Anger is such an ugly repulsive deterrent to attracting what you seek.
I read more profiles than Dickens composed literature,and that is saying alot. A recurring theme appears to be the aftertaste of anger upon completion. So much anger,but why? Mad because YOU cannot get what YOU want,that what YOU demand remains out of your reach,even due to being denied what YOU claim as a need.
The anger is superfluous and unattractive. Lashing out serves no purpose. It is YOU who is in error with your strategy,not the Dommes who happen past you. The issue is your remaining fixation upon yourself,your wants,your desires,your fantasies. This mindset is what holds you back. It is like an anchor weighing you down into the deep dark abyss of being not of use. A ball and chain comprised of excess weight(your ego and sense of entitlement). To get any further,you are going to have to cut yourself loose from those strangling bonds.
Any D's relationship entered into by a "submissive" is doomed for
failure from the start if his intentions are centered upon his own
gratifying designs.There is no room for self when one is meant to serve selflessly. This requires an eradication of all desires,except those which please a Domme,and I guarantee that her primary focus is not what gets YOU off,so shed those shitstain cravings like a second skin that you are posing as needs. YOU do not need to get off,YOU do not need wank fodder,YOU do not need actions which objectify women...those are wants,and your wants are irrelevant in the scheme of things. Don't believe me,that is fine,and yes I know that there are plenty of service providers out there who will be your genie in the bottle..but then that is not submission and domination,that is only business. If it is a business arrangement you seek,then do be along with yourself,for you shame the title of submissive.
Another reason behind the rage that I behold is findom. Ack so many of you loathe the fetish,for various aspects. I will even share those reasons with you.
1)You possess no excess income(in fact you may not even make enough to care for your basic needs,hence you living in Mommy's basement)so it stands to reason that you are going to be very angry with women who realize their worth,and expect to be treated as a Goddess. Your anger though is misplaced,and should be internalized,for it is the fault of yourself that your financial status sucks ass. If you cannot afford a decent vanilla date(oh and by decent I am not referring to netfix and chilling at your place)then you are on a one way street when it comes to finding someone to serve.
2)You live with that entitled philosophy of "I don't have to pay for shit,I am too good for that" Uh huh and you are alone on Saturday nights too,unless you can con a drunk chick into giving it up...enjoy those herps son. That entitled bullshit went out with the dark ages. Women owe you nothing,and you best drill that fact into your brain.
3)"My dick is God's gift to women" LMFAO about that one. Dicks are fucking ugly. Don't be so proud of an appendage that resembles a worm(icky creatures) It is a rare female who is attracted to a male due to his dick alone..and you are highly unlikely to locate that unicorn lol.
4)There are those that even try to trade services in lieu of paying tribute. Homework slaves,web slaves,twitter slaves,oral slaves,sex slaves(biggest joke of them all) You should be paying tribute for the honor of doing homework,paying for designing websites,paying to retweet,and forget the oral and sex slave shit...you are the farthest thing from being worthy of that distinction. Since the creation of vibrators,you have been replaced with a better version,so erase that from your possible options of service post haste!
After all I have said,where does that leave you? That leaves you a blank chalkboard for the use of a Domme. Devoid of dick based designs,willing and aware that your place is paying tribute,and taking orders...orders which suit her needs,not your wants.
Clear?
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