Ispy

I like that word :)

Onto the topic! Gents creeping round the findom forums hoping for notice,you are going about it all the wrong way if all you are doing is creeping. What I mean by creeping is liking pics,tweets,posts,vids,but saying nary a word. I would ask if the cat bit out your tongue,but that does not really apply online now does it...perhaps I should ask instead if your fingers fell off from rubbin the nubbin too much lol

Sitting back and clicking a few likes is not going to gain you entrance to the inner sanctum of a Domme's domain. In fact it may garner you no attention at all,other than a passing thought of "whoopee another lurking loser".

Some of you are going to say "but hey I am shy",and to that I would respond with that old saying "nothing ventured,nothing gained". You cannot take a backseat to your own submission,and expect it to go anywhere. It is like standing near the ice cream truck,but not ordering anything...believe me that the cone you are salivating over will never be yours to lick if you do not approach and open your mouth..or in the case of findom,your wallet :)

Becoming a blip on the radar of a beautiful Domme requires effort on your part. Ya just gotta sub up,and make yourself known to her. The best way to gain an invitation to talk is by sending a small tribute. I am sharing gold here with you boys. No lie,tributing is the way to make a positive first impression. Compliments alone simply will not do. Dommes have heard them all,and honestly they cease to impress anymore. Be original,be worthy of a second glance,tribute and you just might have a chance :)