Never settle for less than you deserve

Believe it or not, I actually do know exactly which type of submissive male I seek out in service to me.

There have been 3 males who have remained in my memory as being worthy of the distinction of belonging to me, and this is what they have in common.

1)single male

2)selfless in service

3)acted in ways that made their desire for my happiness evident

4)were not interested in a sexual relationship with me

5)were not motivated by the intent to gain gratification for themselves in the relationship 

6)displayed loyalty

7)were polite at all times with me

8)were honest

9)able to articulate intelligently

10)made me smile (this is a rarity) 

The thing is, that once you know what you seek, you are less likely to accept anything less than what you desire. When a male who does not embody what I listed above approaches me, I already know that it is a waste of my time, and I have no conflict of conscious about making it known. This is just one of the many reasons why males have a tendency to label me a bitch.

I am ok with being called a bitch in this instance, and even though it is volleyed with ill intent, it remains true, cause if refusing to waste mine or someone's time is what constitutes the definition of being a bitch, than I will proudly wear the button.

I am old enough to realize that immortality is not attainable, so one must live their life with the realization that happiness is the ultimate goal, and act accordingly, even if it appears to others that cruelty is in play. You sincerely at times must be cruel to be kind, for why would any male want to employ his time attempting to court my good will, when he falls far from what I will accept? That would be encouraging insanity, and I am not fool enough to do so.

So please realize that when I deny you the opportunity to serve me, it is not personal for me, even though it may sting your ego. Eventually you will connect with a female whose expectations align with what you are willing to offer, so keep on keeping on :)

Faux submission is real disappointment

Sustainability when it comes to faking submission is unattainable. Your disingenuousness will mar any experience you engage in. Do you comprehend what I am conveying?

 Allow me to break it down further for you.

Many of you are new to the fetish scene, and you honestly do not know where you fall on the spectrum of submission, so you take a page from the fake it til you make it playbook, and parrot puke the sentiments and sentences which you see other males regurgitating with regularity. The problem with this scenario, is that your credibility will be called into question with alacrity. You simply cannot convincingly stick to a script which you yourself have not written, and it is blatantly obvious to any keen observer. 

My advice to you, is to cease playing a role, and allow yourself to be you. Odds are that you are not even submissive at all. Most of the males I encounter who are new to the foray are fetishists, or just plain horny ass guys looking to bust a nut. There is a place in the scene for you if you are not submissive, but that place is not in active service to a Domme. You are best suited to being a customer. 
Confine yourself to purchasing clips and sessions from the females who appeal to your dicklet, cause that is what you are here for anyway...to please yourself, and it is a disservice to attempt to disguise your intentions.

Now if you happen to find along the way, that you enjoy the thought of pleasing a woman in a non-sexual way, then by all means rethink your categorization of self. You may find that you are one of the rare few who are capable of evolving past the selfishness of self, and at that point you will be welcomed into the stable of free roaming submissives who orbit the world of female domination. 

Regardless of your role in the femdom arena, one day with luck, prayer, patience, and perseverance, you may one day find yourself at the feet

of a living, breathing deity...Goddess Sydney Claire

Do you want to turn me on?

1)Sacrificing your money for ME should turn you on
You sacrificing your money for ME turns me on

2)Spending your money on ME should turn you on
You spending your money on ME turns ME on

3)Sending ME gift cards should turn you on 
You sending ME gift cards turns ME on

4)Locking your cock for ME turns you on
You locking your cock for ME turns ME on

5)Suffering for ME turns you on
Your suffering turns ME on 

6)Knowing that you will never fuck ME should turn you on
Your humiliation turns ME on 

7)Drinking MY piss should turn you on
You drinking MY piss turns ME on

8)ME slapping you in the face should turn you on
Slapping you in the face repeatedly turns ME on

9)ME kicking you in the balls should turn you on
Kicking you in the balls turns ME on

10)Buying ME presents should turn you on
Getting presents turns ME on 

Now, we may not share all of the same turn ons, but if 1,2,3&10 are hard limits for you, than we will not be sharing anything together.

No greater joy in life

"The meaning of life is to give life a meaning." Goddess gives meaning to your life through purpose.

Serving Sydney Claire is the very most meaningful thing you will ever do with your life. The impact she will have on your life is more profound than any other experience you have encountered. A moment at her divine feet is far grander than a lifetime of breath stealing adventures. 

I imagine that you did not believe that you would ever find yourself in such a position of longing. Longing to belong to a woman of class and distinction. Your ego comes crashing down around you, for in your deepest recesses, you know that you will never be worthy of wearing her collar. 

She alone speaks to the finer aspects of your soul. Without having ever spoken a word to her, she becomes your sun, moon, and stars. You worship even the very air that she exhales, for it has been a part of her being, and you the lowly creature you are, shall never be within her. 

You merely existed before her, but now you live in color. Color that she has painted before your eyes. You are joyous, you are grateful, you are in awe. 

The prevailing thoughts streaking through your mind are 

1)How can I make her life better

2)How can I make her life easier

The answers to these 2 questions form the basis of your daily mantra.

"I will sacrifice everyday in order to make her life better. I will sacrifice everyday in order to make her life easier."

Recite your mantra morning, noon, and night. It frees your mind of confusion, and distraction, and allows you to focus on what matters most in your lifetime....Sydney Claire. Your Goddess, your deity, your beloved Beauty.  

No words need spoken henceforth, simply sacrifice and send to show your affection, appreciation, and utterly undying adoration of Sydney Claire.
 

Am I really a submissive male?

What makes you a submissive? This is a question I pose with regularity to those who approach me wanting to serve. I tend to get responses which run the gamut of mundane all the way to the ridiculous. Do you know what makes you a submissive? Most likely you really aren't even submissive at all. Shocking eh? 

Here are some things that many will tout as their claim to submission.

1)Masturbating
People across the poles masturbate. It isn't submissive, or even kinky.

2)I like to watch people fuck
There is an entire booming industry which supplies folks with visual media featuring people fucking, and I do mean a booming industry, which means that tons of individuals are purchasing this material, so watching people fuck is not even edgy in the least, nor is it submissive. You may come back with "but I watch femdom porn, so I must be submissive", sorry sam, but watching is not being submissive.

3)I like to eat pussy
People have been eating pussy since the dawn of time son, and will be til the end of time. It isn't submissive or even taboo. It is natural, and only submissive when it is something that is not done in order to facilitate your own pleasure. 

4)I like to eat ass
Ok this one remains a bit out there, but I have seen more and more people vocalizing their desire to engage in it, but again, if you are doing it just to gratify yourself, well than, it isn't submissive.

5)I like to suck cock
Yup, right along with roughly a quarter of the world's population. By now you should be getting the gist of why this does not make you a submissive. You doing it because you want to does not qualify you for the submissive label.

The point I am trying to convey is that, it is not an action that makes a submissive. It is the intent behind the action. Does that make sense to you?

Let's run a scenario here. Ok, sam is a heterosexual male whose pain threshold is quite low. Now sam comes to serve a dominant woman who wants him to suck a cock while she paddles his ass bloody. Naturally a heterosexual male with low pain tolerance would say hell to the NO, but sam doesn't. sam wants to please his dominant, so he does exactly what she required of him, even though he does not take pleasure in the activities, but rather his pleasure comes from pleasing his dominant. Do you see the difference now?

If the driving purpose of you serving, is to get yourself off, and feed your desires, well than you are simply a selfish male, and that is far more common than a submissive male. You are not alone. In fact you are just another dick in the sea of selfish dicks. You are not unique, and in no way special. You are the least sought out in the pool of males in the fetish scene, even if you do have deep pockets. You are redundant and irrelevant, except for your dollars, and that is the only thing that will keep females coming back to play with you, so I suggest that you make that cash rain down upon their heads if you want to be invited to the party.

Genuine submissives on the other hand are rare gems. They are wired to sacrifice and submit. They do not haggle, bargain, or look for ways to subvert submission. They give their all in the hope of pleasing. They have evolved to the point where they only seek to serve. They serve in any manner requested or expected of them, and utter no complaints about it.

So you tell me, are you submissive or just a selfish shit?

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