Welcome my poppets, puppets, and pervs
Is today your first time sliding into Sydney Sphere? If so, than you should know right from the start that this is not a space for the average gooner. Jack and gos, just aren't going to get their fix up in here :)
This is the realm where you come to learn obedience to Sydney Claire. A place where you take that first step towards becoming a SynAddict. I am here to make you mine. Taking over your mind, cock, and wallet. Afraid?
You should be, because my claws will sink so deep into your psyche, that you will never fully be rid of your unquenchable desire to serve my every wanton wish.
Do you know what human beings have in common, other than the physical obvious? They want to belong. They want to feel as if they have a purpose. They want to believe that their lives have meaning. This is natural. It is completely normal, and nothing to be ashamed of. I get it, honestly I do.
It feels good to belong to ME. Being Sydney Claire's servant gives meaning to your life. Serving Sydney Claire provides you with a purpose and direction in life. All that you sought, all that you NEED, can be found at the feet of Sydney Claire.
Serving me is the most natural expression of self. No more feeling alone, divided, despised. Here you will know your place. You will feel accepted. You will know happiness.
I love when the lost and misguided find their way to the fold. Aren't you tired of pretending to be something and someone that you aren't? Imagine how wonderful it would feel to finally be at peace with who and what you really are? You don't have to hide from me. I already know that you belong.
No more fear. You will find yourself fearless in your service to me. Every step forward is one step closer. You want this. You need this. This is where you belong.
Close your eyes my little puppet and imagine how good it will feel to just let go. Let go of your everyday struggles. Strip yourself of the chains society constrains you with. Allow yourself to relinquish that false ego weighing you down. You were not meant to stand before me, you were created to crawl at my feet. You are a servant, and I am your superior. This is your life.
Giving your all, being your best. All of this is possible. The fantasy can become your reality when you are in my presence. No holding back. No turning back. You belong. You are mine! Say it out loud for your ears to hear, and your soul to accept. You belong to Sydney Claire. Sydney Claire is your most holy Goddess. Sydney Claire owns you.
Welcome to all who have found themselves here :)
Take a seat on my couch, relax, and prepare yourself for some hard cold truths today.
Day in, day out tends to blur into a revolving screen of repetitiveness when it comes to the fetish scene. The majority of what I see are complaints. Disgruntlements lodged by females and males alike. Of course they differ in the wording somewhat, but they all boil down to the same basis.
Before I get into the nitty gritty, allow me to share this disclaimer
*Not all women, and not all men*
Now that we have gotten that piece of business out of the way, let's delve into the pot shall we?
The findom, and a greater aspect of the femdom you see playing out online is commercialized. Meaning that it is a business. An occupation. A source of livelihood. It is about the financial return upon products advertised. In these cases, the product is a fantasy. Men are the customers, and women are the sellers of fantasies, whether that be via clips, or sessions. This is why broke and fetish do not mix. No money means no product purchased, and that negates the need for existence in the scene.
This is
reality, and regardless if you like it or not, it is just the way it
is. You cannot change that which is inexorable. Accept, adapt, or give
up. Those are your only options.
The overwhelming majority of people do NOT work for free. Do you? Bills must be paid and food must be bought. Compensation for time spent and effort expended is not an option, it is a requirement, and anyone attempting to procure a service sans the intention of rendering payment is a scammer. Are you a scammer?
For those whom cannot afford to pay, you honestly have no place here. I realize that you do not want to hear the truth of it, but it has to be said. Fetish is a luxury, and luxury has never been cost efficient.
It is comparative to vanilla dating in a financial sense. No money equals no date. Women are not seeking out men who bring nothing to the relationship other than their cock. The desire to be spoiled with gifts is in the very nature of women, so if you are not gifting(paying), you are not getting anywhere with women. This is why you are single, and this is why you will remain that way til you are able to do so.
The worst thing you can do in this situation is to get angry with women over it. It is not a woman's fault that she prefers men who are financially able and willing to enrich her life. The fault lies with you. Work harder, do better, earn more. Go back to school, snag overtime, seek out a second job if you have to, but do something, cause sitting back being pissed off at women will get you no where. Do you want to end up a lonely miserable misogynistic bitter incel?
Okay my Ladies, your turn.
Men in the scene do not give a flying fig about you, your circumstances, or your future. It doesn't matter to them if you are having a difficult time, or in desperate straights. They are here for the fantasy, and that is all. You exist to sate their desires, and when they walk away from the computer, you cease to exist in their minds. Sounds cold and sterile eh? It is the way of it though.
Do you think customers shopping in a brick and mortar store sit around thinking about how that business is doing financially, or even care if that business will be there the next time they want to shop, other than it being a minor inconvenience if they have to seek out a new store to shop at? This is the reality you face in the fetish scene. Men do not tend to be brand loyal. Their attention ebbs and flows when the market is saturated with an endless supply of shiny objects. Yes, you are more than that, but to men, you are not. They are just as happy to slip into someone else's inbox as they were yours. In fact, they thrill to the adventure of trying someone new, so please please please, do not place your hopes, dreams, and financial future in their single basket. Diversify :)
I am not going to get into the whys or hows the scene came to be this way, for it matters not since it would be damn near impossible to alter the course set at this point, and it would be cruel of me to mislead any of you as to the reality of how the fetish scene works right now. You can opt in, or opt out, but complaining about it serves no purpose. Accept, adapt, or give up.
The worst thing you can do at this point is complain about timewasters, advertise your inability to make rent, beg for money, or bitch about other women. You are selling a fantasy, not a sob story.
I hate to end posts on a negative note, so allow me to spread some positivity here. If you are a man, and you are willing to spend, you are golden, and if you are a woman who has a fantasy to sell, you are diamond!!
Welcome back for segment 3 in guiding you to giving me your best.
The goal obviously is to begin altering your mindset in order to best serve me, and make a positive impact on your life.
You are home
Open your door, and begin rolling your shoulders back, than forward slowly, and gently. Roll forward, inhale, roll back, exhale. Perform times 10. Feel your body inch by inch begin to relax. Ahh now this is better. Kick off your shoes by the door. Never walk through your home wearing shoes (google the studies which reveal all of the foul germs the bottom of shoes accumulate during a normal day).
Change your clothes
Removing the reminders of your workday is conducive to relaxation. Comfort is the goal.
Grab a glass off water
Hydration is key to maintaining health.
Music
Opt for a mellow tune. Remember that you are winding down, not revving up. Find a comfy spot to just squat for 20 minutes. Treat yourself.
Dinner
Eating early provides your body with extra time to digest before bedtime.
A heavy meal is not needed at this time. Keep it light and simple, and by all means do include some roughage.
Wash your dishes
Oh my lands did I say that? Yes I did. Of course most of you are used to the convenience of a dishwasher, but doing them by hand gets them cleaner, and clean is good.
Fun time
This is your slotted time for computer use, or watching a movie. Do try to include something educational. Expanding your base of knowledge is a good thing! Perhaps you may even take a few moments to watch the sunset. I especially love this time of day.
Lay your clothes out
Having your clothes set and ready after your shower in the morning saves you time. Develop this routine.
Bedtime
Do NOT stay up all night watching porn, and yes I know that some of you do that! Sleep is essential. Being well rested means that your morning mindset will be positive.
I realize that change is difficult, but getting into a routine is not a bad thing. You may complain that it lacks spontaneity, but the work week is not the time for it. Days off are for spur of the moment outings or such. Devoting yourself to doing and being better requires self discipline, which routine will aid you in molding. I want to change your viewpoint, and help you help yourself. Are you willing to try?
The decision is yours to make.
**If you are married, alternative actions might need to be taken in order to comply**
Hello and welcome to the sphere of Sydney Claire!
Today we delve into segment 2 of guiding you into giving me your best.
Breathe
You have left your dwelling, and get on your way to work. A man who works diligently, is a man who prospers.
The reason I advise you to breathe is that we all know how hectic and frustrating a task driving can be in this day and age. The roads are jam packed with people who possess neither manners, nor common sense. Do not emulate these folks.
Heading to work is a time for mentally gearing yourself up for whatever the day will bring, and if you allow others to negatively impact your mindset during this period, than the odds exponentially increase of your entire day being a shitshow, so set your radio to the station which manifests positivity for you.
Smile
Walk in the door of your employment, and greet your co-workers with a genuine smile...even if you detest their very existence. You set the tone.
Be grateful
Have you seen the unemployment numbers? I for one do not swallow the spoon fed lies in regards to all of the supposed job opportunities the media reports on. Every single day positions are lost to outsourcing, and automation, so consider yourself fortunate to be gainfully employed. Take a moment to reflect upon the blessing of a paycheck.
Honest effort
Do your job to the very best of your ability every single day. Do not be a slacker. Slacking is a poor reflection upon you as a human being. Some days will leaving you feeling as if no ever notices how much effort and time you put into doing your job correctly. Regardless, you will know it, and you can take pride in yourself for giving 100%.
Eat your lunch
Do not skip it. Your body needs to be nourished in order to promote peak performance. Peak performance ensures that you are not racking up medical debt, and lost time at work. Do try to drink some water :)
Stay late
If your assigned workload cannot be completed by clock out, than go the extra mile, and stay a few minutes after to get it done. A little overtime will not kill you.
Hit the road
Once you have clocked out for the day, leave your work behind you. This is YOU time. Time to clear your mind of distraction, and focus on relaxing.
Of course the traffic is just as bad going home as it was heading in, so be prepared. Never engage in the road rage fad, or waving the single digit hello. Your chore is to make it home safely, and that means leaving your damn cell phone out of sight while driving. We all know how tempting it is to quickly peruse the news or tap out a text, but DON'T. Listen to your tunes, and keep your eyes on the road.
Home sweet home
At last, yes!
TBC..hope to see you return soon :)
Good morning, afternoon, or even evening to you!
Welcome puppets, poppets, pervs, and curious pedestrians to the world and word of Sydney Claire.
Today is the day. What day is it? It is the day you are finally going to break free, and make some alterations in your way of thinking, which in turn will change your life in meaningful ways.
How does one begin? Which step is of prime importance? Fret not little chickadee, for I am here to guide you along the path.
Step 1
Wake up in the morning, and before you even open your eyes, give thanks, and be grateful for the blessings you have been given.
Now some of you sour duds may be of a mind that your life is an utter pile of steaming dog doo, and that you have nil to be thankful for, but you would be wrong. This type of negativity is one of the reasons why your life sucks dirty dishwater. You are the root cause of discontent in your life. YOU.
Sure it is easier to blame someone else for everything wrong in your life, but that is not what mentally healthy people do. You absolutely must own your decisions whether good or bad, right or wrong. Personal responsibility is a requirement, not simply an avoidable option. Of course some of you have been molded, even scarred by circumstances out of your control in your childhood, but using those experiences as a crutch and excuse for poor decision making is not helping you one little bit. Resolving lingering issues is your responsibility, and by resolving, I am referring to working them out and letting them go. Cease ceding power over your life to whatever, and whoever wronged you. Get into therapy if need be. Heal yourself in order to be whole. This process may take years, but that is ok, so long as you are putting in the work.
Moving forward
After giving thanks, open your eyes and smile. Yes I said smile. Happiness begins within, and radiates outward. Happiness is a positive goal, and how you go about achieving it is what gives you purpose. Life without purpose is a meandering meaningless journey. You want your life to have meaning don't you?
Get up out of bed slowly
Do not jump out of bed like you are in a race for your very life. Enjoy the moments of feeling your body coming alive for the day. Feel the languor of sleep dissipating. Stretch your body towards the ceiling, and allow your body to breathe in for a few seconds, then exhale for a few seconds. Wake your brain up gently like a lover worshiping your flesh.
Make your bed
Yes I realize that you are only going to mess it up later on, but that is not the point. This is you taking responsibility. This is you taking control of your life in small ways.
Relieve and clean
Release accumulated waste, and prepare yourself to wash away the filth from your flesh. Starting your day fresh and clean has a positive impact on your mindset.
Dress with pride
Take pride in presenting an orderly and neat appearance. Sloppy, and sloven does not suit you anymore. Neat has nothing to do with designer labels. Clean and pressed is what you are aiming for. I understand that some days you simply do not care how you appear to the public, and that is all fine and well for when you are staying in, or going to the gym, but looking well put together boosts confidence, and confidence promotes inner happiness. You want to be happy yes?
Eat
Feed your flesh. Eating breakfast makes your body happy. Note that I did not say gorge yourself. Overeating in the morning makes your day begin miserably, so moderate your intake, and try your very best to drink some water :)
Open your door
Smile, and get on your way
This is the first post in a series I will be sharing with you about how I guide those who devote themselves to serving me. Come back soon for the next installment!
Good Morning to all of you wonderful people who have found your way here to my slice of fetish spice :)
I read a tweet this morning (if you care to see it, you can search up my response to it) that I really feel needs to be addressed in depth, so let's go there shall we :)
Clip sites. Know them? Have you ever checked one out? Most of you probably have. What stands out about the featured front page models?
1)They are young
2)They are white
3)They are thin to fit
4)They are amply endowed in breast tissue
Is there a reason why this specific type is promoted heavily? Yes. Clip sites are a business, and big money making ones at that. They are successful for a reason. They are heavily invested in knowing the demographics of their customers, and their buying habits.
They have crunched the numbers over and over, along with recognizing the patterns of sales. They know which types of clips are best sellers, and which clip artists bring home the bacon to their table so to speak. Their business modal's success depends on them obtaining this information, and employing it to their benefit.
The mindset of clip sites is not personal. It is business, and the bottom line is revenue. They exist to make money, so it only makes sense that they are going to promote the hell out of the clip artists who insure the company's continuing financial future.
Is this fair to the women who do not meet the defined criteria...hell to the no, but it is what it is, and you nor I are going to change that anytime soon. Do you know why? Men are the target market, which means that they in essence are the deciding factor in who gets to be the artist featured front page, and the the type of female I outlined, is the one who the majority of men are attracted to. It is no inside secret that men are ruled by their cocks, so is it really so very shocking to see their physically ideal woman as the main page visual attraction?
Does this conclude that women who do not fit the mold cannot find financial success in selling clips, NO, but it does indicate that they will have to work harder to promote themselves. This is where social media outlets come into play. They will be your playground. A place where you control what you share, and who you promote in your personal space.
Social media accords you the ability to showcase your personality, and unique style. Take advantage of the opportunity! You are the virtual star of your account, so embrace it and shine bright like a diamond :)
In conclusion, what I am trying to convey is that allowing yourself to become angered due to what you declare unfair practice is only going to affect you. Clip sites are not going to rock the money boat for you or me. They are going to stick with what sells, and whether you or I like it, that is the way it is.
Good evening guys and gals..
Welcome to my spliced slice of the femdom sphere!
I am your host and most beloved Goddess, Sydney Claire
As the title of this post denotes, we (meaning I) am going to talk about how to make kinky connections. Now the connections I am referring to are not networking connections. I am speaking to the connections between Dominants and submissives.
Connections require time, effort, and trust. Ya ya ya, I know that some of you gents will loudly proclaim that you felt an instant connection with a Dominant, but that my poppets was lust. A lust to serve, to belong, even a lust to cum. It is most definitely not the type of connection which endures and deepens into a long term bond. This type of connection can be felt with numerous Dominants a day, ergo nullifying any significance.
Many a D's relationship will begin in the flames of cock wrenching lust, but the majority will sizzle and fizzle out like a cock snuffed of semen. It is what it is. Your intentions and focus determine whether or not something meaningful evolves from the exchange. If your goal is to get off and get going, than that is exactly what you shall do, regardless if the Dominant is predisposed towards erecting ties that bind you two. You do maintain a degree of control as to which way it all shall go. You can opt to do more, to be more. How? By reigning in control of the greedy instantaneous pleasure seeking skin sac bulging in your groin. Cut off power to it's circuitry, and open up dialogue which spotlights the Dominant as the focus of your full attention.
Take the time to get to know your prospective Dominant as a human being, rather than as the fetish dispenser most submissives view them as. Ground yourself with the truth that good things do come to those who possess patience. Patience is a powerful tool. Cultivate it carefully.
Meaningful relationships are not created within a night, or with a solitary tribute. You must be willing to invest your time and energy if you desire the intimacy of a Female Led Relationship. Just remember that if it comes easy, than it will dissolve as quickly as it came. The submissive you imagine as "lucky" is actually the submissive who has spent months, even years proving his intentions and supplying his unwavering devotion to a Dominant. I promise you that luck had nothing to do with his situation. He earned his current position through hard work. Are you prepared to do the same?
Locating a Dominant that is a good fit is difficult, and it should be. Yes little doves, you can wink your one eyed monster and find a woman to sate the demands of your mystery manmeat, but the emptiness of such an exchange leaves more than your balls depleted.
Social media, and risky even the not so risky news outlets publish pieces on how the casual connection is so much more fun, and sexy. That you should be the butterfly flitting around flower to flower depositing your nectar, but in the end, where does that leave you? It definitely does not bring a sense of fulfillment. It doesn't serve a higher purpose. It brings no lasting meaning at all.
What casual will do, is turn you into an empty shell that eventually will crumble and scatter in the wind. Anxiety and depression are the bedfellows of casual. Why would anyone want such a future for themselves?
My intent is not to rag on you, or make you feel bad, but do I think that this type of behavior is bad for you, YES. Human beings need connections. They need to feel a sense of belonging, and acceptance. They need the meaningful. Without meaning, a life serves no purpose. It becomes a wasted story best untold. Does that sound sexy? Does it sound like the recipe for happiness and success?
Perhaps you are not yet in a place upon your journey where maturity has bit you on the caboose, but fear not, you shall someday get there. Once there you will see that casual is cold and soul sucking worthless. It is then that you shall seek out only those whom have the possibility to mean more than a momentary erectile eruption.
I myself am way past the point of entertaining the wastrels of meaning. This means that I hold myself above the game playing BS that youth tend to engage in (and yes I see those of you who are middle aged still living that life). I have no aid, nor hope to offer those who will not see truth, but I do open my proverbial door to those whom possess the potential to become a worthy submissive to me. You decide...play games and burn out, or grow up and get to serving your purpose in this lifetime.
