When size is meaningless

Good evening pervy pets and poppets...

You have officially entered into the domain of the fatalistic Femdom Goddess Sydney Claire 

Once again here you are waiting to absorb the words that fall from my fingertips. Ready? 

Are you a member of social media? No doubt you are, else you would not have likely found your way here lol. Social media has what they dub influencers. Influencers are those who possess a rather large following of 30,000 or more. Are you an influencer? Doubtful, and quite honestly would you want to be?

Why am I talking about this subject? Well, many operate under the assumption that a large follower count is equatable with social success, and that is not always correct. Sure there are people who have earned their full to bursting follower count via sharing or imparting content that people want, need, or are desperate to know or see, but that is not always the truth of the matter.

Were you aware that followers can and are purchased? Kinda weird huh? I mean why would someone buy followers in the first place. Could it be due to that assumption I referred to? Do you yourself automatically conclude that anyone with a high follower count is an expert in a field, or a semi-celebrity figure? If you responded in the affirmative, than you are not alone. 

How does this even apply to fetish? Take a seat mate, cause I am going to get to that.

You can identify numerous profiles of women who maintain sizable social media followers lists. Even those women in fetish fields. 

What does it take to reach that magical pinnacle? Not much actually. Experiments have been undertaken where an account has been created with semi dressed feminine visuals uploaded to said account, and guess what?? These accounts instantly begin to accumulate followers. Majority male followers. Why? Old story which remains true...sex sells, and men chase tail. This entirely explains why catfish accounts are so successful. A bra with overflowing cleavage displayed, or string bikini butt imagery are instant hits with the male population, which makes for overnight success stories. Doubt me? Give it a whirl yourself. Now I am in no way advising anyone to catfish, merely open an account, post what I described, then set back and watch quietly for the results. 

I did tell you that there is of course another way to gain a large following. This method will take time and effort though. It involves growing your target audience organically. Posting relevant and thought engaging content. Sharing sentiments which people find valuable. Snippets that encourage interactive dialogue, or even ones that just have folks shaking their head in agreement, ergo earning you a like or a sharing of your words. As I said though, this methodology will require an investment of your time.

Can you merge the 2 methods successfully? Absolutely!

This applies to males and females alike. Warning to you gents though, posting dick pics is not the way to go. Sorry to bust your balls boys, but dick pics disgust rather than attract, so it might be best for you to keep your pics pg.  

The entire point I am undertaking to convey, is that a large following does not always correlate with experience in domination. I have seen women with relatively small audiences, yet rocked at ruling men from their raised platform, and as well I have seen women with huge audiences who appear to know absolutely nothing in regards to domination. Just keep in mind that quality is not always quantified by a number.

As always, feel free to follow me on twitter (@MizSydney) or any of the wonderful women I follow :)

Free Task Friday, on a Wednesday

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PP is never an option

Whoever you are, and wherever you may be...Welcome

Welcome to the femdom world of Sydney Claire

I am who I am, and you are who you are, so let's get down to the basic of what this post is geared towards today.

Paypal..you know what paypal is yes? Paypal is a US based payment processor. It is a powerful and far reaching company. The main thing to take note of with pp, is that they are NOT fetish friendly, so if you are looking to pay or receive tribute, look elsewhere. They will not tolerate your business. In fact, they will shut your account down, and hold your funds for an indefinite period.

I realize that some do indeed still use pp for receiving tribute, but the majority of those who do, will tell you that they do so only with trusted contributors. What this should tell you straight away, is that if you are unknown to a Domme, than she is NOT going to offer up her pp addy for tribute. Yes there are exceptions, but the only females I have seen posting their addy's are newbie women who have no clue that this is a massive mistake. I am not one, so for the male who messaged me asking about pp...now you know, and either you are new, or you thought foolishly that I was. Sydney Claire is not a fool, doll, so try again by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Do you know who tries to send pp tributes? Scammers. Yup I said the S word. I have lost count of the number of women who trusted a male to send via that method, only to either have the charges disputed, cancelled, or even sickeningly find out that the male in question had reported them to pp to have their account locked. This is why a huge red flag pops up before my eyes when any male suggests this avenue of tribute. You do not want me believing that you are a lowlife scammer do you? Of course not, so forget you ever thought to bring pp up to me :)

Amazon gift cards are always going to be the required route of tribute when it comes to gifting me! In the past I allowed males to purchase from a WL for me, but those days are gone. Why? Well for a couple of reasons. 1)Amazon now provides the sender with photo proof of delivery, which often displays an address. 2)Amazon WL gifts can be cancelled right after purchase, and up to shipping date. Have I ever had this happen to me, NO, but neither will I take the chance, so just be the bestest boy and send the gift card ;)

In fact, you should send lots and lots of gift cards, because you and I both know that I deserve them, and you exist to please me. Isn't it wonderful that you serve a gloriously divine purpose in my life?? Yay you!! Now get on giving meaning to your life by serving Sydney Claire :)
 

Living your best life

Welcome to my femdom world :)


Ya know, it has been a hot minute since I posted a new blog, but as usual life is a busy rat race at times lol

I am going to be a doll though, and post up some of my vacation photos just for you!!

If you were one of the good boys who contributed towards my vacation fun expenses, than you already received personal photos ;)

I really enjoyed my time away. Did you miss me?

It used to be that I would push myself to do do do, but a wake up call smacked me right dab in the eyes, and that got me to really thinking hard about some of my own choices over the last few years. Introspection is a pretty awesome thing.

I spent way too much time fretting about things that did not matter in the long run and not enough time focusing on what matters the most. What takes priority now?

1)My family
2)My happiness
3)My goals for the future

Online domination can be an absolute bitch. Did you know that? It is competitive. It is catty. It is brutal. It is full of betrayal. It is inhabited by men who could not care less about whether a woman is happy, healthy, or even alive, and women who will beat you down to get ahead in findom. Sound fun?

The upside is that it is also full of women who will build you up when the world has knocked you flat on your ass. Women who will encourage you, and listen to your woes. Women who don't unfollow you when you post about the unsexy aspects of life, or refuse to offer up revealing fetish pics. That is a definite positive!

There have been so many wonderful women to have graced my TL with their level of awesomeness..ya no I am not going to say the same about men. The few males who have earned my regard, have no need for me to applaud them in a blog post, for they already know how much I appreciate them.

In my roundabout way, I am relaying that I am going to change things up. No more concern about whether I have males lining up to serve me (told you long ago that I did not need the money) and more on developing long term devoted relationships with the worthy males who meet my requirements. Quality over quantity has always been the key to my success in findom relationships. I do not desire trash at my feet. It reeks, and holds no worth.

You will see me being more open to interactions albeit with my somewhat snarky sense of humor, but as always I will not chase anyone down. Tonight I even went so far as to open my DM's back up to the public, but mind you that the only messages I will respond to are those from males who are contributing to my financial success. The plus side of my action is that it affords sincere males the opportunity to contact me more intimately. Yay for them :)

I am debating on opening a kik account once more. Thoughts? Please do not ask about discord though, for I have heard about entirely too many negative issues in regards to them.

As always, keep your eye on the prize (btw the prize is being in service to Sydney ;)

 

Catch me on social media

Good evening poppets!

Do you follow me on twitter? If not, than you are missing out on the good stuff :) Rectify the error posthaste @MizSydney

If you had been a follower of mine, you would already know that Goddess is departing for vacation on Sunday! I have been absolutely swamped this week with preparations, and am actually exhausted before my vacation has even began lol, but I did take a quick moment to snap a pic this morning for all of the gents who love to love me

Don't you just adore my size 10 peds? They are perfectly delicious, and decadent! Not to mention that they love smothering poppet faces :) Pale and perfect, yes they are. 

Enough about my wrinkly soles....keep your tongue in your mouth..hmm it might be amusing to see you licking your screen! Poor little poppet reduced to a screen licking perv lol

Ok ok, back to the previous topic. So, I will be away from my desktop, but I will still be posting on twitter and IG. Speaking of IG, did you know that they shut my initial account down because of my chastity photos? Sheesh, I gather that dicks in devices is a no no. Well since they figuratively spanked my ass for my naughty photos, so I am primarily posting nature and feet photos. You like my feet yes? Well than, get to following me on IG!

I have posted about a couple of opportunities for you gents to put a smile on my face. Gift cards for a new scale to help me in my fitness journey ($30), or a bottle of my favorite scent ($80) mmm your gift spraying all over my flesh! Take your pick, or be the biggest sweetheart of all, and send for both!! Wouldn't you just be the most special gent then...yes, yes you would, so go ahead and be the bestest boy for Goddess :)

I will be posting photos while on vacation, but sorry gents, no blogs til I get back.

Of course you can still reach me on either social media, or via email to beg to be of use (mzsydney34@yahoo.com)

Anyways, hope to see your gift card in my inbox soon, which is my delicate way of saying SNAP SNAP get to it!!

 

 

Failure is an option

Hello hello precocious poppets

Many times over many years we have all heard the phrase "Failure is not an option", yet it is unequivocally false. Failure is most definitely an option, and most often it is the one we learn the most from.

I loathe breaking it to you, but I am just as human as you are lol, and have made plenty of mistakes in my lifetime. I have undergone failed ventures many a time, and actually came out better on the other side of them. Why? Well poppets, success comes from failure, that and a gut load of determination. 

An intelligent individual knows that failure highlights errors, which allows insight into necessary change. Once you know which steps led to your downfall, you can make the adjustments needed for success. Isn't that wonderful!!

So, perhaps you now understand that failing is not always a bad thing. 

When it comes to serving a woman in a submissive capacity, it is only natural for you to strive towards perfection since your Lady is due to receive your very best, but I am telling you in all honesty that you will fail at times. It is going to happen, but how you handle it, and how you choose to get past it determines the core of your character. 

Are you the type of man who gives up when he trips up, or are you the man who dusts himself off, and gets right back at it? Hopefully you are the latter.

I myself have always viewed mistakes as opportunities, as should you. Yes, failures are discouraging, and you might even feel like a dumbass when they occur, but if you stew in the brew of them, you will never achieve your goal, which should be providing the very best service possible. You can do it! You just have to want it more than anything :) so stop hiding behind your past mistakes, and get to serving your purpose in life. Oh and in case you were wondering what that purpose is (drum roll).....serving Sydney Claire!!!

The price of submission

Welcome poppets,

 

Today I speak to you about being a financial submissive. This is entirely different than being a service submissive, a sexual submissive, a fetishist, a client, a customer etc...

A financial submissive is the ONLY type of submissive I am interested in welcoming into my stable. No doubt this seems unfair, but life is not fair, and never delude yourself into thinking that it is meant to be. Life is intended to be lived, and enjoyed, but it was not created as an equal playing ground. Some people simply are better than others. Some people are more intelligent than others. Some people were born with financial advantages, and some have fought their way to the top of tier through sheer determination. 

I appreciate people who are laden with a determined spirit. Ones who are driven to succeed. People who will push past discomfort, and strive forward towards the culmination of their goals. Is this you? Are you one of the select few who will impress me? Are you a financial submissive?

Financial submissives differ from the everyday run of the mill submissives cluttering the findom scene, in that they are not buyers with demands and expectations. Customers repulse me. They are insincere, and seek only their own gratification. What in the hell is attractive about a man who cares only for his own pleasure? A man who lacks consideration for woman and their wants and needs. Why would any woman value such a man? A man who offers a woman nothing, is worth nothing, and I have no use for a useless man. 

Financial submissives give. They give without ulterior motivation. They give without coercion. They give simply to bring happiness. They give because they recognize that their contribution can make a difference in a woman's life. They give out of appreciation for a woman's time and energy. They give because it is ingrained within them to do so. 

You may consider these men to be saps, due to the fact that they are not receiving "due compensation" in return for their contributions, but you would be dead wrong, and the only reason that you even think like that is because you are selfish yourself. You cannot imagine any man giving without getting. You are so wrapped up in you you you, that you fail to realize that these men receive a gift far greater than any fleshly pleasure can provide. 

They are the men who make a difference. Those that stand out, and not forgotten easily. Nor are the discarded quicker than it takes the jizz to dry on your nuts. They are valued. They are appreciated. They are lauded as the very best of boys. They are the reason why I bother to continue making my presence known in the scene. These are the men I seek, and I am not a woman to settle for second rate submissives.

Mind you that you can be a financial submissive yet not a millionaire, but you cannot be a financial submissive without tributing a consistent weekly tithe. Consistency and generosity of said tributes are the key to becoming a desired financial submissive. 

Being a financial submissive will make you a better man. It will teach you to appreciate a woman. It will lead you to worship a woman in the purest sense. It will complete you.

There is nothing stopping you from being this type of man, except you. You are stopping you. It is you that has attached yourself to the ideology that you deserve to gain from the existence of women. It is you who has treated women as if their creation was intended as a sexual treat for you. It is you that has poisoned your mind with selfishness, and it is up to you to change yourself. You are less than a worthless worm belly crawling his way across the Earth taking and taking and taking from women, til at last you will realize that women have zero respect for you, in fact all they have for you is loathing. Does that make you feel good?

You do not want to be reviled do you? I cannot imagine that being a good feeling in any sense. Redeem yourself lest it be too late for you. Start today even if it is small. Start today by giving of yourself selflessly to a woman. Start your day by making a woman smile as she sees your gift awaiting her in her inbox. Thank a woman for existing, and bringing beauty into your life. Give and gift gents, for that is what financial submissives do, and that is what you are purposed to do.

I expect to see the gift of your generous giving within my inbox after having read and absorbing my commands.
mzsydney34@yahoo.com