Topsy turvy FemDom

This is exactly how some of you are approaching me. You are acting as if your ideals,and desires for a FemDom relationship with me are superior to my own. Does this scenario honestly appear to you as what FemDom is meant to be? You cannot maintain a regard of you as the male in a position of authority if you are going to engage in a power exchange with me. FemDom is in no way about the male standing above the female. FemDom could not be FemDom if the female were not reigning in the sole position of dominance. Does this make sense? Do you comprehend why it must be this way? Submission is about submitting,and if you are not submitting,than there is no submission..ergo no domination,which erases any possibility of FemDom occurring.

You have the choice of calling the shots yes,but only if you are playing with a service provider. Having a customer mentality(I am always right,and I am the boss)works when you are paying for a service,but not when you are serving. Why so many of you get this dynamic confused is beyond my comprehension. A service is purchased,whereas serving is gifting out of gratitude. Either way you are coming out of pocket,but you will be able to choose which experience you will delve into.

Topping from the bottom..oh how I hate thee. This is what it reminds me of.

I will not stoop to wrestle control that is duly mine away from you. That is beneath me,and frankly an insult to FemDom itself. You have to be willing to relinquish control if you are going to serve in a useful and fulfilling capacity. There is no way around that. You cannot,and I will not allow you to be the boss from the bottom. It is entirely too tiring,and fails to substantiate my use of time.

Some of you even go so far as to try this tactical approach to FemDom.

Does this ever work? Sure you may not repeat these exact words,but the implication comes clear through that you expect,well I should say want instead..a FemDom to force you to submit to her. Seriously? I know that this is a favored role play,but damn if I have to make you submit,than that technically is labelled abuse,and that ain't my bag bb. Ya ya ya it falls under the spectrum of consensual non-consent,but non-consent in any form just feels wrong in the application for me personally. For all of my worldly faults,I am not a bully,and I desire no submission that is not given willingly.

This is the only acceptable way in service to me.

You will be at my feet in subservience. Anything less is unacceptable. You want to be at my feet like this good boy don't you? This is the correct way to embrace FemDom. You beneath and below.

FemDom is a thing of beauty when you give to me what belongs to me...your absolute submission.