One chance to make a lasting memory

Gentlemen do you realize that the first impression you make upon a dominant woman is the one that sets the tone for your entire exchange, and if the impression she receives of you is poor, than you may have killed off all possibilities of serving her.

You guys tend to make the same mistake over and over with the same results. What does that sound like..hmm the definition of insanity ring a bell? 

Where are you going wrong? If these are the opening messages you are sending, than this is how you are getting off on the wrong foot.

1)Hi

2)Hey

3)Wats up (sexy, beautiful, gorgeous, honey, sugar, girl, woman etc)

4)Dick pic

5)I would do anything to serve you

6)I want you to do XYZ to me

7)Do you wanna fuck

8)I wanna hit that

9)I got a cum tribute for you

10)You make my dick hard

11)I am a broke student, and can't pay you, but can I serve you anyway

12)You are just a whore after my money(hurling insults in the hope of receiving a backlash of humiliation)

13)Real Dommes dominate for free

14)Can I get your skype, kik etc..

15)Here are some photos for you to blackmail me with

16)Here is my paypal addy for you to take my money

17)Can I be your live in slave

18)Will you marry me so I can get a green card

19)Nice tits, ass, pussy etc..

20)What do I get if I pay

Now at one time or another, I have received every single one of these messages as an opening gambit. Do you wanna guess the rate of success with these approaches? Zero, zilch, and no where but blocked. 

Women really do not have the patience or interest in speaking with asinine males, who lack the very common sense required to interact with a fellow living, breathing human being. 

Do not be this type of male. You have been educated now, and you have been warned of the probable repercussions. Make good decisions by thinking before you speak, and rereading before you hit the send button.

You can thank me for sharing, by sending amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com
 

What FemDoms desire in a submissive

Take a seat gents, cause I am going to share some golden nuggets of knowledge with you!

Do you know what dominant women desire in a submissive servant? I didn't think so, so I am going to educate you :)

These are the top 9 off the top of my head

1)Humility
Humility is about being humble. It is not allowing ego to ruin your opportunity to be of service. You may have spent all the days prior thinking that you are the shit, but when you are down on your knees before a woman...you will realize quickly that you are not the gift to women that you thought you were. You are merely a man, no better than any other man (even if your cock and wallet are better padded).

2)Honorable
This is a word that you just do not hear much about anymore...it has become rather esoteric when describing men. Honorable is about having integrity, being honest, and true to your word. Are you honorable? If not, get to work on yourself til you are!

3)Respect
Respect for women, yourself, society on the whole. No one likes a disrespectful shit. That is comparable to dealing with a child, and bdsm is for Adults. Act like one.

4)Loyalty
You know what being loyal is? It is kinda like the entire vanilla monogamy thing. Don't be trying to step out on the sly. You will get caught, trust me, and when you do, your opportunity is demolished. If you are a community slut, than hey I get it, but you NEED to be upfront about it.

5)Ability to communicate properly. Never assume that a woman can read your mind, speak up boy. You must be able to relay your limits, and convey any triggers you possess. This will save you so much heartache and disappointment in the future.

6)Emotional maturity
If your behavior coincides with that of a teenager...ya you are not emotionally mature.

7)Mental health
You need to be healthy in mind in order to give your submission fully. There is no shame in seeking help if you need it, just do not ever expect your Domme to be your therapist..they are not trained to take on this type of responsibility.

8)Generosity
Generous with your time, attention, effort, and finances. You must be willing to go the extra mile in submission. You cannot be a miser,and expect to succeed in service.

9)Sacrifice
Submission is all about serving the wants of another, so unless you are willing to base your service upon her will, than you will fail yourself, and your Domme. No one wants this, so please do not approach a woman to serve her if your intentions are entrenched in receiving service ie tit for tat. Holding back is a big no no. So long as what is asked of you does not exceed your limits, than you should take pleasure in providing. Sacrifice is a beautiful aspect of service..try it, you just might find that you like it :)

Feel free to leave comments gents, or any additions that you personally are aware of.

Feigning FinDom Ignorance

Gentlemen, gentlemen, gentlemen....

 Feigning ignorance as to what FinDom is, is not believable. 
Why?

1)You obviously found me, which means you have had to have noted the fetish term in my blogs or posts elsewhere

2)If you possess the intellect to navigate the internet, than you know full well how to google terms which you do not possess knowledge of

In this day and age of technology and advancements, I absolutely refuse to accept ignorance as a viable excuse. Why do I believe that males attempt to proclaim ignorance of the term?

1)They are too lazy to even use google

2)They do not want to pay tribute, so they hope that by feigning a lack of knowledge, they may get lucky and get some free talk, even if it is only an explanation of terminology 

This type of ploy has a zero success rate with me. Of course I am more than happy to snarkily refer you to google for your answer, but you will not receive any further notice than that. My time really is precious to me, and I refuse to waste it in such a manner. Besides, I expect, nay require that those who serve me possess a modicum of intelligence and initiative, so any who pose this question to me are simply reflecting that they are lacking in the qualities I seek in a submissive servant. 

You do not want to be found lacking do you? To be lacking, is to be a loser. Losers are not attractive potential applicants to the Sect of Sydney. I accept premium people only in my service.

I do understand that some are honestly new to the scene, therefore are to be expected to lack in the fundamentals of terminology, which is ok, but as soon as you deem yourself prepared to contact a FimDom...you should have already self educated. There is no acceptable excuse for laziness. Do better, be better!

Gift because Goddess says so

You may not know this about me, especially if you are new to the sect of Sydney, but I lend my efforts and time to a multitude of charitable endeavors throughout the year. I pride myself on giving back, and expect the gents who serve me, to support my charities with their wallets.

This year, my big push is to provide warmth to those less fortunate, and you my dear boys can aid me by purchasing blankets from my amazon wish list for donation. It is an inexpensive way to show me that you are a decent human being who is worthy of consideration of membership into my selective sect of servants. Truly there is no believable excuse you could think up to negate doing so. 

These blankets are less than $20 apiece, which is doable for even the brokest of jokes. I honestly don't care if you have to scrounge parking lots for pennies to purchase one..in fact that would most likely make me laugh. 

I expect this wish list to be cleared within a month, and no less. It is the least that you can do to please me, and that should be your primary goal, so get on with it gents...clear the list, and be a good boy for Goddess :) 

Ghosting time is near in FinDom

 Welcome to Goddess Sydney's Sect, where she is the

You know the saying about how the holidays are the best time of the year? Well in my experience, when it comes to the FinDom fetish scene, the holidays are the leanest times of the year.

Why? Simple, this is the time of year that most males ghost on out of the scene. They opt out early, so that they do not have to spend on and send to Dommes on the holiday. 

You know, Dommes are human right? We do grasp that most males have families and friends that they want to gift on the holidays. My issue with the holiday rush away, is that a male knows all year long when the holidays are coming, which means that they have every opportunity to sock away a bit on the side for their Domme. It really is that easy. Think ahead, and enjoy domination all year long! I mean, submission is one of your goals right, so why wouldn't you ensure continued ability to serve?

A lot of you males make the assumption that you can just pop back into a Domme's inbox after the holidays to take up where you left off, but you are making an ass of yourself. Dommes do remember who was there, and who bailed when gifts should have been forthcoming, so don't act all surprised and pissy when you are denied return entrance.

I realize that a great many of you guys have been brainwashed into believing that since you hold the wallet, that you hold the reins as well, but you are forgetting exactly who holds the ultimate power. Women owe you nothing, and even a wad of cash will not guarantee that you will be accepted back into the fold, so why bother taking that chance? Think to the future by stashing a little bit away before the holiday craze. Surely you have loose change at night, or the ones you got back when you broke a twenty. Take that money and put it in a jar, an envelope, or somewhere safe. Practice this all year long, and by the time the holidays roll around, you will have an impressive gift to give your Domme. It is a win win for you! 

Thank me by sending amazon gift cards to mzsydney34@yahoo.com

Financially Spoiling Women

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Lucky cucks love Sydney Claire

There is only 1 good type of beta cock...do you know what kind it is?

A locked cock! Beta cocks should not be free to roam around unhampered. That would be a travesty of nature. 

Women do not want beta cocks in their beds. They want manly men with confident cocks :) and that certainly is not you, now is it lol

There is honor in being a locked cock though. Being chastity bound signifies that you are intelligent enough to recognize that your cock is worthless to women, and that your purpose will be not be served with your dicklet, atleast not sexually.

Your purpose entails a pants on approach, with a stern reminder that the only reason a woman would reach into your pants, is to get to your wallet. You best serve women by being a walking wallet. A mute ATM that spits out money for women and the men they choose to get down and dirty with, so while you may never be the leading man in a woman's bed, you can still play a vital role in providing pleasure for her. 

The most ironic part of the entire scenario, is that lovers usually come and go, but so long as you are enriching a woman's life by financing her happiness..you will be the last man standing, and that is definitely something to take pride in. You will play a role that rewards you with years of service, and service is your ultimate goal isn't it? That is why you are here yes? You want to serve more than anything else. I am offering you that prime opportunity right now.

Come pledge your intent to benefit my life as a lucky cucky. Take up the challenge to keep me and my lover drenched in goodies. Dedicate yourself and your wallet to the purchase of items that aid in my seduction of real men. That will be your purpose. That is your destiny. This is fate. You are here right now reading my words for this very reason. You have longed for the fantasy, now embrace the reality.

Prove your intent by sending an amazon gift card to mzsydney34@yahoo.com with a note relaying "I want to be a lucky cucky"