Welcome to the world of Goddess Sydney Claire
Today my minions I want you humbled in prayer to your Goddess, repeating your Monday mantra "The more I give to Goddess, the more grace I receive in submission".
Sacrificing for Goddess enriches your life spiritually, and deepens the bond of submission. You are transcended beyond the everyday desire for material riches for self. You recognize that the fruits of your labors are meant to be in the hands of Goddess, for she is your living inspiration of divinity.
It is to her that you pledge your worldly goods, and spoils. She alone is worthy of all you possess. You are a better man in service to Goddess.
Discard the past, and embrace your future....Goddess Sydney. Her happiness is your beacon of hope. Her laughter is the music that resonates within your soul. Her smile is your light in the dark. You are bereft without her presence in your life, which is why you will strive to do all within your power to ensure that your sacrifice is worthy of her goodness.
Today my minions you are called upon to kneel and pledge your fealty of service, by sending amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Welcome my cult of minions
Today I want to talk to you about transformation. Specifically in reference to transforming yourself into a useful, viable submissive male. At this point you are a wet wad of clay. You have no pleasing form, nor usefulness to me, and that is what we are going to change.
Being useful as a submissive is one of the top perks of owning a male. You want to be seen as having value don't you? If you possess no value in the open market of ownership, than you will be left outside the awe inspiring, earth shattering, orgasmic circle ride of being owned. It is no fun being ostracized from something that you really want to partake of. You don't want to be barred from having fun do you?
Have you been following the steps I shared with you a couple of posts previously? These were just the beginning of your total transformation. We now embark upon phase 2.
Starting this day, you will spend a total of 10 minutes each day kneeling in the corner of your bedroom, facing the wall. Your eyes are to be closed, head bowed, and your hands supine upon your thighs. This will aid you in freeing your body, and your mind of all constraints at this time. This is time you will devote towards reflection of your past thoughts and actions, and determine how they have held you back from submitting fully as you are meant to. You will weigh your thoughts and actions, and discard those that do not benefit the empowerment of your submission to Goddess Sydney. You will pare them down to only those that create positivity in her life, and increase the possibility of providing for her happiness, thereby freeing your mind from all selfish non-serving intrusions. This is your commune time with Goddess. This is her time, and you will not soil it with thoughts of self gratification.
This is such a minimal effort to expend. Surely you can achieve this goal daily, so do not balk at it. Do not allow yourself to find excuses to get out of it. Devote the time, and enrich your submission to Goddess Sydney.
Welcome to the musings, words of wisdom, and salacious speakings of the one and only Goddess Sydney Claire!!
Many of you ponder and philosophize on how you can or will be able to find a Dominant woman to serve, and I am here to show you the way.
Let us begin first with the how not to find one, thereby saving you time and effort in traveling down the wrong road.
These are just a few, seeing as I have no desire to wear your brain out
1)displaying your genitals on your profile, or relaying photographic evidence of them without being asked
2)assuming that you have the right to a woman's time or attention
3)treating a woman like she is a sexual object created for the sole purpose of providing you with stimulating (wink wink) entertainment
4)attempting to goad a woman into talking to you, or fulfilling your fetish wishes (no doubt you are familiar with the double dog dare ya reverse psychology techniques)
5)employing a futile guilt trip to get your way
6)relaying vapid played out compliments
7)Do not wax on about yourself (ie your kinks, and desires)
Ok, onto a brief how to section
1)Do be honest about your intentions, limitations, and situation in life
2)Do be well mannered in your speech and actions when interacting with a woman
3)Do take the time to read her profiles, and social media posts (this will save you time in the long run, I promise!)
4)Do take rejection graciously, and move on. You cannot force a woman to accept you by insulting her.
5)Do be emotionally healthy
6)Do be willing and able to make her a priority in your life, cause if not, you are shortchanging both of you.
7)Do be willing and able to invest yourself in her happiness.
For now I will hold off on getting more in depth..definitely do not want to overtax your synapses lol
I have provided you with enough information to give you a credible start, that is if you truly are desirous of finding a Dominant to serve.
Welcome minions and malcontents to the musings of Femdom Goddess Sydney Claire
Do you know your place in the femdom society? If not, than I am more than willing to shove the bitter pill of truth down your throat..try not to gag on it sweetie :)
You are nothing more than a loser for Sydney Claire. That's right gents..you are my faithful sidekick, and I am the heroic Goddess who saved you from your patriarchal sponsored delusions of entitlement. You are officially indebted to me for life. Start paying up boys :)
Welcome one and all to the musings of Femdom Goddess Sydney Claire
I find myself posing an internal query. The question in reference is, why are so many people offended by the fact that bdsm is not sexual for me? I find the majority whom take offense to be male. They lack understanding of how something they sexualize highly, can fail to rate on another's scale of orgasm inducing.
Something to always take into account, is that people are not the same across the board. This often gets forgotten when one is immersed within their own philosophies, almost to the point of straight up narcissism. Human beings are most comfortable existing in an echo chamber, where all others share their views, so when someone comes along and challenges that stance, fireworks explode. How dare someone not agree with them, or damn their audacity to choose what suits them personally rather than agreeing to the general consensus!
I enjoy bdsm proclivities very much. I am a sadist after all, but I do not physically get off from it. I do even not masturbate thinking about it. I understand that many do, but that just isn't me, and the point of my life, is to be me.
I am not here standing on a pulpit preaching that everyone should adopt or emulate my stance, but what I am advising, is that people should never assume or demand that others buy into their version of group think in order to fit in with the crowd. I am a strong minded mature woman, who knows exactly what she seeks to gain from bdsm, and I refuse to alter myself for anyone. I am not here to fit in. I am not a follower, or a sycophant to the demands of male demanded sexuality practices of women.
To recap for those in the back who require a dumbed down explanation.
1)Bdsm is NOT about sex for me
2)Bdsm is NOT about sex with me
3)I do not want to have sex with you (nope not any form of it)
4)I do not want to see or touch your dick
5)I do not want to see or touch your asshole
6)I do not want to help or watch you jack off
7)I am not going to masturbate for you, nor share visuals of my vagina with you
In my femdom world, submission is not about sex. It is about service.
Hello hello little submissives everywhere who have happened upon my blog!
Are you a sly guy? Are you the type of man who tries to butter the bread with flattery? How has that worked out for you? What percentage of the time would you say that it has been successful for you? Did you get the Domme of your dreams by uttering sweet nothings in her ear?
Do you know how many males have earned the opportunity to serve me by offering me a tray of compliments? None, that is how many. Why? Compliments in my eyes, when relayed by males, are meaningless. I do not want, nor chase them. Knowing the scope of my worth and level of attractiveness means that I am not subject to being preyed upon in such a manner. If you believe that complimenting me upon the physical will garner you an iota of attention, you are sadly mistaken. The physical alters as one ages, so why would I put stock in any male being around for the long haul if his interests are based upon fleeting physicalities? That would be utterly ignorant.
Flattery is a tool, driven by an agenda. In the findom realm, compliments are tossed about like dollar bills at a strip club. Men have deluded themselves into believing that compliments have intrinsic value. Wake up, wake up, cause they do not. Compliments are not valuable contributions to a woman's life. They are actually annoyances if not backed up by actual actions that provide enrichment tangibly.
Discerning women do see through this ploy. They know full well that men will attempt to grease the wheels to gain entrance attention. My question is, when will you realize that you are trying to lead someone to a well from which they do not want to drink ? Get better, get smarter, get real!
Welcome to the blog of Goddess Sydney Claire
I had no intentions of typing up a post today, but in light of the recent SESTA/FOSTA laws awaiting a final signature to enact them into law, I felt that I needed to take a few moments to make absolutely clear my thoughts and intentions in regards to the subject.
If you are not US based, you may not have heard of these possible new laws. They were supposedly created in order to cut down on human trafficking, which remains a concerning issue even in this day and age. I am in agreement that human trafficking is a horrid practice which must be stopped, but I will not concede that the means and measures of doing so should in any form punish those that are not perpetrating it. Why should any one person be penalized for an act that they have not committed? Many will argue that the ills caused to a few for the benefit of the many is just cause, but is it really? Do you see the far reaching ramifications of this type of mindset? I hope so, but I fear that most do not.
Of course legitimate sex workers are against human trafficking, but when laws come into place targeting ALL sex workers, it becomes a shitstorm of astronomical proportions! Some of the very people who voted upon the passage of these proposals do in fact avail themselves of the services of sex workers. How hypocritically ironic is that?
There are petitions circulating asking that these proposals do not be enacted into law, which in all good conscious should be signed by you. As I stated above, this will avalanche until it prods into all walks of society. Doubt me? Take a look at the new policies of skype. As it stands, if you and your significant other are separated by distance, and want to engage in watching each other masturbate, or even talking naughty to each other using their service, than you will be banned. Isn't that lovely? This will eventually broach into your life, so it is in your interests to act preemptively.
Fetlife has recently apprised members of their stance in relation to the proposed law, and have decided upon the action of banning findom activities from their website. It is their right to take this action, but what they are purposely overlooking, is that findom is NOT about sex. It never was, and those that make it so, are taking fate into their own hands, but regardless, there is so much hatred for findom on the site to begin with, that it is not surprising to me that they would ban it. How many of you actually thought that findom was about paying for sex?
Having said all of that, I want to shine light upon my own practices, so that no grey area can be slid into.
I do not offer or engage in ANY sex acts with the submissives that serve me. Now this is definitely separate from the lifestyle submissive who serves me, and has served me for 13 years. He is exempt, and NO I am not taking on any other lifestyle submissives, only financial servants. Is that crystal clear?
I am a law abiding citizen of the US, which means that NO I will not
1)Nude facesit with my pay pups
2)Engage in oral or anal, nor vaginal(with my female pay pups) sex with my pay pups
3)Engage in sounding, catheterization, or any activity which involves me touching a pay pups penis or vagina
The state of Kansas defines sex acts for money as prostitution, which is illegal, and I will not place myself in jeopardy for any male's desire to get off, so do not come to me with that type of expectation. Just know that your tribute freely given to me is a gift, and not payment for sexual services, else it is you scamming yourself. I will never provide sexual service for payment.
That is all for today, back to the regular pervy programming :)
