Friday, November 16, 2018
Is anybody out there
It does not feel as if anyone ever actually reads my blogs. Are my words reaching, encouraging, teaching, uplifting, inspiring? Sound off with comments, or I am going to reconsider the investment of my time producing them.
Thursday, November 15, 2018
Build a Findom ark
Ok, so today I was on twitter and seen a post about how the findom scene is over saturated with women, and that women who have been around quite some time are leaving the scene because of it, which is not a good thing for the fetish in general.
No one needs to be market savvy to grasp the concept of supply and demand. The more there are of any one product (and no I do not view women as products) the less demand there will be for said product, because the customer/client can shop around for the lowest pricing, and we are definitely seeing a shit ton of that type of behavior right now.
Right now, findom is a buyers market. The buyer can and does shop around for bargains. Is it so very surprising that a man will opt to pay $10 for a cam session from a newer female rather than the $100 an established Domme is charging? Of course there are always exceptions, but on the entirety, this is what is going on, and it is going to continue to go on.
Let's take a quick look at other adverse effects of over saturation in findom.
1)Newer females nor newer males for the most part are educated in regards to RACK or SSC. This is a huge safety concern.
2)Newer females come in thinking that findom is easy money. It isn't, and without the knowledge of what findom really is, they are muddying the waters even further for the new males serving under them. Newer males on the other hand, come in thinking that findom is about paying for pussy, either to see or fuck.
3)Newer females tend to gloss over the domination aspect, and just demand money. This is how findom gets a really shitty rep..ya know the instadomme tag :(. There are 2 aspects to findom.a)financial b)domination. Whilst newer males attempt to bypass the financial aspect altogether.
4)The newer females are approaching findom like a tit for tat, spoil me I spoil back modal. Findom is not about spoiling a male. It is not about selling anything. Yuppers I know that a great many FinDommes sell items, clips, sessions etc.. but that is business, not service. Newer males get that findom is not about selling things, but unfortunately they do not want to pay tribute either, cause they are spoiled with entitlement issues.
5)With an avalanche of newer females, you will find that the majority of FinDommes are hauling in less and less tribute (supply&demand), even the Dommes who have been around for ages, so what you get is more and more females departing the scene, but you would not notice the exodus, because a new flood of inexperienced females come in right behind them.
This is a vicious cycle, and it hurts the fetish scene massively. Without experienced Dommes leading the way, you end up with a gaggle of males who are not trained to treat women with respect, who think that it is ok to top from the bottom, who try to lowball tribute, and that is if they even pay at all.
I completely understand that the scene is evolving, but holy shit, it is no where near the definition of findom at all! Mind you, I am not hating on new blood coming in, but some days are like a free for all display of thirst, and horniness. Some changes are good, but than some are not. It all depends on your outlook, and how determined you are to ride the wave.
Good luck to all who are battening down the hatches, and sticking it out :)
No one needs to be market savvy to grasp the concept of supply and demand. The more there are of any one product (and no I do not view women as products) the less demand there will be for said product, because the customer/client can shop around for the lowest pricing, and we are definitely seeing a shit ton of that type of behavior right now.
Right now, findom is a buyers market. The buyer can and does shop around for bargains. Is it so very surprising that a man will opt to pay $10 for a cam session from a newer female rather than the $100 an established Domme is charging? Of course there are always exceptions, but on the entirety, this is what is going on, and it is going to continue to go on.
Let's take a quick look at other adverse effects of over saturation in findom.
1)Newer females nor newer males for the most part are educated in regards to RACK or SSC. This is a huge safety concern.
2)Newer females come in thinking that findom is easy money. It isn't, and without the knowledge of what findom really is, they are muddying the waters even further for the new males serving under them. Newer males on the other hand, come in thinking that findom is about paying for pussy, either to see or fuck.
3)Newer females tend to gloss over the domination aspect, and just demand money. This is how findom gets a really shitty rep..ya know the instadomme tag :(. There are 2 aspects to findom.a)financial b)domination. Whilst newer males attempt to bypass the financial aspect altogether.
4)The newer females are approaching findom like a tit for tat, spoil me I spoil back modal. Findom is not about spoiling a male. It is not about selling anything. Yuppers I know that a great many FinDommes sell items, clips, sessions etc.. but that is business, not service. Newer males get that findom is not about selling things, but unfortunately they do not want to pay tribute either, cause they are spoiled with entitlement issues.
5)With an avalanche of newer females, you will find that the majority of FinDommes are hauling in less and less tribute (supply&demand), even the Dommes who have been around for ages, so what you get is more and more females departing the scene, but you would not notice the exodus, because a new flood of inexperienced females come in right behind them.
This is a vicious cycle, and it hurts the fetish scene massively. Without experienced Dommes leading the way, you end up with a gaggle of males who are not trained to treat women with respect, who think that it is ok to top from the bottom, who try to lowball tribute, and that is if they even pay at all.
I completely understand that the scene is evolving, but holy shit, it is no where near the definition of findom at all! Mind you, I am not hating on new blood coming in, but some days are like a free for all display of thirst, and horniness. Some changes are good, but than some are not. It all depends on your outlook, and how determined you are to ride the wave.
Good luck to all who are battening down the hatches, and sticking it out :)
Happy Birthday to your Favorite FinDom Goddess
Today is the day you have been waiting all year for! Let's get this party started correctly shall we?? How does one start off this special day, by giving thanks of course. Thanks that on this day, your divine Goddess was born!!
All year long I share myself with you. I open my mind, and divulge wisdom, guidance, and support of your darkest fantasies, which is why you will do no other than to go out of your way, and into debt making sure that this is the best possible birthday for me! My birthday wishes become the desires you must sate, and you definitely need to pleasure me :)
Go big laddies, and spend hardcore for me today. You and I both know that I deserve the very best life has to offer, and it is your honor to provide my luxuries.
Get ready, get set...spend and send me a big juicy amazon gift card!!! mzsydney34@yahoo.com is where your gift to me goes gents :)
All year long I share myself with you. I open my mind, and divulge wisdom, guidance, and support of your darkest fantasies, which is why you will do no other than to go out of your way, and into debt making sure that this is the best possible birthday for me! My birthday wishes become the desires you must sate, and you definitely need to pleasure me :)
Go big laddies, and spend hardcore for me today. You and I both know that I deserve the very best life has to offer, and it is your honor to provide my luxuries.
Get ready, get set...spend and send me a big juicy amazon gift card!!! mzsydney34@yahoo.com is where your gift to me goes gents :)
Tuesday, November 13, 2018
I know what you did lastnight
I know exactly what you did lastnight lol
You are the one who delights in the tease..yearns for the taunting, and craves the denial of what will never belong to you.
I see you glorifying in your depravity, and perversion. I can smell your desperation..taste your desire upon my tongue.
You NEED the cruelty of my rejection. The searing rejection of what makes you a man.
I bet that little puke stick in your pants is drooling as you read my words, isn't it?? It knows how utterly worthless it is. It wants to be useful though, will you let it be useful to me?
Right now at this very moment I want you to log in to your amazon account, and if you do not have one, create one. You will do this for me won't you? Your cock is crying out for attention as you put in your password, isn't it? Why don't you let him out for just a minute :)
That's right, I said let him out..now hold him in your hand. He is throbbing isn't he? Yes he likes to be touched, and you like touching him don't you? You are a nasty little cock stroker aren't you? Say, yes Goddess. You touch it all the time don't you? I know you do.
Not this time though. You are going to just let him lay there calling out for you. He must be taught a lesson, and you are going to help me teach him right from wrong aren't you? Say, yes Goddess.
Now my perverse pet, you are going to put a gift card into your amazon cart for mzsydney34@yahoo.com. Don't hit send yet. Wait a minute, and savor the pleasure about to cum. Be a good little perverse pet, and give him a light stroke, lightly pet, for he has not earned any rewards yet. Just a teasing taste of excitement for him.
Make him wait for it...draw it out. You do not want this feeling to end too quickly now do you? You like being mean to that perverse abomination for Goddess don't you? Say, yes Goddess.
Look at him..see him for the failure he is. He fails you, and he will fail any woman he ever gets near. Does he deserve pleasure? Do you?
The only time Goddess will ever allow you to quench his hunger to cum, is when you are pleasing Goddess. You want to please Goddess don't you? Say, yes Goddess.
Start stroking him pet..softly..so softly..feel him begging you to let him explode. He wants to cum...you want to cum, don't you? Say, yes Goddess.
Take him to the edge of bliss now..ahhh but do not let him go over. Careful my perverse pet..show some restraint. Look up, you see the send button don't you? Say, yes Goddess. Yes you see it...click it..send the gift card to Goddess..do it NOW.
Good boy for Goddess :) and since you have pleased Goddess, you have my permission to stroke that putrid excuse of a penis til it pukes all over your hand, but don't for get that if you make a mess, you must clean it up with your tongue :) Yummy huh?
Remember the rule pet...no pleasure for you til Goddess has been pleased first! Say, yes Goddess.
That's the story of Findom
Sit right down my lovely little gents whilst I tell you a story, the story..the story of findom
There once was a lonely forgotten man who wanted nothing more than to be noticed by the eyes of a deity, but he lacked the courage to do more than dream of the day he would at last shine in the glory of her presence. Needless to say, he was a very sad little man in his day to day life. He was just another face in a misbegotten place.
He drudged and he toiled at a 9-5 job, never moving up. He stagnated in his little cubicle to the point that even the cobwebs sought to decorate him. How pitiful this little man came to be, and all who seen him acted as if he did not exist, unless they had an undesirable task to slide off onto him. You could always count on him for that much, for he simply had no life, and no friends to speak highly of him. Poor little forgotten soul.
Years passed by, before his gumption kicked him in the gut, and he declared to the heavens that he would suffer this lack of living no more. He became determined to reach for his dream. He was going to do whatever it took to finally catch the attention of his most beloved Goddess.
How does one go about it though, he pondered. He definitely needed a plan, so he sat all night til the stars began to fade, and thought and thought. Oh however was he going to get her to see him, when lo and behold an epiphany seared across his thoughts. He had it!
That very day he typed up a missive like none he had ever put into words before. He declared to her that he would be the very best servant ever, that he would do anything, be anything she required. Surely that will prove to her that I am worthy of serving her!! He hit the send button before he could change his mind out of cowardice, then waited, and waited, and waited some more. Alas she did not answer him back. Where had he gone wrong...maybe she just did not receive it, so he sat down once more and this time shared his life story with her, making sure to include how he really really really wanted to serve her, and hit the send button again. His stomach was tied in knots waiting on her reply.
He waited moments, then hours, which drifted into days, til he could no longer refuse to accept that she was not going to respond. What could he do? I got it, he thought! He followed the trail of her social media account, and read all that she ever said. He could not believe how stupid he had been..it had been there all along. She was not looking for words. She required action. Action based upon sacrifice. She wanted him to let go of what he wanted, and to embrace instead, what she wants. He would have to scrape away what once was, and begin anew. A new beginning for him with a brand new him.
This time he would not fail! He created an amazon account right away, and sent her the largest financial sacrifice that he could afford, along with a note that said "all that I am, and all that I have belongs to you my divine deity, do with it what you will". His hands were shaking as he sent the gift and note. He felt faint with anticipation as the clock ticked so slow in his ears. Ding ding...message received. Oh my oh my oh my...she had messaged him!! He swallowed so hard his throat hurt, but he opened her email with a soft sigh. He could not believe his eyes!
She said "My little sad forgotten man, I have waited for you to understand, and now that you have shown yourself as a man who sees beyond himself, you may at last address me as my servant, for you have stripped from yourself all that was selfish, and kneel before me now as selfless little sam".
His dream, his fantasy, his lifelong quest granted.
There once was a lonely forgotten man who wanted nothing more than to be noticed by the eyes of a deity, but he lacked the courage to do more than dream of the day he would at last shine in the glory of her presence. Needless to say, he was a very sad little man in his day to day life. He was just another face in a misbegotten place.
He drudged and he toiled at a 9-5 job, never moving up. He stagnated in his little cubicle to the point that even the cobwebs sought to decorate him. How pitiful this little man came to be, and all who seen him acted as if he did not exist, unless they had an undesirable task to slide off onto him. You could always count on him for that much, for he simply had no life, and no friends to speak highly of him. Poor little forgotten soul.
Years passed by, before his gumption kicked him in the gut, and he declared to the heavens that he would suffer this lack of living no more. He became determined to reach for his dream. He was going to do whatever it took to finally catch the attention of his most beloved Goddess.
How does one go about it though, he pondered. He definitely needed a plan, so he sat all night til the stars began to fade, and thought and thought. Oh however was he going to get her to see him, when lo and behold an epiphany seared across his thoughts. He had it!
That very day he typed up a missive like none he had ever put into words before. He declared to her that he would be the very best servant ever, that he would do anything, be anything she required. Surely that will prove to her that I am worthy of serving her!! He hit the send button before he could change his mind out of cowardice, then waited, and waited, and waited some more. Alas she did not answer him back. Where had he gone wrong...maybe she just did not receive it, so he sat down once more and this time shared his life story with her, making sure to include how he really really really wanted to serve her, and hit the send button again. His stomach was tied in knots waiting on her reply.
He waited moments, then hours, which drifted into days, til he could no longer refuse to accept that she was not going to respond. What could he do? I got it, he thought! He followed the trail of her social media account, and read all that she ever said. He could not believe how stupid he had been..it had been there all along. She was not looking for words. She required action. Action based upon sacrifice. She wanted him to let go of what he wanted, and to embrace instead, what she wants. He would have to scrape away what once was, and begin anew. A new beginning for him with a brand new him.
This time he would not fail! He created an amazon account right away, and sent her the largest financial sacrifice that he could afford, along with a note that said "all that I am, and all that I have belongs to you my divine deity, do with it what you will". His hands were shaking as he sent the gift and note. He felt faint with anticipation as the clock ticked so slow in his ears. Ding ding...message received. Oh my oh my oh my...she had messaged him!! He swallowed so hard his throat hurt, but he opened her email with a soft sigh. He could not believe his eyes!
She said "My little sad forgotten man, I have waited for you to understand, and now that you have shown yourself as a man who sees beyond himself, you may at last address me as my servant, for you have stripped from yourself all that was selfish, and kneel before me now as selfless little sam".
His dream, his fantasy, his lifelong quest granted.
Monday, November 12, 2018
Be a man of action
Gentlemen, my dudes, take a seat...
There is so much hoopla being posted about the need for verification of females in the findom fetish scene, that it is simply unreal lol.
You as males in this scene NEED to wrap your head around a few facts. You are the submissives ie subservients aka slaves. It is your job to research any female that you are considering offering your service to. Get that, YOUR JOB! You are expected to expend your time going through her social media, web site, clip store if she has one to ascertain for yourself that she is exactly what she represents herself to be. It is not her job to hop on cam for your gratification before you have even sent an initial tribute. Sheesh, suffering from much entitlement??
The problem is twofold, 1) You males are lazy as fuck 2) You males always look for free jerk opportunities
So, when you go around demanding that females verify themselves on cam or with a photo (your name on it of course) ya, you are outing yourself as either number 1. or number 2. Of course I expect to get shit rained on me, cause holy hell didn't I know that males have been scammed before?? Fuck yes I know this, but it is all their own fault. You heard me right...IT IS ALL THEIR OWN FAULT. No pity, and no fucks given.
You should be studying any female you are thinking about approaching...study her like you would a work of art. If the shading is a bit too heavy, than back the fuck off, and start your search anew. Do not, and I repeat, do not allow your dick to do the deciding. He will fuck you all kinds of up.
And don't even get me started on the whiners who refuse to part with a small tribute to get to know a female. If you refuse to invest even a small amount, than you are refuse from the get go. True you may not mesh with a female, but by not even sending the bare minimum amount of tribute, all you are saying, is that you do not value a woman's time. I really do not give a flying fark if you cannot even afford a small tribute to every single dominant you desire to interact with. Either save up til you can, limit the number of dominants you approach, or gtfo out the fetish, cause you are giving me a headache with your bellyaching.
I am telling you right now that dominant women do know a good boy when they come into contact with one, and he is not a whiner or bitcher. He values women's time, and attention. He has already taken the time to research a woman before he approaches her, so he knows fairly well if she is what he is looking for, and if she is who she says she is. He tributes without demands or expectations, as he appreciates her time interacting with him, and is grateful for the opportunity in coming to know her. These actions or lack thereof are what set good boys apart from wanking slackers, so you have been forewarned. Get it together, and act right from the start.
There is so much hoopla being posted about the need for verification of females in the findom fetish scene, that it is simply unreal lol.
You as males in this scene NEED to wrap your head around a few facts. You are the submissives ie subservients aka slaves. It is your job to research any female that you are considering offering your service to. Get that, YOUR JOB! You are expected to expend your time going through her social media, web site, clip store if she has one to ascertain for yourself that she is exactly what she represents herself to be. It is not her job to hop on cam for your gratification before you have even sent an initial tribute. Sheesh, suffering from much entitlement??
The problem is twofold, 1) You males are lazy as fuck 2) You males always look for free jerk opportunities
So, when you go around demanding that females verify themselves on cam or with a photo (your name on it of course) ya, you are outing yourself as either number 1. or number 2. Of course I expect to get shit rained on me, cause holy hell didn't I know that males have been scammed before?? Fuck yes I know this, but it is all their own fault. You heard me right...IT IS ALL THEIR OWN FAULT. No pity, and no fucks given.
You should be studying any female you are thinking about approaching...study her like you would a work of art. If the shading is a bit too heavy, than back the fuck off, and start your search anew. Do not, and I repeat, do not allow your dick to do the deciding. He will fuck you all kinds of up.
And don't even get me started on the whiners who refuse to part with a small tribute to get to know a female. If you refuse to invest even a small amount, than you are refuse from the get go. True you may not mesh with a female, but by not even sending the bare minimum amount of tribute, all you are saying, is that you do not value a woman's time. I really do not give a flying fark if you cannot even afford a small tribute to every single dominant you desire to interact with. Either save up til you can, limit the number of dominants you approach, or gtfo out the fetish, cause you are giving me a headache with your bellyaching.
I am telling you right now that dominant women do know a good boy when they come into contact with one, and he is not a whiner or bitcher. He values women's time, and attention. He has already taken the time to research a woman before he approaches her, so he knows fairly well if she is what he is looking for, and if she is who she says she is. He tributes without demands or expectations, as he appreciates her time interacting with him, and is grateful for the opportunity in coming to know her. These actions or lack thereof are what set good boys apart from wanking slackers, so you have been forewarned. Get it together, and act right from the start.
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