One of the most basic responsibilities in FinDom is the giving of gifts to your Domme. Whether it be cash or material items. It is a given, and need not be expounded upon, for all who claim the status of "finsub, paypig, cashslave, human atm, generous gent, pay pet, etc.." know that tribute is their honored duty.
It truly is an honor to gift your Goddess, for she is meant to be the center of your universe. She guides you in submission to her. She educates you upon her protocol. She shares of her time, knowledge, and patience with you. She is the star you look to when you are unsure of which way to go. These are just a few of the reasons why submissives give gifts in thanks to their Domme.
The issue many males have with this structure is that they want to know what is in it for them. By the way, this is an incorrect and self-centered mindset. Anyways, what is it that males who worship and tribute receive from their FinDommes? The answer is simplistic, yet apparently fully incomprehensible to those who cannot and will not see past themselves.
Giving is submitting. It is relinquishing that which has been held dear, into the hands of one they hold dear. It is a supplication of will. It is a release of ego and demands for self. It is selfless. It is freedom from the binds of society dictates for male behavior, yet not, for it has always been a male's sacred duty to support and provide for females. That aspect does not alter, but the intent behind the action does. He gives, not because he is told that he must, he gives because he wants to receive the joy and pleasure of submitting his riches to a woman that he holds in highest esteem. He gives because he wants her world to sparkle and shine with the brilliance of his utter devotion to her happiness.
Giving to a Domme provides a submissive with the opportunity to submit, which is her most priceless gift to him. Accepting the submission of a submissive is a gift. The Domme is allowing the submissive to serve out their intended in life purpose, and that is truly a gift of means beyond the tangible. She is giving the gift of purpose. She is providing pleasure to the submissive by accepting their servitude. The submissive receives these gifts from his Domme, so please do leave off with the entire "what does the submissive get for their money BS". FinDom relationships are indeed about giving and receiving. The submissive gives monetary gifts, and he receives the gift of purpose.
Now get off your duff, and get to spending, and sending, so that you too can be gifted with purpose in life!
It could feasibly be said that the greatest weakness a man possesses is his cock. He is ruled by it night and day. He is truly a bitch to it's demands. Isn't that right gents?
You wake up in the morning, and guess who pops up to say hello? Yup, your bestie friend and worst enemy commands your right hand attention. You cannot escape the creepy bastard.
You are driving down the road, spy a hot honey, and boom he screams for your notice. You head to the gym, see a banging bod, and hello he is knocking in your drawers. Don't you wish that you could bury his ass for a day or so?
Where would you plant him though..ut oh that type of thinking gets him revving, cause he likes to delve into deep dark holes.
What to do, what to do. You could rinse him with extra cold water, but even that garners his salute sometimes! You could tape him to your leg, only ouchie it starts to hurt real bad when he stretches, and the tape pulls out your hair. I got it, you should hogtie his ass, no way is he getting out of those super tight knots! Oh my lands what is that..he is turning black and blue from lack of oxygen, and you can't get the knots undone without severing him clean from your body. Looks like you are going to have to take a trip to the ER. What a way for him to make his introduction to the world lol. He will be the star of many stories bandied about at the nurse's station. How grand that will be :) He does love attention, and showing himself off to women, so this is a win win for him, but not so much you, cause you are now the butt of every ER joke.
I really have it this time, I promise. I know exactly how you can put him down without anyone being any the wiser. Lock his ass up in a cock cage! That is the ticket. A chastity cage is his kryptonite. He cannot escape, he cannot embarrass you anymore, and he sure as hell cannot derail you from your purpose in life. This is the true win win scenario, so do yourself a favor, LOCK HIM UP! Do it now before he tries to talk you out of it. You know it is for the best. He has done nothing but cause trouble for you all of your life. You have to be cruel to be kind :)
You may now thank me for helping you solve your most persistent and peskiest problem by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
Giving your all in submission, should be one of your top ten goals for life as a submissive male, for if you are not giving your all, than you are not fully committed. Committing yourself to serving is of prime importance. Going half ass in will only deprive you of the fulfillment service brings into your life, and you want to experience the full monty now don't you?
Being proactive, and fully cognizant of your options and responsibilities in service is the way to go. No lukewarm, lackluster, tentative attempts will ever be good enough.
What is holding you back from immersing yourself?
Sitting on the sidelines will not get you called up into active service to a Dominant woman. You have to apply for the position of submissive to serve. You must be willing to prove that you are a worthwhile risk for her to engage, and lurking in the shadows does nothing but waste your life. Do you really want to waste more precious non-refundable time?
If you are sitting here right now reading my words, than you know that they apply to you. It is you that needs to get off the shitter, and get to work on serving. There is no time like the present to change your life, and you are definitely in need of change, so make that change, and become what you know you truly are...a servant of Sydney Claire!
Sydney Claire is ALL you need...all you want. You have no need of anyone else. She is everything to you.
Your life was meaningless without her, and you were less than nothing before you found her.
Pleasing her is your orgasm now, and you love to cum don't you? All those cashgasms for Goddess. Delicious.
You hunger for that feel good feeling you get when you click send. Nothing else compares to the high you get when you spoil Sydney Claire. She is your addiction. Your Domme of Choice.
You would do anything to please her. Her laughter is the intoxication you seek, and when she calls you her good boy, you feel as if you are staring at the sun..blinded by her radiance, and surrounded by her warmth. She is all you need.
Serving Sydney Claire is a magical experience. It strips away all of the bad within you, and replaces it with the joy of being of use to her.
You have found your purpose. You have found your deity. You need nor want any other. She alone fills your life full. There is room for no other. Only she.
When you close your eyes at night, it is to her that you pray. When you dream, it is her that leads your fantasies. When you wake, it is her face that you seek out. Your first action upon waking is to recite your mantra for Sydney Claire, for she alone fulfills you.
She is what was missing, and now that you have found her, you will be all that she wants. You will give all that you have to remain in her good graces. You left behind your ego, and desire to kneel before her in supplication like a good boy.
She is your world, and the center of your universe. Give to Goddess. Send to Goddess. Spend on Goddess.
You need Goddess. You want no other Goddess. She is everything. She is all things. She is beyond your mortal reach, therefore you will tithe her daily for the honor of being recognized by her.
No holding back, no excuses, no saying no. You want, you need, you must have this Goddess in your life. Give to Goddess because it feels so fucking good to please her. Give to Goddess because she deserves your very best. Just Giveeeeee
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Gentlemen you all are getting twisted! Do you even know what Findom is? I really do not believe that you do.
This is coming straight from my perspective, and if you want to disagree, that is cool, but my view is firm, which means that you are not going to be changing my mind, okies.
Findom is not about you, or your dick. It never was, and never will be. Yes Dommes know that you are obsessed with that worthless skin sac in your pants, but they are not. Dommes do not wake up every morning thinking..hey I hope that I will be lucky enough to help a bunch of random dicks spew out of the goodness of my heart, whilst asking nothing for myself. Seriously who even thinks like that...ya you do.
If this is how you think, YOU are the anal leakage of the fetish. This is Financial Domination bb...that means MONEY. It is a fetish based upon MONEY, not dick. It is about dicks giving their money to women plain and simple. Don't like the truth of it, don't come around here no more, cause it ain't gonna change no matter how much you wish it would. Just get over yourself, and accept that in order to play in this sandbox, you are going to have to pay the entrance fee. Findom was always about the money, no matter how many other fetishes get umbrellad under the term. It is about the money, it was about the money, it will be about the money.
Hold up, don't think that I am forgetting about the domination aspect. Look at the words again. FINANCIAL DOMINATION. It is the act of dominating finances. Dominating money, and that breaks down to...YOU giving your money to women. See how apparent that is? The route that the domination of that cash takes is up to the dominant, but if the money is not involved, it AIN'T Financial Domination. Spin it however you want, but get the terminology correct. No money = no findom. That clear?? If not, you are too stupid to exist on this planet.
The foot attire I wore on my date tonight :) These heels were actually a gift from a female submissive...hot or not?
Gifts...Goddess loves gifts, and you love to give Goddess gifts, so we are a perfect match! You give, I receive..a win win situation.
The heels of these shoes were used to dig into my man's ass tonight. I bet you little cuckys would pop a pecker knowing that an item you had gifted me with was worn when I was with my man lol. This is just one of the reasons why little cuckys should be begging to buy me gifts for my dates. I love the idea of you spending your hard earned money on things that you will never be able to appreciate in person, and the burn it will cause you when you realize that another man is enjoying the fruits of your labor. Kinda makes you feel like an impotent loser doesn't it...a loser whose only way to please a woman, is with his wallet.
Would you like to be a walking wallet for Goddess and her man. How hot would it be for you to buy Goddess and her man gifts? You would love it you little freak. You know that you aren't good enough in bed for any woman, so you have to pay to get off. You have to pay for all of the fun toys, clothes, and any sensual items Goddess finds pleasing. Clothes, perfume, lotions, hoisery, panties, jewelry etc...anything my heart desires to entice, tease, and seduce my man. If you are a good boy, and please me with your gifts, than I just might let you pull that putrid pecker of yours as you imagine what it would be like to be there in person watching Goddess get down and dirty with her man. I bet you are touching yourself right now, aren't you...STOP!! You are not allowed to stroke or rub that pretense of a penis til you have received permission from Goddess..and Goddess is not pleased with you.
You have been a naughty selfish piglet. You have failed to gift Goddess with goodies, and until you do, she will not even consider relenting on your no yank ban, so I suggest that you do as you have been told, and send Goddess a gift card today, and beg for her to forgive you.
Do it, do it now!
