serving will bring you purpose. Service will bring you peace. This is where happiness lays in submission. Submission is to give of yourself,not for yourself,but in spite of yourself. It is the sacrifice which paints joy upon your soul. It is the unfettered,unadulterated bliss of mind,body,and soul when you reach the point where your motivation in service is altruistic..and this is what I require of you. I demand it, I command it, and only then will I claim it as my own.
Greetings pets..
Did you notice my absence from social media this weekend? I decided to take some time away to focus on me and my life *gasp*! Gosh can you believe that?
Seriously, I have truly felt as of late that those of you wandering into my inbox have my interests no where near in your motivations, much less as a focus, so no doubt that you missed me not at all. The amount of junk mail piled up in my inbox bears proof of that decree. Examples:1)I want to serve you so bad!!!!(all typed while penis pumping) 2)I would do anything for you Mistress (again with the hand humping) 3)I want to be your live in toilet slave (Seriously STFU with that nonsense)
These are just a few email examples of why I take days to myself, and leave the selfish shit you bowel beavers spew out.
I once had a fellow Domina relay to me that sharing any type of negative opinion of you males is a no no..but ya know what..I am just not that type of person. I have never been a polly sunshine gal..so no amount of faking it would make it true. Besides I feel that if you males desire to serve me, than you should be serving the real me, rather than some affected persona, and the real me believes in telling it like it is.
I refuse to kiss your ass or cater to your fantasies. That fails to align with my definition of femdom. Kissing your ass, and catering to your fantasies falls more in line with a service top, which I am not.
I am not even a femdom who seeks to promote female equality..in fact my aim is to conquer, and convert you poser submissives to female supremacy..after all it is closer to the divine.
There is no interest for me in interacting with males who simply pay lip service to the ideology in order to gain their 2 seconds of spunk wonder. I desire the service of males who embrace female superiority as rule of law in their lives outside of the internet.
I have always been very open about my requirements,so do yourself the favor of spamming someone else with your fantasies, cause I do not dwell in the land of fantasia. I base my style of domination and expectations of servitude upon reality folks..and in my reality, it is all about ME :)
Anyways...feel free to welcome me back with a big fat amazon gift card, cause you know that you owe it to me.
Hello to all who enter my domain..
So,on topic today gents is fwbs..or like the title suggests,friends with kinky benefits.
Apparently, lots of you males are really into the fwb scenario,why..well cause you personally only reap benefits from the situation. If you have been a follower of mine for very long,well you know that I am not about males benefiting(atleast not in the normally prescribed manner),or gaining physical pleasure from serving me. I am more of the suffer in fucking silence while you kneel before me,so fwb is dead in it's tracks at my altar if you are approaching it like you would in the nilla wafer way.
It is both amusing,and annoying dealing with such insignificantly poor valued offers from males. I benefit in no way from being "friends" with a male in the findom scene. I am not new to the rodeo,so you offering to "teach" me how to findom is not an option,nor do I desire male friends period(the straight ones always end up wanting to fuck me *gross*). I choose to offer and accept friendship with my fellow Femmes only. You as a male are inferior,so why would I opt for friends of lesser worth? The only value males add to my life is dollars in my account.
The only way you could be a fwbs to me is if you are willing to redefine it in accordance to my requirements. So,this is how it goes..you tribute,I benefit. You sacrifice,I benefit. You suffer,I benefit. Your tribute benefits you by affording you the opportunity to make me happy. Your sacrifice benefits you by allowing you to amuse me. Your suffering benefits you by gracing you with the chance to make me smile. Now that is what I call fwbs. Kinda kinky eh lol :)
This photo sums up my fwbs relationships with males
